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My favorite...I think they are called slip-on sandals ?? or hi heel mules. I refer to them as heel spankers because of the sound they make. The double click of the high heel and the heel spank gives me an instant hard on. They look sexy as…
Yes Certs is a tool like any other part of a profile, judge it as just a point of reference no different as weight and age when a guy says he is 40 looks 58, 180lb but has a 30lb beer gut, 5'9" and my 5'7" wife looks eye to eye at him if t…
We were told a while back (during one of my rants about e-mails,profiles and fakes) that when in this lifestyle you must develop tough skin and it doesn't matter from which side you are on. Viewing a profile/having yours viewed, sending e-…
I miss some of the creative rooms....yet some of the tittles got out of hand. I use to like starting ones that always included a couple...'Couples that like DP", "Couples that like Fucklicking", Couples for Couples", "2 couples 1 bed". I u…
Its sad that people can not handle the honesty from others..... at one point we would like to tell them exactly why there is no match specially when it is right in your profile stating what one wants and is looking for....but that is why w…
We also think about throwing in the towel for some of the same reasons. Being lifetime members though seems like a bit of a waste so I ( the male) check on the profile from time to time with hope that a real couple the READS our profile wi…
Yes.... but it doesn’t specify their desired age range if you were looking for younger interested in older
I do get a kick out of threads that change topic....from age, to beards to profile critiques to condoms....lol So for us when it comes to age we like to stay pretty close to ours mainly because it's nice to have the common ground that usua…
I would bet that most of the crappy e-mails sent and no responses or no shows are the guys posing as a couple. The rest are probably the guys who do all the searching/chatting and setting things up before they even show the wife the other…
Nothing wrong with having a high sex drive it keeps your mind and body young as long as the thoughts are not illegal....fantasize away.... if more people always though about sex the world would be a much happier place.
Remember it's quality not quantity.... we do a 15 mile search and are well over 200 but out the 100 or so that we have sent e-mails in the past to maybe four responded and one was a hook up....
I would have to say foreplay then giving oral....I have eaten my wife's pussy with such passion that as she was having her intense orgasm's I came without being touched....
No one should have to be in the position to Take one for the Team.....and you should not have to feel like you are lowering your standards, just be realistic. We agree there must be an attraction but you should not be looking to fall in lo…
Nothing like a glass of well aged Bourbon but i still enjoy a glass of water as well. In an odd way I am glad that we are not as active as some of the posters here because I would hate for us to loose the simple pleasures of a sexy moment…
Don't get me wrong it's always flattering that someone checks you out, even the ones that are over 2000 miles away. We like to think they like what they see or maybe I stirred something up in a post somewhere that they wanted to read more…
How about the people that repeatedly checking out our profile, Sometimes done a few times in one week...... Are you that forgetful or are we that dull that you viewed us just yesterday but can't remember....or are you hinting that you want…
The sight of a mature woman who still Loves being sexy and showing off her body.
A woman who has no fear in being sexy when ever possible....short skirt, high heels, braless, pantyless and proudly flashing herself.
We have traveled good distance for parties and events always with the hope of meeting couples to play with. Unfortunately there have been times we wind up on our own. Being on the shy/reserve side we get a little daunted by the great looki…
I like what NJ had to say...we fell into the a category of building up the courage to jump in. We have been to some events, house parties and hotel take overs but are always a little shy on making that move. I feel a lot of our frustration…
I go commando all year long, wife needs panties and a light pad or else one sneeze and her shoes will be wet. I think that its gotta be one of the hottest things a woman can do is go commando and do a little flashing.
