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Nudist Park/Resort ???
We are a long time swinging couple (about 14+ years now) and we are thinking about going to a semi local Nudist Resort / Park for a day trip.. If you live in Virginia you may know…
by letztrythis15replies1,390viewsTime wasters
Anybody ever deal with people wasting their time and money on a meet and never had intentions of actually showing up?
by SwingsetinOC22replies1,598viewsWhat Would It Be?
Considering your swinging experiences during the past thirty days, if it were a drink, what would it be?
by Tramp_ATL12replies998viewsSwinging Boaters, particularly live aboard
We would love to combine two of our favorite activities, swinging and live aboard boating. We cruise in our small cruiser several times a year, and would love to find a couple(s)…
0replies450viewsDistance Problems
Hey, has anyone noticed the distances between cities being wrong or off? We have looked at profiles that say they’re are 50 Miles away which isn’t bad when we could split the diff…
by KingDMelonE2replies555viewsSeeking LS friends - Celebrity Equinox (Miami) June 23-30, 2018
We will be cruising on the Celebrity Equinox June 23-30, 2018 … sailing out of Miami. If you are on-board, definitely look us up! We will also be staying on in Miami a couple of n…
by melontstr3replies463viewsSnoody People
How do you approach the "Better than thou" swingers without being an arrogant asshole such as myself? The swingers at clubs you walk up too and introduce yourself "Hey I am so and…
7replies636viewsAsking for pictures
We have a lot of the men who reply asking for nude pics of my wife. She does not want nude pics sent before he meets them and ther is chemistry. One guy actually told her “ you ar…
7replies774viewsNot interested, thank you.
No one is entitled to an answer, specially single men. I get that, I really do. But, telling someone you’re not interested can save a lot of time and shows you as someone polite,…
2replies549viewsBillboard #1 song
Go to en.wikipedia.o rg/wiki/List_of_Billboard_number-one_singles Find the song that was #1 on the day you were born. Just for fun.
3replies480viewsIs swinging illegal or something?
So I live outside a small city (pop: 1800) and the analogy they use is "if you fart, neighbor at the end of the street knows what it smells like before you". I live not in the cit…
35replies2,298viewsDream Music Concert
If you could create one mega show with 5 living and/or deceased musicians..... Rock, Blues, Rap, Soul, Jazz, Country, etc. One opening comic. One opening act. Two more bands/singe…
by 8inchcable11replies1,003views0 lbs Profile. I never look at them
By my count, this has been discussed a gazillion and three times. Most of the threads discussing this have been deleted with The Great Forum Purge of 2018. Perhaps someone will co…
by Goodenuff10replies1,217viewsErotic Photography
Hi! We are looking for a Washington, DC area photographer who takes erotic/fetish photographs. We are looking, at a minimum, a sexy boudoir shoot for her and a kinky photo shoot a…
3replies722viewsGroup bulk messages to promote an event
Hey everyone, I am looking for a way to do a bulk message in our group. I have not found one but I am pretty sure I have seen them coming to me before. We have an event we want to…
4replies612viewsSame day play
Anybody had any luck when late in the day the decide they want to play that night but don’t know how to put it out there. Im a single guy but i play with several married females a…
6replies874viewsThe Lifestyle and STDs - some newb questions
My wife and I are new to the lifestyle, and we're wondering how common of an issue STDs are, and how you go about keeping yourself safe from this kind of thing. Any advice from ve…
20replies1,943viewsLocation Setting
Has anyone had issues with the location setting on their profile? I changed our location to a city we will be visiting soon and then tried to change it back to our hometown howeve…
by Shark1611replies1,461views- 6replies550views
Straight, Bi, or Bi curious
We don't get it. We read profiles and see a LOT of females that say they are Bi curious. And some males. Folks here is what Bi curious really means. You have NOT played with someo…
28replies2,226viewsFree members viewing profiles
I thought that free members could no longer see other profiles. Why is it that we are having free members in our list of members that have viewed our profile ? Has something chang…
4replies715viewsBlocked profiles
We sometimes click on a profile and it says "you have blocked this user" but in fact we have not blocked them. I only have two people blocked on this site. Does anyone else have t…
by funlyfriend6replies613viewsPic Subscription Phone Sex stay anonymous?
we have a question. We (wife and hubby) have been trying to think of a way to send sexy pictures and/or used underwear or do phone sex (we get many requests!) to fans but do not w…
by JamesnDolly4replies536viewsHow do I change my entire profile
No longer with partner. Need to change name and all content.. How do I do that?? Angel
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Old Pictures
I'm sure the topic has come up but I looked for it in the headings and couldn't find one . I understand for most of us, when we were younger, more fit, weighed less , those are th…
by ZeroDrama5301replies597views- 2replies505views
Archived emails
We have noticed that to look old email correspondence that they have been deleted. Archived email only goes back 12 months. SURPRISE !!!!
