Why only 1 profile pic?

Because they are single men, or married repressed men on here for the viewi g and fake talk...
Usually its the only pic they have.... i,ve seen some that are from girlie mags...!!

Beware.

I used to have plenty of photos, following oft recommended guidelines, and though the quantity of messages went up, the quality did not. At this point, the only reason anything is here is that we paid for the lifetime membership.

I just like a nicely dressed guy with short hair, clean shaven and a nice hard cock the cums a bunch..

Quazilink,
I did not make an assumption, but I did ask a question. "Unless you meet someone at a party, how do you determine if you are attracted to someone online?" You answered it by stating that you primarily meet folks at parties. That is very cool, and I too like sapiosexuals, but I have to be physically attracted to them, and chemistry to proceed to sex. The mind, intellect as well as the physical sexual being all have to be aligned. So for me and others here on the site, photos can be key.
IJS

nativesf,

It seems like you are assuming that everyone rules out/selects people based on their physical looks first. I see quite a few profiles on here that say they are sapiosexuals. Those people would not need any pictures, as they are attracted to intelligence and not physical looks.

My recents pics are 2 weeks old.

I guess there is no wrong answer here.
For me it appears my online pics are Left swipe... in person meets Right swipe !

SF & RK: As I may have mentioned before my success here on SLS is based 99% on in person meet n greets (Hot-Dates or SLS events). The same people who "BLOCK" SM or don't reply to my messages are the same people I meet at an SLS event and guess what: we connect, attract and most often we Play!!

Again for me the 30 minute in person meet n greet is most effective... I use the SLS website for Hot-date and event info Only. My profile has at best somewhat limited or minimal required info & pics. We all do what works for us!!

Now Native and ZULU we have been chatting for awhile now and if our paths cross would we meet.. YES .. But they captured our attention with their great interesting IM's .. that show they have some intelligence , can communicate well.. not shy and get it is our kind of people !

Quazz its simple and over 30 years swinging.. the swinging experience starts in the mind with ones visuals and for "us" smiles, doing something fun and living life in photos tell a great story in "most" cases!

Then its simple can they communicate in full sentences , talk about things other then sex and produce great results in bed.. it has been a winning combination for "us".. and we are not changing it!

Quazilink,
Unless you meet someone at a party, how do you determine if you are attracted to someone online?

Why are you reducing your desire to meet someone down to photons hitting your retinas?

Zulu,
It really is not about a picture swap, but how will you know if you are attracted to someone or a couple sight unseen?
As stated, this question is about the profile picture which is your initial attention grabber, then you open their profile to see if there is attraction. So do you decide to contact based on the profile text alone? I'm just curious.
Thanks

For me pics don't mean much. I've met people who've used 5-20 yr old pics !! They are Not even close to the 5'4" 130 lbs pic they post? Also I personally don't think I photo well ... some people the camera likes better than others. I would much rather invest in a short local Safe place meet n greet to see if there is chemistry & attraction over a picture swap.

Well no one is ever going to bitch to me about too few pics...

I agree Ron & Kathy,
Also there are profiles that have a larger numbers of pics in the small photo, but when you open to the actual profile, it is one pic and the rest are in the galleries :-)

One photo.. nope we move on its that simple.. its a swing site people .. NOT FB and we want to see who we invite to our beds as initial chemistry and attraction is a must in our journey..

Kudos to our new SLS guy who gets it!!! Those profiles with smiles, doing something fun , that all come natural !

Some with one photo, chest shot, etc are just lazy and dont place much into anything they do.. compare one photo with whats in their profile and you tell me..

While some one-pic profiles are from people who are just being lazy, some folks simply don’t have the need to try very hard.

Some couples prefer to not be approached by others, but will take the initiative themselves, sending pictures when they make first contact.

Hello all,
In this day and age of online swinging, the initial view of a profile is in the words and pictures. Single women and couples often state that several pictures are key in getting to know if someone is visually attractive. After all, we are visual creatures and that is what initially attracts us to a profile. If you are looking to meet another couple, a SF, or a SM, why not have more than one pic? You can blur out your face, but show activities, poses, fun moments, and a Full Body pic for heaven sakes.....
I like to see who I would be possibly having fun with, why not have at least 4 pictures? But I would also like to hear from those with 1 pic as I am sure there is a very valid reason.
Cheers