I (the male) think its who has the better access to the computer throughout the day and also who is the more sexually out going, so between me and the wife I win both titles. I own a HARDware store and sometimes have the website up all day…
Wait..... so how about...do away with the Straight/Bi part of the profile and ...... now get this everyone READS the actual profile....sounds crazy I know imagine people having to write a discrptive profile of what they want and looking fo…
I will admit I do check some of the pop-up stats. First their age range, then their distance? Any profile that is more then a 100 miles away I will rarely check any further. If we are close to their age request then I will read a profile f…
YES....That is my point..... A lot of narrow minded Straight people think that "Bi=will-fuck-anything-same-sex" and I think there are some Bi people that might not reach out to a straight couple thinking they have that fear. We have meet a…
For what an opinion is worth around here the little profile should just be - Him/Her, Age, and maybe Playing/Not Playing. Put your sexual preferences in the proper contexts in your profile. Under right circumstances...Wife likes kissing gi…
bisexual by definition of the Urban Dictionary: Someone who is in all ways attracted to both guys and girls. It is not because they are sex fanatics, or simply can't decide. Being bisexual is not a phase from people who haven't fully come…
I have the previous searches and sometimes news feeds as well, I am also finding that Safe Search is always on....If I want to check out Thick Thighs in Images its all blank...thank God for Tumblr...
For us having friends in the lifestyle would be a couple that not only enjoy the same sexual playing the we do but have a similar social background, be in close range of age. So when it comes to conversation and hanging out we are on commo…
Sex-appeal is not just how you look in what you wear but how you wear your look
Ever notice the people on Chat are rarely seen in the Forums and vise a versa?
We have swapped with couples that the woman was listed as bi or bi-curious and never had a problem...we have found it more difficult to find a couple that would like to take turns doing things like DP.
We have said this in the website forum also....Have a SLS rep be present at Events and Meet & Greets to validate members, evaluate profiles and take an official profile picture specially of couples TOGETHER. For the money that people pay t…
We like certs and read them as well, My point was that certs would not be needed to judge if a couple is real or not. A validation from an SLS rep would be better, plus there are a lot of couples who do not want or give out certs.
Have a SLS rep be present at Events and Meet & Greets to validate members, evaluate profiles and take an official profile picture specially of couples TOGETHER.
I remember back 35 BC (35 years ago Before Computers) I joined a dating program, I went to an office in an actual office building and had an interview with a person who asked questions about me and who I was looking for. They took a couple…
We have been rejected more because I have a beard and some body hair then anything else..... at least that is what they have said....
We have come across profiles that have 20 pic of the wife and none of him then while sending e-mails we are told she is not interested but he is still interested and has a hall pass...... It amazes us that with just about everyone having s…
Yes...Welcome Scsu307 to the life style. We got into the lifestyle through porn as well. Don't get discouraged and be patient there are just as many honest good people as dishonest jerks here. My wife also wanted to do MFM and corresponded…
Yes....most definitely the guy was a jerk overall.....but communication is a must when dealing with people you really don't know. Some like to think that it is spontaneous excitement when others are startled to the point of Game Over. Agai…
Its a laugh......to spend 50 + dollars on a kit when a beard trimmer and a razor is all you need.... And they were so right that it is a gift more for the ladies. My wife hates when a guy has a lot of hair down there.....the smoother the b…
Yes we will....if we feel there is a fit we get in touch..... but 68% of the time we get no answer the other 32% it winds up just the guy saying his wife is not into it anymore but he is willing to meet
Just Wondering......you really do not see people that are on Chat post in the forum....or....people from the forum hanging out in Chat....and though many from both check out our profile very few make a comment about it....except for "cute…
We have been to a few Halloween take overs....you can't go wrong with people in sexy and daring costumes right from the start of the event. it doesn't take long for people to be running through the halls naked.... Granted it is not the way…
Now this is just our opinion. Our main suggestion.....a full picture of the two of you together can go a long way, you can always block your faces if you wish....some of the profile is a little wordy in spots. Maybe add what type of playin…
They should add Homophobic to the list of choices......... OR Wait how about people writing better profiles and READING them....
We have been on and off with this for several years and have been frustrated many times trying to find a couple.... My wife and I have great sex together and are far from being board. It does seem that a lot of couples might be board with…
My wife would be fine with a a Silver Fox like Mark Harmon, Richard Gere or Kevin Costner, but it seems like the majority of older guys that she has seen or try to get in touch with us resemble John Goodman, Rodney Dangerfield or Danny Dev…
Women still look very sexy as they get older unfortunately when men get older they just look old.
