I was lucky, my (ex) wife liked me to be bi, she loved to watch me with another guy.
I've seen similar topics here....my feeling on it is just be honest about yourself/yourselves.....there are more bi husbands out there than people realize
No offense, not judging, to each their own and whatever else needs to be said to not hurt anybody’s feelings. It’s 2023 and you can identify as whatever you want, doesn’t matter if it makes sense to anybody else or not. However, if you’re a man and you suck dicks, most people will not see that as straight.
I am not attracted to males in any way so I don't consider myself bisexual. If you look at my profile, I had an experience with a very hot lady and her husband.
While sucking my dick, she asked if it was okay if her husband helped her suck my dick. I resisted at first but she insisted and I said fuck it. The two of them sucked the hell out of my dick together. When I came she snatched it out of his mouth and took it all over her face and in her mouth and he licked her face like Scooby-Doo on the cartoon.
Afterward she asked if I was going to reciprocate and I resisted at first, but she insisted and reluctantly I did it... and I enjoyed it. I was surprised at that too. I do oral only, I'm not into all the other parts of bisexuality. I don't top or bottom or kiss or rim or anything, just oral. I don't even like looking at men naked. It's just an oral fixation.
In a MFM threesome, I only do oral if I'm allowed to. I tell the male that if he's straight then I'm straight.
When a woman gets up and walks past me, I might check out her ass. And I have never in my life checked out a man's ass. This is why I list myself a straight
Well we can tell you as a Bi male/straight female couple the posts from other couples seeking us out are kinda rare.....
No way to know, but considering the advice my wife and I were given when we first started swinging, I'd say there are at least a few. We were told that straight male/bi female couples get more interest than bi male/straight female couples or both straight couples.
Just out of curiosity how many couples post as having a bi/bicurious wife but she really isn't beyond a little touchy feely
"Biggest question: If you are 100% straight why in hell are you even commenting in a bi room or blog?"
Interesting that this comment comes from someone who identifies as straight in their profile.
I'm actually looking for a "friends with benefits" relationship. For me it's important that I like the person before I have sex with them. So politics and religion are sometimes deal-breakers.
we don't talk religion or politics. If it comes up we divert the conversation.
It's not a topic of conversation, but a lot of conservative Evangelical swingers don't want to swing with an atheist. Because we're "immoral." :) It had never occurred to me until this club owner told me.
Do swingers actually talk about religion when they meet?
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I was told by a club host when we first got started in swinging that I should hide my a) bisexuality and b) my atheism. He said that a lot of swingers were afraid to swing with a bi guy, and most of them were religious. Then he told us that we’d have much better luck if my wife was bi. We didn’t feel comfortable changing who we were just to get laid, so we didn’t. We eventually did find another couple just like us, and after that attended an on-premises party. Never hid who we are.
To me whether you are a single or the male half of a couple just be honest....the people you eventually meet should be more compatible....isn't that what we all want? ....
Young bi guy into mature bi couple… let’s have some uncomplicated fun
For me it was nothing to do with my wife knowing...she spent 4 years trying to get me to be with a guy while she watched.
It's that a lot of couples shun men who are listed as by.
Nice to know that as a straight guy, I'm not entitled to have an opinion on any bi issues, and i should keep my fucking pie hole shut.
Therefore it would follow that bi folks are not entitled to have opinions on straight issues, and they should keep their fucking pie holes shut.
See? That shit doesn't feel so good when the shoe is on the other foot, hmmm?
WOW, ROFLMMFAO
Now Now Folks.. according to Cambridge new dictionary definition.. Man or Woman.. depends how the wind is blowing is how they can NOW identify.. so guess its what they feel that day!
Hilarious pass the popcorn!
“Biggest question: If you are 100% straight why in hell are you even commenting in a bi room or blog?"
This is a 3some forum, why isn’t the bi blog in the bi forum?
To salandrick,
I enjoyed your comment: "Biggest question: If you are 100% straight why in hell are you even commenting in a bi room or blog?"
As I've (her) so many times wondered the same here. Especially in "Women Talk" and I see a member with a male profile name dressed as a woman and speaking up on so many women issues. It leaves me waiting to see what "he/she" will add when the topic of menopause comes up.
After reading a few of these rooms that discuses being bi or straight. The funny thing is, the so call 100% straight guys that come into these room and comment about how people are liars. In my 60 years I found that people who are 100% of something are hiding the most. Sounds like a bunch of closet dwellers. I mean really what does it matter. If you meet someone/ couple and you don't want the guy touching you say so. but even when you have sex with yourself someone is touching you. Fuck the LS lied when it said it wasn't judgmental and open to others but all I see are a bunch of deniers. why are you here? Don't you all realize we are here for the same reasons? to meet people and to get off. Biggest question: If you are 100% straight why in hell are you even commenting in a bi room or blog? sounds like y'all are all hiding shit. Go ahead and do yourself a favor and suck a cock then you will know for a fact if you are 100% straight. Trying doesn't make you bi or gay going back for more might.
Maybe by posting as a bi male cuts down their chances of meeting other couples and/or getting invites to parties/clubs
I've been with couples that primarily wanted a guy to join them as straight....and I DO play straight with couples that desire only that.......But during sex, he & I fucking her, I might touch or caress his body if he's hot..... His response will tell me if he's open to more. I've left many MFM's with my load on his face or him
wanting to suck me more....
Many Bi men list as straight for different reasons. 1 could be to hide it from their wife but from what I've see the most prevalent reason is the stigma that a lot of people have with the label. There is still a stigma on Bi men in the lifestyle as well as outside it. I tend to hang out in many different circles from Bikers to collage age kids. In every group a lot of people will treat someone Bi different. It's gotten better but still a long way to go. Another reason Bi men don't list as such is the fear that it will get back to work or other social circles and cause people to look at them different. I don't have a problem with someone not listing as Bi weather they are or not. Everyone has their reason.
The main thing is to be honest with the people you actually get together with. Thats when it really matters. I have been with couples that the male was bi, and they made it known ahead of time. It was then my choice weather or not to meet them. We still had a great time and still get together every ounce in a while. He knows I prefer women not men and he never approach me in that manner. Although we all know when more than 2 people are together hands and other body parts touch when there is a lot of action and if that is a problem a threesome is probably not for you.
