Initial Contacting via messaging

I just realized why they don't answer me ... no longer "hello how are you"...:,(

Yeah don't say this when you in truth did not read it or simply do not comprehend what we said. "i read your profile". There were a couple things right off the bat that had he (in this case but we get this from couples as well) read our profile would have resulted in the message not being sent. Primarily there is a mention of distance and being well outside the range.

Maybe he's Welsh. They lost all their vowels to the Finns, who double up on the A's, among other linguistic peccadilloes. Aas inkkaa thiis sentenckka.

I’d like to buy a vowel.

The not-so-random letters that come to mind are w - t - f.

Received a message this morning:

hi n gdm

I replied: Hey, and what’s up.
Well, actually what I typed was: A n whs up

I wonder if I’ll get an answer back, and I wonder if the cryptic games will continue. If it does, I think I’ll respond with just some random letters.

Well, the following do not work for us as initial ice breakers:

"Are you free to host at 5pm?"
"Want to play?"
"Hi"
"Sup."

And yes. We've gotten all of the above.

Don't send things like Hi. Or," how are you today" write out a paragraph that communicates what you're actually thinking! Use it like you would maila!

Good luck with that Catchy. We have a couple that shows up in our WVM, from time to time, that has us blocked. Sent a ticket and asked to have them blocked from viewing our profile. The answer.....we can’t help you.

Lisa&Tim - Phoebert hasn't been on SLS since late April; he leaves the online fun to me. ;-)

We have a couple on our WVM that has us blocked. I'll message the name so you can follow up.

Well, but he might be here. And when I want manners advice, I have a good source and you're not it.

<p><span style="font-family:arial,sans-serif; font-size:14px">goodgollymsmolly98226,</span></p>

<p>That is your opinion. Every one has different opinions. Lets not talk about people that are not here.</p>

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<p>At this point, you should not even see a profile that has you blocked in most places on the site. But yes, if you try to view a profile that has you blocked, it should state that there is a block in place.</p>

Thanks, Wayne. I'm a little disturbed that this guy is roaming around free, since he has several screws loose, but it's probably okay so long as nobody turns him down for having a public dick pic.

Catchy, how would you message them since they'd be invisible?

So what happens if we try to send a message to someone that has us blocked? Will we get notified we are blocked?

Thanks for the reply!

<p>It would not change any existing blocks (the site would not remove any blocks). </p>

So what does that do to the old reciprocal blocks? Do they go away, do they still exist?

<p>Just like in the old system, if someone blocks you, you will no longer see any messages to or from them.</p>

<p>The block system is no longer reciprocal, so if someone else blocks you, they will not be added to your blocked list.</p>

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I open initial IM's that are just blank. sometimes I remember the few words that appeared in the list, but that is of little help.
Maybe they are working on it now, as messages are not happening at all (4 AM).

.....I did not delete the conversation. I've searched through all my messages ......
Did your wife go into the message history and delete it ? That seems to be the better possibility

Ah, I probably got the "hypocritical puritans" argument because I was making some headway against his nonsense. It wasn't what he led with. That was, I think, how it was a double standard.

Yeah, I'd like to know how he was able to eliminate IM threads. I'm guessing Wayne might have the answer, but that's just a guess.

Hypocritical puritans were not discussed but he couldn't seem to wrap his brain around the idea that women do not respond visually like men do. He insisted that marketing himself in a vanilla manner rather than as a naked body was contrary to everything he believed in and expected from a sex site. I remember that I got the impression that he was carrying on a discussion with you (and maybe others) that same evening.

I'm still hoping Wayne can determine what happened to the messages so we understand how things work on SLS.

"I'm going to go out on a limb and guess that the single male that requested the forum thread deleted is the same one I had the IM conversation with."

I checked and it's a very sturdy limb, certainly robust enough to support us both. Yeah, strangely, my IMs with what I believe is the same (not exactly sane) person are also gone. It was the guy who refused to believe that women who didn't like dick pics weren't being hypocritical puritans, right?