As a SM playing with couples at times, I've only been asked not to last very long. After a few meetups with them the wife of the couple admitted to me that the husband is a quick shooter and was afraid to look bad to the wife. They eventually let me last as long as I needed or wanted thank God cause she was sexy.
I met a two couples who had similar ideas, one couple would have his wife face down on the bed naked and spread with no lights on. She for sure looked very hot, nice ass, it was fuck cum and go. maybe did that 5 times in a year. The other couple also wanted cum and go, he couldn't give her sperm so guess that was my gig, that was a couple years worth of good ol pussy. Never knew why, sloppy 2nds came to mind? But worth it to help anyway I could LOL
Just to add to what I was saying the reason I say 30 mins or so is good Is that most guys I have been with usually either make me orgasm quick and not after that at all, or they do not at all give me an orgasm, after a little while lacking a better word, it gets repulsive. If a guy could keep me cumming time after time I might keep them all night but in 29 years, I have only had 2 or 3 guys that did that for me had a lot claim they could and they fell short, and I fill as if I can cum pretty easy with the right circumstances. Most just want plain old missionary and do not want to take extra steps to make it something different, which is why we got into the LS in the first place...
Thanks everyone.
I wasn't rushed out after sex.
Picking a time to meet was rushed and then from entering their house to fucking was rushed, but after was just like any other time I have had sex where the woman cools off slowly and she doesn't want the guy, or guys in this case, to leave while she is cooling off.
Again, I do not care if a couple is in a hurry. I am fine with just running in, do it, and run back out like a tom cat in an alley, if that is what they want . Or, I can do it like a date and spend the day with them and end with sex and even spend the night. I am fine with almost anything. It is up to them.
They said they do not give certs.
I know they liked me, if for no other reason than I showed up on time, 5 hours after I spoke to them on the phone. And, I'm only 20 minutes away. They both complained about 90% of SM not showing up.
My only guess is, I did notice she was a lot more comfortable than he was. She was far more into it. So it might be that he has a list of boundaries that he does not want her to cross and she is the " shut up and let me fuck him" type. He might see longer than 5 minutes as too close to love making. He might feel threatened if it goes on for too long.
Best guess I have. I was just surprised he didn't spell this out before I came over .
I just thought I would ask in case wanting a guy to cum fast was common in swinging.
Good for you. Patience pays off.
If they're members here, you should consider asking them for a certification. Just something that indicates they met you and you are a real person is all that would be necessary, like:
"We met Ymichael14 and verify that he is real."
Anything more would be up to what they feel comfortable with saying. A certification for a SM goes a long way for many people considering meeting others on this site.
YM: Good for you. You made it happen. Now go get more.
I wouldn't read too much into it. Some couples love the experience of forbidden, fast, and "dirty" sex. It fulfills their desires to be slutty or mechanistic. Others may have small times frames to play and thus want it to go quickly.
Enjoy!
Five mins would not be good for me, but after a half hour or so I am ready for nice load of cum, if it is anal I am good with 10 mins max If the guy comes over, I like to start with a blow job till he cums in my mouth then give him time to recover then start to fuck for a half hour or so until he cums again after him being at house for an hour and half I am good, then my husband gets the benefits of what I just enjoyed. I do enjoy a quicky if I am out at the bar dancing with a hot guy and he makes the move, I signal to husband that I am going to the truck I take the guy to the truck, sometimes he is done in 5 to 10 mins, I am good with that in those cases. Just to invite a guy for 5mins and run him out does not seem like it would be worth the time for him unless he knew that was what the fantasy involved was. We have met a lot of guys that like the idea of stopping by for a quicky and sometimes it works well for me because me being bad gives me a hot story to tell husband when he gets home from work. That thought might make me cum more than a long session of sex. I guess it depends on what their fantasies are
The only reason I've heard of a couple wanting the extra male to cum quick, they also wanted him to leave immediately after too. This was because the husband wanted a creampie to eat. The wife got her pleasure from feeding hubby the creampie and then hubby screwing her after he had licked her clean.
So you won't have to listen to me complain about that any longer.
But, something strange happened and I'm just wondering if this is normal.
MFM. I am the SM. They didn't want to chat first or meet first.
I start fucking her and they both tell me I have to cum quickly. I don't have a problem with cumming in 5 minutes, but I never met a woman who only wanted 5 minutes.
Is this normal in a threesome?
I don't care. If they told me ahead of time they only wanted 5 minutes, I would have agreed. I just found it an odd request.
Maybe it is a boundary? She can fuck guys, but she is not allowed to enjoy it?
