One of the things that made me stop evaluating photos for the site is the number of toilets I saw in the background, or the single guys taking dick photos WHILE SITTING ON THE POT. Sometimes with floaters in the bowl. Gag
Makes me think that the couples who have 3 meals worth of fast food wrappers piled up on the dresser in the background aren't so bad...
There are some pictures here, that I wish I never saw. But, to each their own with how unkept they and/or home is.
Everyday we see this either online, meet n greets, hotel parties, etc. It's too bad there isn't a way to enter weight ranges similar to age ranges. There have been meet n greets & hotel parties where we've turned around and walked out only to have fun with each other. We have to side with the new idea of banning pajamas & slippers on airlines lol!
OP - We were invited to a house party by another cpl we had played with before. Don't think the other hubby really vetted where we were going, but when we got there, I won't use the word sketch but 95% of the people were ones we typically wouldn't have played with. It was a little awkward to say the least. Lesson learned
Oh Yes.. we see same from all our years swinging and YES started in south Florida where people took pride in dressing up . going to clubs, dancing and then home in bed!
So what we do especially on SLS is we each go through the IMs who reach out to us weekly and in fact just did it this AM.. we look at all profiles and IMs and photos.. if it is NOT what we ask for or what we expect we flat out tell them so .
Kathy gets more requests from guys who just dont get how to act or even present themselves.. those that do we thank you.
KUDOS to those that get it that have put the time effort and well just everything in their photos, well dressed, and profile content. you are keepers?
6zCouple, you’re not wrong.
There are things that make us scratch our heads and quickly move on when we see other people's profiles, and I'm sure there are things about our profile and your profile that make others scratch their heads. Sometimes it's not even pictures alone. Profile words for various reasons matter to many people (including us) as well. It's just how it is, I'm afraid. Good luck!
Okay this is a bit of a gripe I have with the community. What is up with all the people that do not make themselves presentable in your pictures that are supposed to entice. There's some people that look rough as shit. There's some people that look like they haven't even showered let alone bought any new clothes within the last decade. Look I get that everyone's different and that everyone has their own comfort level, however, if you going to sit there and post half naked or fully naked pictures of yourselves, then at least take the time to make them enticing. There have been some that I've run across that look like people straight out of skid row. No one is going to want to bang that. No one is going to just say, "it looks like crap but hey it's a piece of ass so I'll do it".
This is the frustrating part for us and the reason why we haven't hooked up as much as we have liked. Have you run across anything like this? Maybe it's the region where I'm in. I look back at Southern Florida and I wish I had the pool of people that are down there up here.
