Just reading this and can't believe there's a stigma for actually being proactive and using something like PREP.
Anyone can use it, its not just for homosexuals or people sharing needles. I use PREP because I don't have a monogamous lifestyle, and play with strangers in the Swinging community - which is why I find it ironic that someone would be judged for trying to be safer.
Its been 8 months I have been taking it. Yes I use condoms and I get tested 4 times a year for Chlamydia, Gonorrhea, Syphilis and HIV - its actually part of the requirement to be on PREP - which I think is another pro active practice.
Side effect: Since some have asked, some people have shown that long term use it may effect your liver and kidney health like many medications. Part of my quarterly testing is to have a full panel test done to check on the health of liver and kidney to make sure the medication is not causing any issues.