Local People

[quote=RonKathy]Because even a handful use forums.. look in your area and reach out. We have when in MI/ Novi area with great success![/quote]Well it helps that she is absolutely gorgeous!! Lol

603, this is not the place to solicit others. Best to use the hot date postings for that. Good luck.

Thought I'd pop in and say hello, in case anyone is looking for a nice, new shiny friend in New Hampshire for the upcoming New Year! I have had zero luck over the years to find quality people to spend time with who aren't within a 1-hour driving distance, but I'm back and trying again. I live near Bretton Woods, in case there's any snow bunnies out there in need of a quality friend. I also give a great apres ski massage!

Good luck out there, Merry Christmas, and Happy New Year!

J n K you may have better luck posting some recent photos of you BOTH rather than three of her from 2006…that alone will turn most others away. Good luck.

Hmm Joe and Kathy must be your area.. we lived in 2 states and still maintain a home in the second one... we always play local and within our area we live.

We would love to find a local couple to enjoy but so many have a 75 mile rule why is that

Because even a handful use forums.. look in your area and reach out. We have when in MI/ Novi area with great success!

SLS curse I guess even all that post here no one was closer than 380 miles, LOL

We're as busy as ever but most of our lifestyle friends live a few hours away.

I have found luck on Facebook groups.

I realize you didn't ask for advice about your profile, but I think your problem might be your profile.
You need to decide what you are and what you are looking for.
You are either bi, or straight. Your wife is either involved, approves of you doing this alone or she doesn't know you are doing this.
Saying you want a relationship to evolve to the point to where they can meet your wife and talk her into the lifestyle sounds creepy.

Nice to meet other people who used to be in an active LS area, but after covid, nothing.
Everyone on here keeps acting like I'm not smart enough to figure out how to search.
My suggestion is to try Fetlife.
They are very active in my area. Munches and parties all around me almost everyday of the week.
I got accepted to attend a BDSM/kink/ swing party in my area at the end of this month. No idea what that will be like. Apparently, it is BDSM/kink group that has a swing party once a month. Threesome while being flogged? I have no idea.
I can't find swing clubs, parties ,meet and greets or people in my area, but I can find BDSM/Kink munches,parties and BDSM/kink people that swing.
No idea why all the swing people ran away but the BDSM/kink people stayed.

Have heard that Covid did a number on the LS. We can't really speak to that

Overed we feel the same way. There used to be M&G’s and house/pool parties all the time. We don’t even read about them any more. We have said this in the past and everyone on here said we’re not trying hard enough. The truth is Covid killed the LS in our area. Also some folks don’t have the time or money to travel a couple of hours to a hotel take over. So we understand your thoughts.

Pretty much given up on LS stuff.

People were way more enthusiastic back in 2020 when we made an account. Not sure if we are aging out of things or if those people still into the LS around here have already filtered us out, but there is just 0 interest.

Between that and other life priorities, LS is just not worth much time or consideration.

Also, list yourself as bi after reading your profile. Good luck!

Well you are not alone. We are finding it more and more difficult to find people in our area that are not fakes or just unattractive. Have you tried posting Hot Dates to see if you connect with anyone that way?