Finding a 4 way match is really really difficult, specially if you want a couple to match your own category, age range & social level and be your FWB. It seems that "Taking one for the team" is probably how it really gets done....For us th…
@WLTL we would Love to join you guys in an orgy...Let us know.....
Was not referring to Male/Female, age,weight or height.... just the labels of Straight, Bi-curious and Bi which seem to have circumstantial variations...
Yes...my comment about shaking hands was suppose to be ridiculous, that was my point. So many people seem to be paranoid about someone listed as bi. Like as if they are going to be sexually assaulted when their back is turned. My concludin…
First if a couple has only viewed us we really don't put much hope in any outcome. A lot of those who viewed us are 1000 miles or more so why bother, now those that are around 100 miles we then check their age (we like to stay within 7 yea…
Well....maybe a little...but it might have something to do with the 36 plus profiles we have block because at some point in chatting the guy would say how he would love to give my wife's ass a good pounding.... We also met a couple at an e…
First we see it as there are 2 major types of swingers - !. Those who are looking for Fuckmates which are the ones that just want to show up and fuck or be fucked. The guys will will be the type that say "they are all the same height in be…
As said before Each to their own....we are shaved or leave just enough for a little tickle and we prefer the same....we love lots of oral play the least amount of hair the better we enjoy... nothing like a hair going down your throat givin…
Judging by all the forum posts I would think that it is an even amount of profiles that when the guy states he is straight would really like a little bi play and the guys listed as bi would really just like some oral play and yet no one sa…
I am probably going to get a lot of shit for this but....to ronandjen2014 and others like ron I would not consider that being bi....given the definition that bisexual is about total attraction to the same sex. does shaking another mans han…
We have posted many times about no pictures of the guy.....My wife gets VERY Frustrated over the fact that there are so many pictures of the wife and her boobs or her feet...(really).. none of him but then it is the guy that does all the c…
We feel that a couple of certs are good even if they are old it helps to give the viewer a little more confidence that they are real... We still think there should be some kind of check in point at M&Gs, Events or even house parties where…
We like the idea of some kind of flirt button as well or a way to leave a quick preset comment for the person you view....sexy lady, handsome guy, cute couple...etc...so that the couple of the profile can get an idea how interested the vie…
We think it would be cool and very useful if there could be a way to leave a quick preset comment for the person you view....sexy lady, handsome guy, cute couple...etc...so that the couple of the profile can get an idea how interested the…
When we first started out we would only do some soft playing to test the waters, lots of kissing and some oral play, watch and be watched. Then after a few times of seeing how much it was turning us on watching each other with another we g…
SO...our understanding of Bisexual has always been by definition... "Someone who is in all ways attracted to both guys and girls. It is not because they are sex fanatics, or simply can't decide. Being bisexual is not a phase from people wh…
We have posted about pics many times.....My wife gets VERY Frustrated over the fact that there are so many pictures of the wife and her boobs or her feet...(really).. none of him but then it is the guy that does all the communicating and t…
There are a LOT of people that would Love to attend all sorts of specific parties but it's finding someone and a venue that are willing to put their neck out to do the work. It's not easy to put a party together and there could be some bac…
My wife would LOVE to do DP....She LOVES anal and when I use a dildo on her at the same time she cums like crazy....we just can not find the right couple that would like to try and make it happen. We get a lot of guys offering but my wife…
Oh my where to begin....lol Searches by body type like height & weight would be cool. Better communication with those in charge would be great....they should be more involved with forums like this.... Get more people to become paid members…
Unfortunately that brings you back to the top of the page again. Thank You anyway??
Is there a way to delete more then one friend at a time?
It's not that easy for a lot of couples to make progress with their profile alone. Going to M&G's, House Parties and Hotel takeovers is really where its at for some obvious and some times overlooked reasons like you won't have to deal with…
LOL.....we will post that in another forum....the down fall of society due to lack of human interaction....
