Pussy Providers

Sorry you had a bad experience, we learn from the bad experiences and we move on. Those of us who are bi are already aware of everything you have stated. For those who are not, they don't care, nor should they, they have their lives to live. Life is so much better than it was 40 yrs ago or even 20 yrs ago for those of us who are it's not funny. You don't change a mental mindset in one generation. In this lifestyle you really need thick skin, hopefully he still brought a level of pleasure to your wife that was good for her.

Smile and enjoy

I have read the post made by Ymichael14 and he is correct....in part. History (you readers should look this up for yoursellves, I did), shows that in earlier centurys, it was provelent for men to be Bi as in Romans and
I read the post presented by Ymichael14 and he was correct.....in some part. History (you readers should look this up for yourselves, I did many years ago), and History proves that in ancient civilizations, men being Bi was the norm, not straight. This was true for Roman, Greeks, and many oriental counties, In America, native americans who were Bi were treasured and referred to as being two-spirited. In South America, Being Bi was also provened to the the norm. Many leaders throughout the world were known to be Bi. Alexander the Great was one, The one important angle Ymichael14 failed to mention is that this is the 21st century and as history often proves, many things go in a circle. Young people as a whole, show that young males and females in the 20th Century being straight was the norm. That has started to change. Now that it's in this century, universities show after many surveys, that society has showned that things are shown to be changing again. Those research surveys have showed that young males and females are bringing old customs back into play. Did you know that it has be proven that females by the age of 13 have engaged in oral sex and the same goes for males by the age of 17. Females have had Bi sexual relations with the same ses by the age of 15 and males by 16 and 17. Yes it is society run by men, but look around you. You can see that is changing too! However this history may be amusing, it has little to do with my post about lying men who claim to be one thing but isn't. They are no more Bi than the pope is. They are in the LS as liers, frauds, and fakes making it look terrible for the real Bi men. Destroying the creditability of those who only seek another true Bi male. These fakes are only scum on this site that could be great for folks of a like mind. No truth, no fairness.

It was proven many years ago that humans conform to society. Mostly.
Society says Bi women are great, Bi men are not. Probably because men control most of society.
It has nothing to do with a desire to be bi or not. Society says it is wrong so nobody wants to be outcast.
In ancient Rome it wasn't seen as different. It was life. You only had sex with a woman because you had to produce children.
There was a time when gay men were banned because society said so.
There is nothing you are going to do about it.

<----- what he said!

Fresno_Power_Couple and HOPnrBED evidently didn't understand what I meant OR what they read. I can assure you that I am not cynical or bemoaning anything. I am stating the fact that as a human and a participant of the LifeStyle, I resent being lied to in order for these lowlifes to have sex with my wife or anybody else's wife, and by lying, they disrespect the both of us. I'm also stating the fact that by claiming what you are not is paralleled to those cowards who would adorn a uniform which is a blatant lie, and is akin to stolen valor I'm as satisfied to be a Bi man as a straight man is to be who he is. The man who was lied to now will be very hesitant to accept a date request from me or any other real and true Bi man. Those liars put a bad light on me and all other true Bi men.

Fresno_Power_Couple/HOPnr BED, I am not asking straight men to be Bi. Just have the guts to be honest!

Funlyfriend, truly with respect, I’m not the one complaining that more men won’t be bi and play with me, or that women are disproportionately bisexual compared to men.
The answer to both those questions is that the sexes are fundamentally different down to their very chromosomes.
I can see how getting catfished (or whatever you might call this situation) by some dude would piss him off, justifiably so. I would be too!
Bemoaning that more men aren’t bi, because they’re repressed, or have been taught that it’s bad, or that guys are just doing it on the DL, it’s all just comes off as bitter coping that there aren’t more men out there for him to fuck.

Careful, as we age you can easily become very cynical towards EVERYTHING.

nope, I don't think he is the one that is bitter...LOL take a look in the mirror

The answer to your question is because men and women are not the same nor are they equal in anything other than law (supposedly).

Most men have a natural disgust reaction to the idea of same-sex sexual interactions. Studies have shown that straight men have the same reaction to seeing men kissing as they do to seeing rotten flesh infested with maggots.

Honestly, OP, you just come off as bitter.

early on we had a fake bi guy meet us. now the guy will be sucking me before he gets a chance at Mrs. FF and he better do a good job.

@Dragon.I totally agree.Glad you posted that

Well, we have found a way around some of it. If we think the guy is iffy about the MM oral play my wife will insist, he start by sucking me first. If he doesn't want to. We get dressed and leave his sorry ass with his hard cock in hand. I usually tell them that up front also. Weeds out the fakes.

I would like to express my thoughts about a few things. Once done, I truly hope that others will respond whether they agree with me or not. I know that all men are not Bi and do not list as such. I also know that many many men list as straight, but in reality, often play on the DL as they say. Most men on this site for now, as straight and the wifey is listed as Bi for the most part and whose idea was that? If being Bi was so unacceptable, why do husbands want wives to be Bi and they are too good, too scared, too mocho? Street language here; if a lady can lick a hole, why can't a man suck a pole. I ask that you consider the idea of brain washing. Your Da Da and other men in your life when you were a child constantly told you that this was something that 'REAL' men don't do. They made jokes about it, made it sound bad, terrible to do. They said everybody else would talk about you and call you names like queer, fag, homo. This 'wonderful' childhood coaching is the snag in your brain that has and is preventing you from acting on the thoughts you have had about experimenting with another male....and yes, many of you have had those thoughts.
Have you realized that this is the 21st Century and young males and females are speaking their minds, and are doing what you men who are 30,40, 50 years of age are afraid to try? This is not just me talking; it's reports from surveys by colleges, universities, and independent groups
Now all this brings me to the title subject, pussy providers. I have found that so many men claim to be Bi or Bi Curious hoping they can get a house date with a couple with an unknowing or simple hubby who thinks he is going to have some delightful male/male time with this fake. He shows up, they may have even gone out to dinner together on hubby's ticket. (Hubby just knows he is getting some male/male action tonight). They go home, lots of talk by the fake Bi claiming dude. He plays with the wifey, gets some pussy, then the action slows down, and then the excuses start. He forgot he has an appointment; he has a terrible stomachache, his migraine has come back, gotta' go, but let's do this again sometime. I'll call you, Bye. Hubby never had the chance to play. Now, I ask you, have any of you experienced or seen this scenario? These fakes are giving the real Bi Guys a bad reputation. I sent a trouble ticket into the management telling them how to solve most of this, but like before I have been ignored. Why? Well management is straight but his wifey is Bi. Perhaps he had the same brain washing as a child, who knows. One thing for sure, these Bi or Bi curious fakes need to identified, on this site, so real Bi folks can be treated fairly, and Straight men won't be afraid to explore their opportunities.