Wives that have boyfriends

townhousesocials - you absolutely have your right to your own opinion, as do we. We've been in the LS for 20 years, and you're right, it only takes one time. But we've seen just as many relationships (if not more) break up from couple play activities. Solo play and open marriages are not unique to that phenomenon. In any case, just wanted to say that we do indeed respect your input and opinion on this. Apologies if that response came across as discounting of it. Carry on. :)

Getting back to the basenote, we both have what could loosely be called BFs or GFs, but it's more like they are regular "fans". There are guys that enjoy playing with the Mrs on a somewhat regular basis at parties and women that enjoy playing with me. Most of that sort of interaction ends when we leave the party though.

It took a couple of years after our first full swap to even do separate room play. We both have good imaginations so hearing each other having fun from a nearby room and imagining what happened is really hot, as was talking afterwards about what actually happened. It's easy, for me at least, to understand the separate dates appeal even if we never wind up doing it.

Everyone is certainly entitled to their opinion. Keep in mind though that most vanilla people would think that any form of swinging will put their relationship at risk. It doesn't make it any more correct than any other opinion, including mine. Ditto with having BFs or GFs.

@Calcan we all have a right to our own opinion my opinion might not be what you want to hear. And that's just fine but what I have seen and what I have heard it eventually will end up with someone getting hurt.

I have lots of acquaintances in their '80s and some in their '90s that are still in this lifestyle that believe the same. You both are in your 40s I'm in my 60s and have been in this lifestyle this for a while this might be working for you now and might have works for you for many years as you say. but it only takes that once and you both will fail again I have the right to my own opinion.

This lifestyle has no respect anymore and there's no such thing as etiquette this lifestyle is not a free-for-all. Again I have the right to my own opinion.

While not for everyone, townhousesocials, this has worked and continues to work, for us. For many, many years. Nothing is one size fits all, and as a rule of thumb we think it's a mistake to speak in certainties like that.

I would love to give it a try but Kourtney wouldn't do it.

I would love to give it a try but Kourtney wouldn't do it.

I would not suggest this this will end in failure couples that swing together Stay Together.

Sign me up, I'll be the other guy or bull......

I would like to be the boyfriend in this scenario.

Would love to find a regular.

I'd love to be someone's regular guy.

@Funwife4you, Great relationship, your wife must be quite the flirt? I'd like to hear the story of how they met at Target and how did the conversation progress that took them to your bedroom or should that be a new thread you can start?

Pleaser, there are lots of bi guys looking for a boyfriend

Why can't I be someone's bf, ??

Happy it is working for you. My wife had a TV for years. The otheagainr hubby fucked that up. I had a regular guy that came over every Wednesday to fuck for about a year. We are looking to do that

Funlyfriend, it's all good. She is content with just both of us now when she used to manage 3 or 4. He gets jealous when she talks about the past....

Wife doesn't have a boyfriend but does play alone occasionally with a couple of guys. She is having one over today for some hot sex. When he leaves I cum home and enjoy her some more.

Seeking, is that good or bad.

Wife has a steady boyfriend for 6 years, spends many overnights and some weekends with him. In the beginning it was hot, now its like she is married to both of us..

Male half here. I had two couples like this. One was a trucker who wanted his wife taken care of when he was away. Sometimes he would listen in on the phone. With the other couple she and I would go on dates. When she returned home full of cum and smelling like sex they would have a hot time
finishing of the evening. Was great

Love to be the Bf

no, but I wish I did

We both want her to have a BF

For many years, my wife had a boyfriend she'd see occasionally, and sometimes we'd have a threesome; for awhile, she had two. I also had a girlfriend I'd see regularly, and sometimes we'd have a threesome with my wife.

I'd love to try this.