Honesty about penis size

The big issue... or the heart of the matter as pointed out is what a lady's preference is and what make her get off. We ask because if it is a certain size or under I don't feel it at all. I have heard criticism saying that I should go ahead play with someone and not offend them. I don't mind having a conversation with someone at a party but I am not going to play with someone I cannot get off with. Of course that does wound some men knowing that ladies exist who cannot feel them. We know several who are in the LS just so they can feel something during sex. Thankfully, I am not in that boat but some ladies are and it can be pretty rough for them. The labelling and accusations can fly both directions when it comes to checking what's under the hood. Often the size queen is a size queen because she is jut put together that way.

The key is simply knowing who you are and also know that you will mesh with someone out there. The majority of the time you will not. Patience and respect just need to be hand in glove when looking for play partners.

I can’t believe I missed this the first time around.

I think every woman is different. I also think some women need the psychological fix of a large cock.

I’m more clitoral - even during anal. As long as I feel pressure on my clit, I’m going to orgasm.

There is a reason why I like to Trib other girls instead of receive oral. If I can get the right friction against a girl’s thigh - BOOM!

It works for the corners of tables, couches, sinks, countertops, pillows or even the heel of my hand.

Even during anal, I think I more get off on the man pushing my clit into the bed than I do from the sex. This is why I like “prone bone” anal or anal on my back with a vibe on my clit.

So... big dick... small dick... really doesn’t matter. I wouldn’t worry about it. There are plenty of us clit-centric girls around.

If a guy spends much time in the LS, he will soon learn it is all relative. I've had women pull my cock out and start thanking me because the previous few times out they ended up with "smaller" guys.

I have also been in group play where I eventually realized I was probably the smallest guy in the room, and thought to myself, "Ok, so this is what that feels like."

But let's be fair. There are just as many guys who suffer from penis envy as there are size queens. Always have been, always will be.

Personally I would neither ask nor tell penis size. I do not believe it is that important and in ver poor taste to ask. I am average and just happy to get hard and be able to play. There are too many superficial people out there who think theirs is gold... I am not impressed wth them nor do I feel guilty about not impressing hem....

I'm one of those who prefer an "average" length on a man, due to how my hysterectomy was done, and I would never consider laughing at, or ridiculing someone for having a shorter-than-average penis. I also can't take much in my throat, so I'd be thrilled to deep-throat someone to the balls!
I might push you out from g-spot orgasms, too, but I'd let you back in to give me another one.
I've been pleasantly surprised at how polite, honest, and straight-forward people seem to be in the LS. I was nervous that it would be full of people who just want to bang only hot people, and as many as possible. I'm so glad to be SO wrong about a group.
Fortunately, we've got pix here, so you know what you're getting. Hubby and I are really hoping to find a couple to have more of a connection with, but sex will certainly be a factor.

Asking whether or not cock size Matters in this lifestyle, is like asking whether or not understanding the alphabet might come in handy in a spelling bee.

There will never be a shortage of people willing to tell you whatever they think will make you feel better about yourself. The only truth you need is the truth you have already found through your own personal experience.

C, the lady of the couple, says that women that are solely focused on the size of a man's penis are shallow and you don't waste your time on someone so focused on their experience, as they won't be worried about yours. As others have said, foreplay, oral and other skills are all major parts of a sexual experience, an erect and large penis are simply whipped cream. And not all women want a partner with an enormous penis.

J, the gentleman, says don't invite asshats to your party if you are the host. You have control of whom gets an invite. If they act like a jerk in public, they probably suck in bed anyway. I suffered with erectile dysfunction for over a decade before having an implant in March of this year. I am well aware of how much self doubt and shame can ruin your experiences. Don't worry about your size just concentrate on your partner having a good time.

You have a lot going on in your post and I'd pretty much have to write a novel to thoroughly address it. I'm making soup and cleaning my house, so novels are not on my schedule today.

The short answer is that cock size matters but how it matters depends on each woman. There is a certain kind of orgasm I can't have during PIV sex with a man with a short cock and I'd be pushing you out when I did come, likely from a G-spot orgasm, because my strongest muscular contractions are right around where the head of a 4" penis would be at maximum depth.

Would we be a good fit? Not really, because of those muscular contractions. Would it still be fun? Probably, if you like women, like sex, know how to maximize your partners' pleasure with foreplay and the best positions for your particular length and girth, and know how to stay present in your body. This isn't a high school locker room and while some women are size queens, most of us can roll with whatever you've got and wouldn't dream of ridiculing you.

Good afternoon everyone. Posting for the first time, I've got some major questions that I'd like to ask to help me, the husband, decide if I want to pursue this further. I've been reading through some of the posts on here and other sites about penis size (or lack thereof) and how some people really dragged down guys with said lack of size, making some pretty horrendous and shitty comments about how if you're not a certain size, you're rendered pretty much inadequate. I have no illusions of grandeur. I realize how small I am. I am below what most would consider average size, around 4 inches. My wife says I have girth, but from my perspective, I can't see it.

Is it enough to ask if you, as a woman and a potential partner, if you do not care for a size like mine, just say no thank you or don't say anything at all and be on your way? Earlier in my life, I've been laughed at and criticized because of my size and it's taken a toll on my confidence. It's one thing to not like your own perceived flaws, but to have them pointed out and laughed at from another person is a shitty thing to do. I haven't experienced that in the scene, in what little we've been a part of, but I'm afraid it's going to happen sooner or later. I deserve sexual pleasure like everyone else, but I don't want to be pushed aside and ridiculed because I am not as large as some. My second question is, how should I respond if this happens, especially in a public setting? I don't want to come off as the asshole because I would have shouted at someone. But at the same time, I don't want to be disrespected because I wasn't someone's preferred size.

I'm asking these things so I can prepare myself if anything should arise. For the most part, people in the scene seem to be pretty nice. It's just a few bad apples that I'm afraid of running into and making it difficult for me, especially, to enjoy myself. I have no worries that my wife will find playmates. She's an amazing person whom people have found very attractive. I'm just hoping those that choose to play with us are disappointed me. And if they are, I certainly hope they keep that to themselves.