Question for the Xtra guys

It shouldn't ruin it at all for the extra guy. If a guy is permitted to enter the intimate life of a couple, it is a true privilege for him. His focus should be completely and totally on the pleasure and comfort of the couple.

For wat it's worth, I think cum seems to make good lube. Or maybe it's the combination of that lube with the texture of a well fucked happy pussy...

Make that
STDs are not the point here" until you fuck lots of women who let other men fuck them bareback after their husbands have.

Russian roulette with an infinitely large revolver containing an infinite number of bullets...

SLO, My photo shows the husbands cum all over my face and glasses....Mary Jo

Hey, OH2NY2NJ....(whatever).....
STFU, you moron! You don’t get a picture, jackoff boy.....! Stop trying to make yourself look good at the expense of other single men. Doing so will not make you appear more attractive to either single women or couples. The fact is, nobody likes that behavior from boys like you. It is single males such as yourself that cause single women and couples to be extremely wary of single males in general on this H site. Just go away.

—- SLO

Of course it IS NOT a “FETISH”!!

Some people may fetishize about it, but for me, and I think for other men in general, whether or not the husband cums inside his wife (or even fucks her and doesn’t cum) before it is “your turn” is simply irrelevant.

If you have an issue regarding inserting your penis into a woman’s already-fucked pussy, then I consider that to be a high school hang-up that you just never got over. Whether or not anyone believes it, a LOT of women enjoy taking multiple men’s cocks, one immediately after the other (gang-bang style). Similarly, many, many, many men enjoy (YES!) fucking an eager woman’s “sloppy” pussy.

—- SLO

Currentrider,:
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STD’s ARE NOT the point here.....

The questions are

“Do you have a problem having sex bareback after another man has filled up
her pussy?”
AND:
“Do you have a problem of being required to use a condom if the husband does not use a condom?“
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Me? No, and No. But, my answer is: I don’t like using condoms because to me, the feeling of a condom is uncomfortable. The truth is, usually the wife doesn’t really like it either and sometimes says so. But “we” use them anyway (if, the husband or wife sometimes demands it) to (obviously) prevent pregnancy and (possibly) STD’s.

——- SLO

I'm with 8-inch on that one. STDs are not my style either. Though I definitely have enjoyed more that one woman after her husband has cum inside her...

Yeah, of course that is true.

Cheers, —SLO

“ No one in their right mind should expect a wildly excited, orgasmic woman to “clean up” after each male partner has reached the peak of coming inside her hot, orgasmic pussy. That’s what the men are there for”

I guess some would not consider that gay/bi and others would. Doesn’t mean either is right or wrong, rock out with what you’re into.

QUOTE: “ Do any of the straight single guys here fuck a woman after 1, 2 or 3 guys pumped loads inside of her?
It's not my style. “
UNQUOTE

Uhh, YES!
If you haven’t, you are probably still in high school right now. Go do your homework, dammit!!

That does not make them or me, “bi-sexual”. or “bi-curious,” bi-lateral,” bi-lingual, etc. It simply means both the girl and the guy(s) are there to be satisfied by attaining orgasm(s). No one in their right mind should expect a wildly excited, orgasmic woman to “clean up” after each male partner has reached the peak of coming inside her hot, orgasmic pussy. That’s what the men are there for.......to pleasure the girl and to (finally) pleasure their own, needy cock. The girl knows (or should know), when to tell the guy that he can cum.

I don’t believe a “sloppy pussy” is offensive, and I don’t find a woman to be a “whore” who takes multiple men at the same time. If so, what does that make the men. Satisfying the woman, I believe, is the goal. If you don’t want strange sperm on your dick or in your mouth, don’t fuck her and go down on her. Actually, you do not have to report back to us here, either.

Every couple is different, and so is every guy. & it changes with each situation...and I guess that doesn't answer the question. Haha. Sorry.

As a truly straight guy, my answer is no.

The “straight” guy a few posts back likes to suck cock so don’t know why he bothered answering a question directed at straight males.

~Scamp

8inch, it's my opinion that the men who respond to these questions in the forums are not representative of men in general.

Yes

Yes

Do any of the straight single guys here fuck a woman after 1, 2 or 3 guys pumped loads inside of her?

It's not my style.

As far as I know, there's no right or wrong as long as everybody is on the same page. One couple might want you to wear a condom while he doesn't, another may want to lick her clean after you cum in her. In my admittedly limited experience, there is no "normal" in this regard. I personally love sloppy seconds. YMMV

I miss the good old days of being a teenager in the early to mid 80s. The word STRAIGHT meant you either don't do drugs at all, or at least were currently not on any drugs.

So if I play with both ladies and puppets, does that count as bi? Or just when I play with them together?

Exactly Rustic. We have had that happen a few times in the middle of play.

2ndAct. What part of bisexual do you not understand?

“ Bisexuality is romantic attraction, sexual attraction, or sexual behavior toward both males and females, or to more than one sex or gender.”

Not all bisexual men have romantic feelings towards other men but engage in sexual acts with them. Still bisexual.

You admitted previously the only reason you list as straight is to not limit your options which means you are intentionally being misleading. That is a polite way of saying dishonest or a flat out liar.

~Scamp

2ndAct EVERYONE! In the lifestyle honesty is key and not just about your sexual preferences. The problem is so many are not honest about all sorts of things things. As far as sexual preferences go we have found after being in the lifestyle since the mid-90s far too many men try to hide the fact they are at the very least bisexual in some way shape or form. In fact we know of several men who got into the lifestyle with their wife because they are very much a closet bisexual. Mostly it comes up in conversation but on occasion they wait until the heat of the moment and spring the surprise. I do understand that being openly bisexual even if only in the right situation might mean you miss out on many opportunities you get by openly saying you are straight however sooner or later the facts to come out and then there are problems. Myself I have absolutely no interest in another male sexually other than does he make the wife happy. I never have and never will and in fact am a bit repulsed at the thought. That does not mean I feel that a guy who is bisexual or gay are wrong and support their right to do whatever makes them happy as long as they don't try to involve me.

2nd, you owe me no explanation at all, nor do you have to justify your comments with analogies. All I did was repeat exactly what you said to show how confusing all of this is for me. I didn’t insult you at all, just repeated your own words.

Who are you telling to be honest? I don't think anyone has been dishonest.

"I have been surprised by a guy saying "I want to suck your cock."" - That is never appropriate. Bad people are bad people.

I wasn't going to say anything here but being honest in your labeling or at least stating what you like is important to us. The reason is I have been surprised by a guy saying "I want to suck your cock." mid play without mention of this before hand. The wife and I got the hell out of there. We choose not to play with guys who enjoy another guy because it is not my or my wife's thing. If it is your thing then by all means do so however be honest about it and do not "surprise" someone in the middle of things. That includes reaching over and giving a stroke rub, or simply feeling up the person of the same sex without discussing it before hand much less going down on them.

BTW we have been told stories by other guys who have experienced the same sort of surprise as I experienced as well as women who have been done the same way. In fact one of the "worst" stories is the person who just suddenly goes down without warning on someone who does not appreciate it. This has actually turned some people out of the lifestyle.