POLL: Oregon / Washington ???

Here in Vegas you go to the tourists and almost all sex is in the tourist's hotel rooms. We have nice house and have only played in our house once in two years.

California is not hype, it was truly paradise for a while. My wife and I have been married for thirty years and have been swingers in an open marriage for thirty years. California was a free love sexual paradise until the state got invaded by the east coast liberals.

Texas was the next best sexual paradise at the time. I have no idea what Texas is like today. Florida is full of old swingers and nudists and some old men with trophy wives that play with the single women at clubs with the husband watches.

We have tried to bring the old days of free love back here in Vegas but its gone, no group fuckfests anymore.

Thanks for the input ??

missmolly , what you say about WA sounds like what we’d like to have around us to check out. Talking online is cool, but we’d like to try taking it to the next level! We didn’t really like how “hyped up” CA was, but it would still be nice to have a variety to explore.

Ncal , we tried living in Vegas but didn’t try swinging there. We had a hard time finding a place to rent where we would actually want to bring people. We’d probably rather go there to play? It’s hard thinking about trying to live in Vegas again, the dry weather was messing with the skin on our hands which made us kinda feel not so sexy. I’m not sure we’d try Vegas again unless I was going to be a Cirque du Soleil performer and was certain we were going to have a place we would like to entertain guests.

The Seattle area has two clubs, one with parties four days a week and the other twice a month. There is also the CSPC, which combines kink with their sex parties and is just ramping up again after being closed for quite awhile. There are also multiple meet and greets, regular parties and groups, and a fairly crowded field of potential playmates. Up my way, not much of anything until you cross the border.

I have no opinion on Oregon.

Swinging is over almost everyone in America. The more liberal the state is the less people are into sex. We moved from California where swinging was hot a heavy until the liberals invaded and the internet and single men destroyed it. Great in the 80's through about 2006.

Living in Vegas we have played with couples from Washington state. They say the same thing swinging is dead where they live. We just played with a couple from New Jersey on Friday who said the same thing about their state.

If you want old fashion swinging/ full swap you need to move to a tourist destination like Vegas.

If you want the lifestyle where its just a social event and flirt without sex then you can move anywhere.

We are picking where we want to live long term, and would like it to be in a state where there is a vibrant LS community.

When I looked at the hot dates, I saw that most nearby were in Washington (or California but we're not wanting to move there) - not much in Oregon.

Anyone have any input about that? Seems to be a sign there are more people interested in swinging in WA? We are deciding whether to settle in WA or Oregon...

So I guess, its a poll: In your opinion, is the LS community more active and present in Oregon or Washington?

Thanks for chiming in, this will help us make some important choices!

P & K