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Vanilla question- Do you host or attend dinner parties in the homes of friends?
A question about (y)our vanilla lives. . Dinner parties were common in our parents' homes. At least once a week, they would go out or they would host four or five couples for drin…
20replies698viewsRequest to open pic gallery
Does anyone else find it inappropriate to request someone to open their pics when they have not already opened their own pics? I would not expect/request someone to open their pic…
by rico539replies582viewsKidney Stones
Trying to pass a kidney stone. It sucks, and not in a good way! The nurse at the ER last night asked me if I’d ever passed a kidney stone before. I told her I’ve passed enough sto…
by ionsawmill18replies825viewsSoft Cock Appreciation Week
November 5th through November 11th is Soft Cock Appreciation Week. Soft Cock Appreciation Week is about the normalization and celebration of the flaccid phallus. It was created by…
by ionsawmill21replies982viewsKey West Fantasy Fest anyone attend
So SLS swingers anyone attend? Word is from south Florida news that it has now forever changed to more of a straight Halloween dress up event vs the day gone by era of painted bod…
by RonKathy7replies547viewsLifestyle in Eastern Europe
Hi all. I come from Eastern Europe, the country is Belarus. I currently live in the suburbs of Philadelphia. Went to a few parties at PGC. In my country there is experience in swi…
3replies349viewsMusic to Go Down To?
Ok - does anyone have any go to music to play as background music when going down? We like Ed Sheeran - nice beat and gets her moving a little too - only drawback - now anywhere I…
by gbinnj0replies198viewsHotel rooms and noises of pleasure
Recently was booked in a room with families and kids (audible through walls). How do you handle that? We used a Bluetooth speaker playing music and moved it around but there are t…
by gbinnj13replies983viewsHalloween Costumes??
Anybody have their costumes ready for this year? Good Ideas? I'm still undecided
by bobbyjoelong14replies768viewsVideo Calling
I m taking an informal poll. How many of you would answer a video call (here on SLS) from a stranger that you had never spoken to before?
by sls_WayneC30replies957viewsDropping your wife off for a date
Who has dropped his wife off...or...picked her up for a date with another......What happened or discussion or her condition upon pick up return
by Apolon2125replies1,398viewsLet me introduce myself
I am glad I have discovered this community, finally i can share my thoughts with open minded people. Even though I have been in the lifestyle for a while there is always more to l…
by Mysbehave19replies932viewsRetired folks what do you do to fill your days?
So I am recently retired (January) and while this summer has been filled up, I'm a bit worried about how I'm going to fill my time when the weather turns cold. So what do you do w…
22replies1,275viewsWhat is your weirdest rendezvous?
Anyone have any stories of meets that went sideways?
0replies225viewsPets?
Just curious who all has pets and what do you have? I have two rescue cats. One is 1/2 bengal and the other is 1/2 savannah. https://photos.app.goo.gl/EGJWvfMdmmQmcKyS7
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Camp NCN in Wisconsin
Heading to Camp NCN this weekend with my FWB. It's my 3rd time there and her first visit. I'm just curious from others who have been there what you thought of it and if you have a…
0replies169viewsWho does most of the legwork?
Hello! I'm just curious for couples who does most of the work in finding new playmates?
5replies275viewsI hope you all have a great labor day weekend
I hope you all have a great weekend and that you get some sexy time in!
0replies131viewsWhat book is on your bedside table
I'm currently reading Kate Milford's Greenglass House. I'm also re-reading The Hitchhiker's Guide To The Galaxy and God Emperor of Dune. I started The Man in the High Castle by Ph…
by ionsawmill23replies1,006viewsENTIRELY OFF TOPIC QUESTION
I know many of you have stepped back from your business life. I address this mainly to you. Up until now we have been utilizing the services of an accountant for our business and…
by lcmim6replies374viewsFaith
I realize there are many faiths out there and many places people go to worship those faiths, (church, temple, etc). My question is how many of you still go and practice your faith?
by MindyJay100910replies577viewsHot Date Etiquette with communication
Howdy everyone. Just wondering on what your thoughts are on communication for a hot date. I've found that many people post a hot date looking for particular things, but then simpl…
28replies1,096viewsFree accounts cannot read messages so what is the point in contacting them
I real new and a paid member but noticed that as my choices a re somewhat limited in my area I browse free accounts and noticed some of then have been around for a while and are /…
9replies369viewsHas anyone else had problems uploading images to this site?
