Trans and Post OP

"I should also be given the opportunity to choose if I am NOT looking for a Trans woman, or Post OP, correct?"

you can always state that in your profile, but not everyone reads them

pretty sure chicago takes the cake for people killing people of their own kind,..

RE: TallMark, like every big city. But shhh, we’re only supposed to talk about a very small percentage of violent crime that fits a narrative.

From my experience guys wish I had more under my mini skirt...

RE: New&Naghty, Kinda like Chicago....

“ However, we have to admit that there are people out there that seek to harm those who are different than they are.”

Sure does, look at the way Asians get attacked in big cities, it’s awful. That being said, 90% of the harm committed in my city, which has a shit load of it, is folks attacking folks that are very similar to themselves. Violence and harm seems to be everywhere right now. Straight, gay, bi, trans or whatever you choose to call yourself, keep your head on a swivel.

@New_and_Naughty,
I was not referring to people that do not want to be duped... However, we have to admit that there are people out there that seek to harm those who are different than they are. Ok, me calling someone a nutbag may have been wrong, yet there are those that prey upon others. I'm just asking that if someone is Post Op, or Trans that they let others know so they can make the choice to choose, it should never come as a surprise. In this day and age, we never know how folks will respond. It is easy enough to add to a profile.

“ or heaven forbid a dangerous situation for a trans person, as we know there are nutbags out there.”

Just curious, is the nut bag the guy that clearly states that he is a straight man looking for a woman, or the man that claims to be a woman and tries to trick the man into an encounter he is obviously not into? Touchy situation and to each their own, however, you think calling people names because they don’t want to be duped is appropriate?

Just put who/whatever you're looking for on your page. They will come.

Put chicks with dicks, transvestites, pre-op, post-op, and you've checked every..... Or most boxes.

I agree there are many areas of this web site that could be improved with more categories and filters for people to choose from. Now from all the suggestions I have seen from others on the forums and what actually gets implemented I would say you have a snow ball's chance in hell of seeing the web developers actually doing anything with your suggestion.

Maybe this question applies heavily in California, so here goes.
In the preference section of your profile where it asks "Who are you looking for?" Should there be another additional question for "Are you interested in meeting Trans/Post OP?"

It is fine with me on the choices that people make with their lives, or discover that the biological physical body they have is incorrect.
As I have a preference for certain women, no single men, or whatever my choices maybe, I should also be given the opportunity to choose if I am NOT looking for a Trans woman, or Post OP, correct? Several times I was reached out to by someone that used filters on their profile pics with misleading info on the profile page, and thank goodness we met for coffee, only to discover that we were both disappointed.

So, should there be another category to clearly define sexual status where it is CIS, TS, TPO, or whatever is acceptable acronym is so folks do not enter into something that can be disappointing, or heaven forbid a dangerous situation for a trans person, as we know there are nutbags out there.

I was not sure where to ask this question or the fall out from it, but in this Men Talk forum, I am hoping that it can be discussed freely, and openly.