FACES ??? REAL PEOPLE HAVE THEM !!!

I was going through our pictures and realized that I have two of me that are pretty old. Ironically weight wise I was actually heavier in the pictures, not much but still 10-15 from where I am now.

@Outdoor — 1 in 100 is still better than what you get with single females. You may be luckily to get a no 1 in 100 attempts.

If you think single males are ruining the site why is your profile showing you're interested in single males?

Because 1 out of a 100 actually work out.

@Fokkers - Every once in a while, even a blind squirrel finds a nut. Trust me, I know!

BT

On that other site you can also be certified by others just like here, and every other site we've been on. So you don't have to send in a pic with your face and info. There is another way.

Something I have never been accused of having.

If you think single males are ruining the site why is your profile showing you're interested in single males?

Gosh darn it, Fokkers! There you go again with that rarest of traits, common sense…

BT

Single guys will not ruin the site. Just turn off the ability of to see or be seen by single guys. It’s really simple. We regularly turn off the ability of single guys to find us. About 2 months ago I turned it on. Last week I blocked them again. Way too many one word emails and guys in their 20s contacting us. They apparently didn’t read our profile or preferences. So with a click of a button we no longer see them.
This site is doing a great job of ruining itself.

I doubt when we first joined we would have jumped thru many hoops to verify "what" we actually were. Probably would have just not bothered.

We have just slowly resigned to the fact that little by little the site will become less and less useful for it's intended purpose. The single guys will run off the newcomers. I myself know 2 couples that signed up within the last year and within 6 months have given up even looking here due to the single guys.

FWIW: the other site (rhymes with Kat City) requires a picture of both of you (or just the female half) holding a sign with your screen name to certify you as a member. You don’t have to do it but your experience will be a whole lot limited.

“ couples need to provide a live video introducing themselves to be approved for membership”

Nope.

Not going to give SLS ownership of a video of us saying, “hi, I am …., and I am a swinger”.
We see enough problems with SLS owning face pics of us, much less a full swinger confessional.

This is a for-profit business. Trying to weed out and deny potential paying customers makes no sense for them.

It's cute that you guys think that everyone works a normal Monday to Friday 9 to 5 and would have time to sit and do a live video for a site. If you can't weed out the fakes yourself that's on you.

@2...good points ...totally agree....its a shame ... there needs to be test...couples need to provide a live video introducing themselves to be approved for membership

We had this happen twice , SM would tell us he would give up face pic if we were going to meet we would chat, he would try to make us think he was everything we wanted

The SM is where it all goes wrong. Singles will be the end of this sites usefulness. Sure the site will continue on due to the owners making money but I see down the road 90% of the cpls won't even come on here due to the singles fucking it all up.

one quick thing..first off fir us no profile pics no chat, no exception...if you put your faces on your profile...don't cover it up...if someone knows you, well they are on a lifestyle site..so no big deal...put a butt pic maybe...your faces can be in profile pics..generally blocked out or no pic is a red flag and you are hiding something...my opinion only

@TomandDiane...We totally agree with you...my guesson this site and others 50 - 60% of the members are not couples just pic collecters...we have had these pervs even try to talk like a female on the phone...sick

Face pictures are necessary. When and if we meet, I sure as hell am not going to have a smiley face covering my face am I?

@Ro-Ri54: We have required since we started a phone call verification with all 4 at the same time or at lest the female halves to prove there is actually a female half. You also can get a sense she's equally on board & not having her arm twisted by the male half to swing. More than a few "Couples" profiles have gone crickets when we bring up the phone call.

We don't show faces openly on the profile but are happy to share it pretty quickly. If we don't get face pics back of both we just won't reply to them at all. If you're not willing to share a face pic, I have no desire to waste one click on them. Not our problem if they don't like it. We also love only having body pics of her and none of him.

There is no reason for not sharing a face pic. Don't care about any excuse you may have..we all have jobs and family....If that describes you, get out of the lifestyle...
We are at a point, if someone contacts us, pictures are required, they can be private (protection from the pervs and pic collectors) our thing now is for the ladies to speak on the phone just to prove there is one...Most disappeared with this request..

Two times couples reached out to us expressing interest. Opened face pics which were only of the female half. They were was nice. When we told them our female half would need to see a face pic of their male halves they said they'd upload some. Both still haven't in months. Lol!

From the onset if you dont share an entire photo including face .. we will NOT waste our time.. way too many fakes, flakes and cheaters on SLS its that simple.. real swingers get it and READ what we have in our profile... just today we turned down 3 singles and couples with NO PHOTOS!

Its real easy people!

We had this happen twice , SM would tell us he would give up face pic if we were going to meet we would chat, he would try to make us think he was everything we wanted . Then when we were going to meet sent a bad picture, blurry!!! Lissa would not be attracted to him at all , Had to blow whole date off they never understand why. Just wasted our time and his . They just could have sent pic in the first place, could have said not interested . They think there abs or dick will sell them . not always the case....