Hi just created a paid account here and of course since we know pictures of the king when it comes to at least beginning to legitimize your account I wanted to get a couple up so…
3replies232viewsSomeone tried to extort me here
We started messaging, we exchanged messaging apps (kik/snap), we talked for a couple of days. She sent me a couple of nudes, everything seemed too good to be true, I requested a p…
12replies1,062viewsHearing crickets
I dont understand why it is so hard to meet people from my area. I have had so many conversations with local couples that never get passed the first few messages. (Polite, and noo…
by Goodfwbfun2replies272viewsProfile Opening Lines
Single male checks out our profile and this is his opening line. Are you butt dialing? Because I swear that ass is calling me!!! I wonder how well that works for him?
7replies345viewsRespect Discretion
Or is this under WTF. We have been in the lifestyle a good number of years. Our profile narrative is a chapter in the book War and Peace (for idiotic reasons). However, we emphasi…
by Ocbj0replies288viewsBus Drivers / motorcoach / party bus
Is there still a need for discreet openminded drivers for special occasions, or discreet tour outings. Or even private drivers, I was asked to driver a motor-coach full of swinger…
by nicetoentice9replies346viewslooking for help
we were in the lifestyle (she wants out) I'm still in, how you find people. i would love to be a Cock old
by TnSnewyork2replies327viewsFor the Cougars
For the Cougars in the Lifestyle ... a female friend shared this on Facebook ... thought it a little funny and probably true ... "Ladies, being a Cougar takes more than just being…
by Zeemac2replies429viewsBest method to finding others on cruise ship ?
Question: Is there a prefered method for finding lifestyle types on a cruise ship. phone app, or walk around with pineapple on our heads. Thanks in advance. C and T. Going this fa…
6replies449viewsFemale World Cup 2023
OP " ( soccer) is one of the few events that galvanize an entire country. This is why the fans from other countries seem so excited at the matches. Too bad they screwed up day one…
by RonKathy10replies718viewsLoading pictures
Pictures should ideally be 1024 pixels for the longest dimension (width or height). If a picture is smaller than this, it may be enlarged by the site which could reduce the qualit…
by ionsawmill6replies306viewsHotel Takeovers if you are not staying
Are Hotel Takeovers worth it if you cant stay at the hotel and have a baby sitter curfew? We are considering the Sharenation White Party in Parsippany NJ this Sat (7/22) however w…
by eastonpacpl2replies409viewsAI Artificial Intelligence telemarketing calls
I just got my first AI telemarketing call and sounded so LIFE like for the first 30 seconds before it sounding scripted that I started messing with it when I started to think it i…
by TDCouple19859replies330viewsTOPIC MOVED to North Carolina Looking for that Bi-couple
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by dragonrapide0replies88viewsHappy International Non-Binary Day
International Non-Binary People's Day is observed each year on 14 July and is aimed at raising awareness and organising around the issues faced by non-binary people around the wor…
by ionsawmill24replies945viewsPandoras Forest
Does anyone have any info since it reopened ? If you Google it all you get is area lodging. Have they changed the name?
9replies659viewsTell me a crazy sls story
About two months ago, a woman messaged me through here, around 9 pm on a Saturday, we quickly exchanged numbers and decided to meet. She lived an hour and half away from where I l…
3replies420viewsLooking for PlAymates
Hi i am looking for some fun playmates in NYC DM me and also trying figure things out in forums where I can post party info and more ??
by Dynamite6901replies229viewsWell this is awkward
We have a pool in our back yard and the wife & I frequently travel to FL. We are leaving this weekend for a Cancun trip with family and friends, obviously all purely vanilla. I kn…
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Traveling - places to stop to visit
We are in the process of getting our farm, out buildings, 3-bd rm house, and it's contents for sale. We are negotiating the purchase of a 77 ft. houseboat and moving back on the w…
by dragonrapide9replies446viewsUp ones ass
As a medic I am never surprised as to what people shove up their asses, and why. Things like cucumber, fat handle hairbrushes, bottles, and once even a potato which required surge…
39replies1,809viewsWho has the highest sex drive
Even with me approaching 65, my sex drive is and has always been higher than the Mrs. I did notice an increase in the Mrs when she hit mid-40's to early 50's, but it still never e…
by mayhem86replies500viewsBack dating
So I have not dated her for over a year for one reason or another. sure enough I made a date with a gentleman with a single male profile. Give him my phone number to a burner phon…
by yeaokay6replies440viewsParty themes
I know every state has a list of parties in different areas, curious to find out some of the best party themes you’ve come across?
by GameOBones1replies198viewsVent of the day 6/8/23
Just need to get this off my chest. Don’t care how much crap I may or may not get from it. For all you single men who think you have fooled everyone with your couples profile and…
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