Flirt feature ie: I'm interested button

Please respect ours by sending an email, if interested, not an empty notice.

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Or perhaps expecting everyone’s comfortable way of approaching someone to be like yours is childish? Everyone is different in these endeavors and everyone’s preferences can easily be respected, I have no problem respecting them all.

Terrible idea
.. If someone cant open with more than a sentence because their communication is lacking,maybe they should be on a different site. The flirt option is for children.

Difently a flirt button we going to get one?

Yes!!! Alike Button or Thumbs Up, or Interested, Button is a MUST HAVE!

We are thinking that a counter would be more useful then a like button. How many times has someone checked you out and how many times you looked at someones profile and have it on the "Fly Over" because we are guilty ourselves at times hitting a profile that we just didn't recognize maybe do to a new profile picture and then we say "Oh its THAT couple again" and then move on. If there was a counter that we could spot then we would know that we already checked them out. It would save a lot a people frustration.

We get flirts daily from another source we use. Has it worked? No. Never. None of the time. We learned early on, it’s “fake” & “flake” profiles sending them.

If you cannot bring yourself to compose a half decent email, then how are you supposed to communicate in person? Maybe emoji pictures from your phone?

We really don’t care If SLS implements one, just make sure there is a way to turn it off as well so we don’t have to sift thru our notifications.

~Allen

All for an im interested button

We agree you added "who viewed you". But then you don't know if they like you. Easier then an email and gives some idea and email will be responded to.

Yes, I agree, a flirt feature would be a great addition to this wonderful site.

Yes, a flirt feature that uses emojies or simple sayings that show your interested yet without having to send a whole email. They can have different themes like holidays or sexual innuendoes

Yep I agree to know if someone is kinda feeling you and willing to give it a chance is the biggest step to finding the right lifestyle friends so if I can have a button put it in my profile oh yeah

we never expect couples to answer an e-mail right away and we understand it can get mixed in the shuffle of the advertisement e-mails. We are amazed at how may times we have e-mailed couples and have gotten no response only to wind up chatting with them in a chat room and have them say that we look like a cool couple....... Which brings me to think that a flirt or like button would help bring a little more attention to show that there is interest.

We just write a nice hello to someone..tell them, if interested give us a shout. it leaves the ball in their court completely. We don't get our feeling hurt and they don't feel like they have been painted into a corner having to reply or feeling bad if they don't. People that are truly interested will reply....

I think you have a great idea. I too would like to see"I'm Interested Button".

I agree that it would be nice to be able to send a quick flirt to show interest,I also agree that It seems most people are too busy to respond to messages,with a not interested,or get lost.Or even nice to hear from you how is your day? Much nicer now that you have said hi.

Here's an idea:

Add the flirt/like/interested button, but also give the ability to disable it for a particular profile. That way, if someone doesn't want to get those notifications, they just shut it off & the button does not appear on their particular profile.

I would expect that to please almost everyone.

They have a flirt button on one of the other sites (lovevoodoo or something like that). It's just as you can imagine a bunch of people to lazy to send a message. We left the site and only use this one.

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Sorillo: You hit the nail on the head. Nicely worded indeed. Screw a flirt button, we would rather have a nicely composed email with intelligent substance than someone who hits a button in a mass manner and hopes for a mutual flirt that's no different than SMs sending out mass emails with the same exact content.

~Allen

For awhile, I was kind of agnostic on the idea of a flirt feature. Which frankly is only going to really be useful for us single guys. Let's face it, once a flirt feature goes online, you couples and SFs are going to get flirts from about 90% of the SMs within 50 miles of you. And it's going to be a bitch to sort through all of that to find someone worth contacting.

It also says "yeah, I'm interested, but not interested enough to take 5 minutes to compose a short email telling you WHY I'm interested".

And on a personal note, judging by the recent spate of inarticulate, single-line emails I've received in the past couple of weeks, maybe that's for the best.

We arent shy if we like what we see we contact !!!

we are new to this SLS. not the actual life style ,# 1 if you want to get wet ? _______ #2 we only have so many free days a month ,so are we going to do test runs 3,4 5 times ,then what if we realize we really aren't going to get real close ? _______ #3 am I ,or are we , jumping on a plane flying 1600 miles to have ? __dinner?__ drinks?__ real? ___ or not real?_____We are still thinking ,.

Good idea ! Question; Why are we here ? Some are very reserved ,some very out spoken, some really are a little scared , for what reason ? who knows, I'm guessing fear of rejection ,the point is this; we are here for outstanding sex !! we are here for experience ! meeting people checking out all who are excited to try!! try not setting standards to high ! we really are turned off when some say ,(I or we do the gym 2,3 or 4 times a week ,and expect the same ,) now ,we lost our excitement and aren't ready to search , but we have found the people who aren't bragging ,or flexing ,or spit shinning ,are truly better acquaintance ,overall nicer, fun to be with nonjudgemental , and ( we think the sex is better! ) as far as making friends ,show your picture! take a test drive ( what's it gonna hurt? ) we know your not buying ,but you still have to see, smell feel, and check out what the ride is really like? bad enough ,were scared, maybe a little insecure about whatever ,try inviting ,there's always time to see if friendship is there ! we really like people interested in who we are not what they do or have, just have fun!! Stop it! flirt with words ,and don't overwhelm , thanks! have a great time !!