While it’s a good thing to take the preferences of others into consideration, the most interesting people have their own identity.
Being blunt, it’s my opinion that there are partners and there are stunt cocks. The people interested in only being a stunt cock? Not my thing.
Intelligence, personality, humor is what gets your foot in the door. From that point the menu opens up.
I’d take this question to someone above my pay grade like Good Golly In the Better Profiles conversation, and some of the guys in Single Male Success.
That said, what people want reminds me of a fingerprint. Unique.