Soft Swap Parties

We're in Indianapolis, we'd love to attend a soft swap party!

Interested in soft swap. Central Wisconsin couple.

We could be interested we live in Milwaukee and like to travel JHES12

Where are the soft parties in metro philly/?

i would be interested

Bobandnipa - "Let's have a local hang-out group for local lifestyle people. "

Any paid member can start a group. Just click on the Groups button on the left and create your own. Just keep in mind that some couples actually like SMs, so the couples that are interested in SMs may not be interested in a group that excludes them.

If you meant an actual physical group, you can always try posting a Hot Date to set up a Meet & Greet at a bar near you.

There are no lifestyle clubs or gathering in Fairfax/Loudon counties. Let's have a local hang-out group for local lifestyle people. Females and couples only. We live in Herndon/Reston area and know many local clubs and cool hangout spots. We also host quite often. We are new to this, trying to make some like-minded friends.
Please reach out and let's have fun.
If you are interested please send us a message

... to clarify: She was doing oral, he was checking names and taking pictures..

Attended a blow-gang recently by a nice couple. They did the screening ahead of time and met at the local adult theatre. Say hello, drop pants and go.
It was a lot of fun ... even though it was just a BJ. Knowing that I will get attention was a big draw for me.

So, soft swap can be fun, was for me.

We wish more couples were interested in Swap Play parties. Non in the Atlanta area that we know of.

We are now soft player in our 60s...
The full days ended a few yrs ago.
We wish there were 'soft' parties in Eastern Pa..
We go to gereral swing parties and are constantly telling couples we're soft as they assume your full.

Gee, I didn't think I started a new trend..I love giving the wife a break from her marital duties...

Hedo - I've seen that a couple times now where the girl's thing is giving BJs to completion and her guy's thing is watching. Apparently not as uncommon as you might think.

I certainly don't mind, but just that alone isn't much fun for the Mrs. Works for us at a party though where we both have more options.

It's been a few years now but we used to attend a lifestyle event in Canada where this would happen. A couple would attend, we knew them and always got along with them very well. More then once she requested that the guys all sit on the couch and a few chairs all in a row. She would move from one guy to the next after she sucked them off. Her husband would watch. At hotel party's her and her husband had me go to their room, once there she would give me a blowjob, he was always there watching, It's all she wanted. I know it may sound strange but it happens.

I could be wrong, (wouldn't be the first time ;-) but I would think that you may have a hard time getting enough couples in a given area to commit to soft swap only. Site-wide, you'll hear from other soft swap couples, but hearing from people hundreds or more miles away doesn't do much good for a party local to you.

We started that way, but as was mentioned earlier, once passions are ignited, things can progress pretty quickly beyond soft swap. Once you've gone to full swap, not saying you can't go back to it, but it will tend not to be as exciting as it was and there is nothing really stopping you from doing other full swaps at that point.

Most people have limited play time, and for the ones that would be OK with either soft or full swap, I would think most would choose full swap if they only had time to do one or the other. I know we would.

Soft Swap Parties? At the pool or hot tub.

I am thinking that sending out formal invitations may be more than is needed.

I would (as is possible) handle it via Internet messaging and/or phone, taking names and notes of commitment to line up people that way. Opinions, of course, may vary. As with any such gathering of any type, count on perhaps 50%, or fewer not showing up. If you get more, all the better.

—- SLO

Nothing better than a bunch of oral sex and kissing....Mary Jo

I know that my man and I would definitely be interested in the soft swap party. We are new to the lifestyle and are still figuring out what we are both comfortable with. We are both shy when it comes to other people. So we have wanted to do soft swap but you are right everyone seems to be into full and separate room swaps. We just aren’t there.

We think both the soft swap and the foreplay parties are good ideas, although the foreplay party might be the most difficult because once people get passions ignited with each other, they tend to be highly motivated for more.

Another idea might be a foreplay party. No sex.

My wife and I like to soft swap and want to invite couples. We would like to first develop a list of couples who are interested somehow. Then we could send invitations out. Couples who have attended our parties know that we book some fantastic venues. I am interested in hearing some of the most interesting things you've been to or done? We are considering a soft swap Monte Carlo party for instance were we have a series of different games being played in a large church renovated into an amazing 9 bedroom retreat. Complete with dance floor, bar, game room and the works. We never charge any money and they are not all that big. Sometime we would like to find 3 couples to commit to meeting us in an airbnb with hot tubs on a beautiful river in the midwest. Another idea for a couples party is BYOB. Bring your own boyfriend. Couples can bring their favorite single guy along. Just a thought. What are your ideas? We are always trying to come up with themes.