How to get started on a cuckold experience?

What is a “Cyclops”?

— SLO

Mayhem Don't forget he likes to suck cock also.

I don't see any Shared pics,, very tired of all his faceless postings, yea we know he (gumby) likes cock and cum...

Off topic, but wondering why SharedBBW is only showing 4 posts. I'm guessing they delete them after they post them for this to be the case. I know on any given week I've seen them post similar variations of -

She likes cock, he likes cock, they both like cock ;-)

Most of my swing encounters and relationships ARE cuck situations.

I am very careful to treat the husband with courtesy and respect while understanding his subordinate role. I make sure to let the wife know that I won’t mistreat or disrespect him, but will be “leading” our encounter (unless they have other expectations), and I’ll try to involve him in some manner. Pretty much, these couples often want me to see them again.

I’ve met one couple where the wife wanted to be treated “like a no-good cheap slut,” as she put it. And, they wanted me to verbally abuse the husband, too. I did that and they both loved it. I was creeped out by it. It was all role-play, though, but I STILL don’t get it.

Kind of funny but when I started swinging and doing 3-somes with couples in my early 20's I was actually playing the part of a bull. Back then I didn't recognize this scenario really I was horny all the time and was just loving the sex. However, when I think back to the one couple I met often with he only watched and she would make comments to him how she loved my cock. Then whenever I would cum she would take it in her mouth and always kiss him after. This was their thing and he'll I didn't mind since she was a smoking hot early 30's Italian women with the most beautiful eyes.

Kind of interesting how oblivious I was to what was really happening and how I had never heard the term cuckold at that time.

The OPs profile is also blocked to single males. The post seemed more like a statement of fantasy than an actual question as implied by the title of the thread.

In any case "fuqing" a woman while her husband enjoys watching sounds like fun but not necessarily a cuckold thing. As Mayhem said, cuckolding seems to imply humiliation of or subservience by the male in the couple. Enjoying pleasuring a woman in front of her partner and or watching your partner in that circumstance seems pretty main stream to me in the lifestyle. I, for one, enjoy both whereas I have zero interest in humiliating or being humiliated by anyone.

Sucking his cock so it's nice and hard for her and and stroking my cock while watching all sounds good to me.

Go through SLS looking for someone you think your other half would find attractive. Show her a picture just to confirm. After some initial messaging between you and him arrange to meet with him one on one for drinks. Discuss with him your thoughts and boundaries. If your vibe with him is good, then arrange for a date for the 3 of you to meet for drinks. Up to this point you (and she) can still back out. However, what will likely happen is a few drinks and things can slowly move towards your goal. What makes doing it this way best is that you keep control of the situation and you keep him for that single purpose. This way there shouldn't be any jealousy or behind the back communication between her and him (unless that stimulates you as well). Go on, do it! You'll enjoy it...

Start wearing bras and panties and learn to suck and swallow....Mary Jo

2inUp - the OPs profile said blocked to couples when I looked at it.

You want to be a "bull" or a FWB for a hotwife but your profile is set to watch and soft, not full.

Maybe this is just a fantasy for you and that's okay. Or maybe your wife isn't onboard with your interest in being with other couples?

As far as geting started, if you like LS parties (once it's safe again) you can simply let the Mrs play with the SMs while you watch, or not. Both can participate in picking up a SM, or 3. At times, I have asked the Mrs to pick out a guys she likes at parties we've attended, and have picked them up for her. It's even hottter seeing her do the pick-up, and lets face it, guys are easy ;-)

Cuckold seems to imply a certain amount of humiliation (like a chastity cage for the hubbies dick), but that is not required. If it adds to things then great, but it could simply be you enjoy the thought of another man pleasing the Mrs.

For Bi guys, it opens up more possibilties, but again, not required. In it's purest sense, if another guy is fucking your wife and you're good with that, you're essentially being cuckolded.

We basically do this at a number of parties, but more often than not, I'm playing more than the Mrs. So for the few times that's not the case, I am more than OK with that. They have been among some of our hottest experiences.

OP hides his profile from couples.. yep that will work real good with couples !

If you want to be the bull, then you would do best to create a profile here that is more specific about being a bull for hotwives/cuckolds and then they will find you.

I've never done it but I think it could be to participate

I'd really enjoy him watching me passionately fuq and ravish his wife.