0replies420viewsWhat are you reading (erotica, biography, textbook, comedy, thriller, etc.)
This was always one of my favorite threads. I'm currently reading Under Magnolia: A Southern Memoir by Frances Mayes, the author of Under the Tuscan Sun. I've just started this on…
92replies7,762viewscontact info in free profiles
So we have noticed quite the uptick in free members putting an email address, kik, etc into their profile due to the current restrictions on free members which is not allowed, at…
by Choose44574replies3,524viewsWhy is SFO so dead on SLS?
Having seen the LS scene in ATL/NYC/Chicago I had similar or better hopes from SFO. City to People on SLS ratio wise SFO is a let down. Who else has similar experience?
by koolfriend113replies1,370viewsDiscretion and face or sexy images online
Hello all, For those of us who require extreme discretion, I had a question for you all. I've found a lot of people like to share face pics on Kik rather than in the private galle…
by voltaire19814replies674viewsIn Sand Springs, Okla
In May me and the better half are going to be in Sand Springs Oklahoma May 6th through the 9th, we were wondering if there was any parties going on or get-togethers in that area o…
2replies445viewsHas anyone else had their profiles EDITED ??
Has anyone else had their profiles EDITED ?? More knee jerk reactions or money grab?
by yolocouple4u6replies805viewsCasual avoided topics
Is there anything about yourself you don't mention when getting to know potential playmates or random people in swing environments ? I ask my husband not to talk any politics for…
by ZeroDrama5304replies647viewsFree Profiles
What's going on with the free profiles.... I know the book answer of sls protecting themselves.. blah blah... I have met and or talked to some very nice and down to earth people t…
by wildohiocpl4replies650viewsSeriously SLS?
Free members can no longer participate because of FOSTA? Could you be anymore over the top? The whole world is becoming ridiculous and I can't believe SLS is participating in the…
by NewHobby191replies9,145viewsLifestyle podcast suggestions
I spent several hours in the truck today and searched "swinger" on the IPhone podcast app for my phone. I was surprised at the number that came up. I tuned into several with "Spir…
by dreamsofdirt10replies1,048viewsYO—SITE ADMIN—LOOK HERE AND REPLY PLEASE
I've gotten some private communication from Wayne on the topic. In short, and this is my own paraphrasing - the site has gone bonkers in an effort to protect itself from perceived…
3replies744views911 call Need of advice and assistance
New with the "lifestyle'. Single straight male looking for fun, honest, down to earth people to share like wants and needs. Not asking alot, right? Here is what I am experiencing,…
by Singlemanluv4replies640viewsAre threads disappearing for a reason, or just a house cleaning?
We're relatively new to the forums and have enjoyed reading through some of the older posts. Today, many are gone. Is this normal?
by dreamsofdirt56replies2,633viewsRoommate.
I have been ask to move n with a couple. He is straight she is bi hot wife. I don’t have to work. They will take care of all my needs. Believe me, they have the means. The house,…
by Ironman19751replies548viewsFOSTA taking action.
Several pages have been seized by the FBI in collaboration with other government agencies. Backpage has been seized by government agencies over the new FOSTA law passed last month…
13replies1,545viewsSome profiles.
I’m met here and I can’t believe some of the profiles. If you and your spouse are 300 pounds each, why would you expect a 175 muscular billionaire join you for fun? I understand y…
14replies1,211viewsSafe website for erotic photo prints and books
We've gotten back from Desire Pearl and had the Erotic photo shoot, bought the flash drive. Now searching for a safe website that makes nude prints and books and maybe a canvas. A…
4replies594viewsCum Ice Cubes
I have a swingers party idea involving cum ice cubes for the willing ladies. Good idea? Bad idea?
by Willy6000028replies2,052viewsWho has the hottest profile pic?
Some good ones on here. Who’s got the hottest profile pic?
by clubhoppers4replies767viewsWe're slingers!
My wife and I laughed our asses off at this commercial today... https://youtu.be/FC8IWkV3u5w
by BigCh33z1replies618viewsWA Biker Meet and Greet
Come join us for a Biker meet and greet with lifestyle, swinger friendly riders to discuss summer events. On April 14th 2018 at 7:00 pm at Pub 44 in Lynnwood Washington. 19720 44t…
by Darrnkare2replies508views15 things I have learned in 10 years on these forums.
These 10 years have been quite a journey. It will be a while before I can say whether it has genuinely added to our lives, or taken a toll on them. As for these forums, and making…
by pixie_lust27replies1,882views
