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Bareback Exposure
We're getting a bit freaked out by so many people exposing themselves to dangerous sex practices. We were invited to a bareback group and accepted to see who was a member. We susp…
by bicpl4u2pa412replies84,417viewsKissing
Newbies here and obviously know that condoms, dental dams or whatever the heck they are called will be required when we finally decide to step out and have our first experience. W…
157replies27,736viewsHow many of you are bareback optional?
Hi, wife and I have been on here for several years. We have realized that we really hate condoms. We much rather prefer going bareback as it just feels better for her, and especia…
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Hotwife Bare or Condoms?
When tested or with a regular, we prefer bare no condom. Thoughts on your practices and what do you prefer?
by HWmami126replies11,971views- 53replies11,191views
Condoms.
I hate them. Passionately. If I needed them, I’d pass up on sex. I’d wait in relationships until we were comfortable to proceed without them. My wife and I have gotten to the poin…
by Swing2191156replies10,480viewsSwinging During Covid
Is anyone doing it? And can you really do safe safe swinging?
121replies10,349viewsHIV1+ Undetectable U=U
Hello With new research and treatments, How do you feel or trust this research findings? As we all have deep seated fears from years of old stigmas and data? How does this effect…
by lovrrboy4u100replies8,646viewsbig deal or not?
Most get it as teenagers. Google would yield better results for your curiosity. ~Allen
by 888eatme88887replies6,834viewsOTC - Testing for STD's
I would like some help here that may not only help me, but educate others. I would like to know who uses OTC STD test kits. How do you like them and where do you find them. OTC st…
by Amicizia15replies5,286viewsFactor people may miss regarding safer sex.
I live in AZ, a state with 7 million people, which happens to be short on water. I could focus on reducing my water usage 10%, which would reduce the entire state's usage by 1/7,0…
by az_couple_6937replies5,225views- 17replies5,153views
Hello
How do guys know that you’re partners are clean? Do exchange paperwork? Before anything.
by Lizardfuzz63replies5,095viewsNewbie: What is Considered Evidence of the best Test to People in the Lifestyle?
Hi, Per the title, I'm out of a very long marriage and have some things I want to accomplish in terms of sexual experience. In terms of demanding proof of my STD status, what is t…
33replies5,045viewswhat if u know someone has an std
so my bf and I know this couple that one of them has an std and they bareback all the time. do u say something or do u let each person take their own risk? thoughts please
by TammyScott53replies5,026viewsDiscussing STD testing with new couples?
We met a new couple for drinks last night. Our personalities really weren't a match. However, we asked about their experience with STD testing and they said they had never done it…
30replies4,662viewsHPV
I am reading more and more lately about how prevalent the HPV (not talking HIV!!!!) is now, and how easily it is spread simply by any kind of sexual contact, even foreplay. From t…
16replies4,332viewsCoronavirus
More specifically the COVID-19 strain. Regardless of whether you think it is all hype and nothing to worry about or that it is the next Black Plague you have to admit as of today…
by RusticMagic44replies4,161viewsHSV-1 (Yes . I know this has been a dead horse beat)
Hi, So I was on a cam site, talking to a cam woman who is involved in the LS and said "she has it... she takes meds to suppress... it is all good" and she swings like crazy - bare…
by CaptainSlow19replies4,155views- 6replies4,124views
Got snipped this morning: my vasectomy play-by-play
Got to my urologists office about 9:30 in the morning. He was tied up with a prostate surgery, so he was delayed about an hour. The nurse had me undress from the waist down, and w…
by ionsawmill50replies4,071views- 2replies3,916views
PrEP and swinging stigma
We had an interesting thing happen to us. We were at a party and talking with a couple who pointed out a single guy at the party. They said they won't play with him because he is…
14replies3,022viewsHow to approach the pineapple hint guys
I’ve hear a lot of the pineapple hint upside down, the black ring etc.. the question is how one should approach someone displaying those hint? Any magic or secret code line approp…
9replies2,996viewsWife concerned about getting an STD
Hi all. We are new to this lifestyle and my bc wife is concerned about catching a STD. I know she should be concerned but how do other people handle this fear?