We have said this before in other forums.....members need to write better profiles of what they want and who they are looking for also people need to READ the full profile not just a pop up label.....
I would love to be the licker or the lickie, and it is definitely one of the wife's wants in playing with another couple. Though we have had many volunteers from single men to help do this finding another couple to share some fucklicking s…
We are thinking that a counter would be more useful then a like button. How many times has someone checked you out and how many times you looked at someones profile and have it on the "Fly Over" because we are guilty ourselves at times hit…
At the end of the day come home and have a quiet Bourbon on the Rocks......
We would like to believe for the most part that a lot of couples would like to be friends or build a friendship with a couple that they are playing with but it seems that many couples are super picky, not that there is anything wrong with…
My wife would Love to have 2 cocks at her command and would probable take on more in time.
A sexy flirty and dominate attitude always wins me over.....
So.....would it be safe to say.....anyone that has viewed our profile more then 3 times should respond to an e-mail?.......it would be nice if there was a counter to keep track of how many times a profile has viewed us or how many time we…
Just Me Wondering...again..... Any ladies do the Naked at the door accepting a delivery dare?
We both like keeping our pubic area shaved...it looks and feels great....and before we play I will trim my body hair so I am more on the fuzzy side then hairy.
So....Just Wondering.....anyone else have an addiction/weakness to hanging out at SLS. If so what is it you go to the most? Forum, Chat, Who Viewed Me, Emails...etc what is it that you feel is SLSs strong points?
I absolutely LOVE large nipples regardless the size of the breasts....after all with out them tits would be pointless.....lol
I think the Bi thing just totally gives people misconceptions and scares them off (including my wife at times) with out asking really what they are into or reading their profile........ I read a lot of profiles and there are a lot will sta…
So with all that has been going on with the sexual misbehavior in the vanilla world......how do the ladies here feel when approached, admired,whistled at or when men are just out right ogling you.....do still love the attention? Do you lik…
There can be a few reasons that you don't see pictures of the men in couple profiles. 1. first off....women are sexy and sex sells regardless what they are looking for a sexy or naked woman will always get attention over a man. 2. They are…
A real Lover is full of sexual passion and feeds off of erotic desire not seeing color size or shape but the craving for sexual satisfaction and when your dick can't keep up that's when you get on your knees and pleasure her with your lips…
It would also be nice to be able to delete multiple e-mails all at once and not just one at a time and being bounced back to page one....same for friends list
I find a curvy woman extra sexy....and I don't mean a woman with just big boobs but with thick thighs and lusciously round butt...specially when they Love to be sexy and show their curves off
Remember Paramus Park Mall back in the 70/80's when they had the elevator and park like setting in the middle of the mall with teared alcove settings that had park benches.....we probably were not the only ones that got caught fooling arou…
we never expect couples to answer an e-mail right away and we understand it can get mixed in the shuffle of the advertisement e-mails. We are amazed at how may times we have e-mailed couples and have gotten no response only to wind up chat…
We agree a wink button would be nice but then again whats wrong with just sending an e-mail...lol. We would also like to see a delete button for a profile that viewed us but we have no interest in and be able to save the ones that we are i…
in the middle of a mall on a park bench, my girlfriend at the time straddled me wearing a long sundress no panties, i had on running shorts and was commando. We did a slow grind while people passed by only feet away we got in to making out…
Pet Peeves Where do we start....lol 1, Profiles with 30 sexy pictures of the wife and not one of the guy yet he will boast about his sexual skills. who do they think they are kidding just because your wife is a hottie that gives you a pass…
my wife waking me up in the middle of the night sucking my cock
Seeing my wife in public braless with hard nipples, actually I love seeing any wife braless with hard nipples....lol
We have noticed a pretty high number of people (not of our area) of Who Viewed Me but it is probably from going into the chat rooms...your chatting with people all over the country and like what we do it all the time is check out the profi…
Excited for tonight
