Well unfortunately that is becoming the norm on here and other swinger sites. Lots of fakes that like to chat and then vanish when the time comes to get serious. As suggested you probably should post some additional pics and maybe try a club to see of you have better luck.
Hearing crickets
Hmm one nude bathroom selfie on your profile page.. sorry but it says all we need to know "Boring" no imagination, no smiles, no photos that are exciting.. really you asked guys like you are a dime a dozen.
Change it up, get someone to take some photos and get out and about... our classy , fun, smiling single guys are great!
I dont understand why it is so hard to meet people from my area. I have had so many conversations with local couples that never get passed the first few messages. (Polite, and noo sexual messages) only to my messages never replied to. Or the conversation could go for days until I mention meeting for drinks or dinner. Poof gone