8replies2,929viewsThe swinger gods hate me
Wife and I were looking to start our adventures next week. Woke up this morning tp find that I am having a Hemroid flare up. First one in over a year but part of my charm is I off…
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Oral sex
I see in porn movies some men and women have a white substance in their mouth. Is this some form of disinfectant?
by pstickman7replies2,674viewsProtection from viruses -
First things first- this is an Honest inquiry from newbies about to begin playing who honestly are concerned about health and hygiene. If you are an anti-vaxxer, Trump loving, Fau…
by Mashancy38replies2,670views- 10replies2,567views
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The next new STD
One of the most dangerous thing you can do is shave your cock or pussy because shaving creates micro breaks in the skin. Once you break the skin barrier you are creating a new env…
by ncalcouple0replies1,950viewsWhat should I get tested for as a bi guy
I’ve been out of the lifestyle for over a decade. What should I get tested for before becoming active again? My local health department tests for chlamydia, gonorrhea, syphilis, a…
by ionsawmill16replies1,780viewsPrep
Do swingers use this? I am a bisexual male and have been on it for three years. If taken daily it is 98% effective against HIV. Do some research people. It doesn’t protect against…
by Mrtatedaddy4replies1,700viewsQuick testing
Some places can do complete testing and get results 24-48 hours. Sounds worthwhile to me. Get std results first then play. What do you think?
by Vallandar1replies1,516viewsseeking doctor in tampa bay area
Does anyone know of a lifestyle-friendly doctor in the Tampa Bay Area? My GF and I are looking to have the same doctor for regular checkups. Thanks everyone!
by drmotorhead5replies1,267viewsDescovy and Doxy PEP
I take Descovy to prevent HIV. I've been playing bare ever since and no STD's since. I have a hard time cumming with condoms, even magnums. I'm about average in length but very th…
by JDob1005replies1,180viewsyeast issues
Everytime we play i (female) end up getting a yeast infection; even if its just from guys licking my pussy ... why???? Getting to the point where its not worth the hassle.
by bobcat27127replies1,162viewsLarge non latex condoms
Hey all. I have searched and searched and cannot find size 69mm or 72mm non latex condoms. Anyone know of a source for these? Thank you all!
by ChiMNgirl2replies1,084viewsPlaying Safe in Swinger Clubs Post Covid-19
We were just wondering how this could be done. We are sure that clubs will do some screening at the entrance, such as temperature checks and questionnaires. But really, for asympt…
by Vanasiancpl2replies1,060viewsShowing STI test results
My doctor just had me tested for STI's. Test results go to him and to my app. I'm curious how everyone shows their test results when asked by a potential playmate. Only thing I ca…
by Ymichael142replies1,026views- 0replies1,020views—
Virtual Swinging and Swinger Parties?
We have been on here about ten years on and off. Everything takes a back seat to family matters, cancer for example, so we leave and come back. We will be going back to a paid mem…
by B_Mforfun4replies950viewsCovid as of summer 2022
First off, please don’t let this devolve into vaccination/ anti vax stuff or politics. It’s an honest inquiry about the state of the LS now regarding COVID. My wife and I are full…
by Tempenewbies8replies949viewsCame out to my doctor and started STI vaccines and PrEP
My doctor’s appointment went well. I love my PCP. She’s great. I had never told her before that I’m bisexual. Here’s how my coming out to her went: Me: "I'm bisexual." Her: "Okay.…
by ionsawmill1replies900views- 8replies900views
AHCC shiitake mushroom supplements for HPV
Not FDA approved, supposedly helps clear HPV infections. Anyone try this?
2replies871viewsNOW would be a great time. Making lemonade from lemons.
It has been months since most of us have stepped out. During those months anything disease wise that we may have been harboring have had time to manifest to the point that testing…
by lcmim3replies748viewsAre there house parties or swinger groups that require a clean test within a week or so of the event?
My wife and I have been in an exclusive polyamorous relationship with another couple for 15+ years. We want to explore the LS more, but want to be safe. Has anyone ever heard of a…
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