I dunno, but seems to me that if they did not show as planned and do not answer your messages or phone calls, that pretty well fits the definition of not wanting to be found. Perhaps following your idea of not pursuing them is appropriate.
Lost contact with Spring Couple
A few years back we met a couple from Spring. They used to have house parties at least once a month. We would go to their parties and also became good friends and went to ballgames and such together. We were supposed to meet them at a football game but they did not show up and would not answer messages or phone which was unusual. We tried over and over but never got in touch with them. Was wondering if anyone else knew them and know what happened to them. We do not want to give out their names but their initials are R(male) & J(female). Anyone that knew them will know who we are talking about. They had a lot of good friends here and threw the best house parties ever. Would love to find out something about them unless they do not want to be found out.
S & N HouTexCpl

