Why the difference?

When people are home they have their own close friends and family that they need to balance time with. When they're out and about, unless they brought friends with them, the people around them are the only game in town. They can opt to go out and still be picky and/or stick to themselves, but it only impacts the fun/quality of their time if they choose to do that.

I have to believe that there are a LOT of people online here that will only engage (nevermind actually play) if all of the planets align perfectly, which means they are highly unlikely to ever engage. I can only speculate, but being online here must hold enough fantasy value for them that they still spend time online as if they were actually looking to do something. Perhaps they keep telling themselves "If only Jason Momoa and Natalie Portman wanted to play with us we'd....."

Of course all bets would be off if you could see they left a toilet seat up in the background of one of their pics ;-)

We look at online platforms as predominantly for information gathering and finding fun clubs. On the rare occassion, we find a couple that vibes and piques our interest, but we would never rely on this site or others

Online is a nightmare.
Nobody talks to me online. Ever. Not even to say, fuck off , loser.
At a club, everybody talks to me.
I have no idea why.
I also noticed online people are very picky. From requiring a certain level of education to driving a certain car. Checking your socks to make sure they match. Requiring an inspection of the interior of your car to check for any sign of trash. A candy wrapper under the seat gets you blocked.
At a club, I could drive up in a 30 year old car with no doors and an emergency spare on all 4 wheels and nobody would care.

I believe all of us have exponentially more success meeting people at a club, party or resort than online.

You should post to the Better Profile sub and ask people to review your profile. I have some suggestions already but this isn't the spot for them.

Nothing. Meeting people online is significantly harder than making connections in real life.

Hi all, we just got back from 10 days at a resort in Mexico. We had a great time at our favorite naked, LS-friendly place in the sun. Everyone was very friendly and it was good to see that quite a few couples were trying it for the first time. The weather was hit and miss but when you are already wet in the pool or hot tub it really doesn’t matter if it rains. We didn’t use the playroom as we prefer the beds around the pool or hot tub. However, the real reason I am writing this is to convey how friendly things were. Every couple was friendly with us and at least a half of them showed an interest in us. That is not to say that we played with half of the people there. That would have taken week, but there was genuine interest from other couples. However, we almost never receive any interest from other couples here on this web site; even when we initiate the first contact ourselves. So, I beg the help of all you knowledgeable folks. What is it that we are doing right there which obviously we are doing wrong here?
Nina & Frank