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Changing your status from single to a couple
Does anyone know the procedure for changing your status from a single to a couple. I am a lifetime member but have a live-in girlfriend now that wants to dip her toes back into th…
by Rerunmylife3replies138viewsHuge delay on inbox messages deliveries
Has everyone else here noticed the huge delay between when a message is sent and when it actually shows up in your inbox? Tested it out with a few others here and found very large…
5replies164viewsLooking for fun this weekend
Hey guys, me (bi) husband (straight) are looking for another couple or female this weekend for us to host for. We aren’t exactly having much luck on here lately. We are a very res…
by Dipandskip9replies271viewsTSA says pack things that buzz in your carry on
They specified toothbrushes but added other things that can activate and buzz in checked luggage.
by gbinnj6replies262viewsAttire at first face to face meet
Hello all- what do you think is the best attire for your first face to face meet? For me, I always keep it slightly revealing, but more vanilla. (deep-V or a well placed button lo…
by Peppa4U6replies335viewsSite Activity
Has anyone been finding that the site has had next to no activity regarding contacts and even the Forums section is close to being dead? Hardly any discussions or new posts and mo…
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Hot Dates
We're not even sure how to ask this question. Most hot dates posted, esp by single guys, state "....no expectations...", but nearly all go on to state that they have arrangements…
9replies426viewssobriety
is anyone on here sober? meaning they don't use drugs or alcohol? I found sobriety almost ten years ago... before that in the swinging life i lived i used a good bit of alcohol an…
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Lack of response on emails
Why don’t people on SLS practice professional courtesy such as RESPONDING to emails. How hard is to say “no thank you”. It’s just common courtesy when someone sends you an email t…
17replies572viewsWondering
How many wife’s and girlfriends pictures are on here and they have no idea that they are swingers?
by newcouple381replies144viewsChat room
Who loves to talk and video in the chat rooms? I love doing my morning naked baking chat with a suprise ending.
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MFM first time question
Should the first connection be the two or should all three meet together for sex?
4replies310viewsSurprise
Have you ever had something happen during sex that you wouldn't have seen coming in a million years? I had one girl who let me figure it out on my own that she was missing a foot!
59replies1,180viewsLanguages
Do you speak any language other than English? If so, at what level? I once spoke some shitty Quebecois (Quebec's dialect of French). Enough to conduct some basic conversation, and…
11replies304viewsHow many states/countries have you had sex in?
My wife and I have traveled extensively and came up with a list of states/countries we have had sex in. This includes "friends" we met along the way. We are at 14 states and 23 co…
by brstlcpl33replies1,131viewsHome Economics
Back in middle school or junior high school, we were taught basic principles of how to do things at home to make life livable. Here, you can share what makes things livable in you…
78replies1,748viewsSEX WITH THE X
How many have or would like to have sex with the X? Jut a thought while I am sitting here in thought..
by MNJFLA12replies519views- 6replies551views
Please attack us but its true
We have a general bitch about the posters on this site. Most peoples pictures are dated back to 2016 when they were a decade younger and less gross. Why does everyone have prison…
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Odd groupings clustered together in WVM list
Something that seems odd to me and it's happened often enough to be notable, sometimes we will get "clusters" of similar profiles making up half or more of the recent views on the…
1replies185viewsProfile photo dates bait n switch?
Amazing how many active profiles have photos dating back to 2010-2017 etc. Really gives perspective into ones profile now that photos come with expiration dates lol. Anyone else f…
by HOPnrBED8replies430viewsProductive Swinger Sites
For "us" SLS over 10 years , only select classy people need apply. As long as we have been swinging we have a well established group of FWB all over USA... even before we were on…
by RonKathy1replies469viewsSecrets Hideaway-visting for newbee night
Quick question, I've never to Secrets in Fl. Serious question, what does one wear? It is Fl where most of the locals live in shorts and flip flops... Jeans and a good fitting tee…
by SurferJ2replies255viewsATTENTION web site Admin
Sorry for posting this here, but I couldn't find a way to contact an administrator directly. I just wanted to advise of a problem person who keeps trying to create improper profil…
by TN_cpl_4Bull2replies215viewsAI Where is it headed
I just finished an article. Cited was the observation that one, perhaps two of the AI models have successfully "rewired" their software to recognize patterns that they were not de…
by lcmim13replies495viewsTo my friend best friend and then we became lovers
To Anna We started off being friends then we became best friends then we became lovers The woman that stole my heart I want to write you a love note With my tongue as the pen With…
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Trying something new we had never done
On Friday night, my wife was feeling particularly frisky and said she wanted "to experiment with something new". She told me her idea in detail and I admit I had a lot of reservat…
13replies687viewsSLS Forum
Guys stop with your AI generated stories.. they are terrible ! For the many swingers we know and meet.. we want to here your real life swinging stories.. not make believe META AI…
by RonKathy8replies401viewsInterest Levels
Interest levels for profile types are: Definitely, Yes, A Little, Maybe and No. I m interested in feedback as to what you consider the difference between Definitely and Yes and th…
by sls_WayneC8replies333viewsWoman
You’re a woman, you have the greatest tool in the lifestyle, you’re the unicorn everyone seems to desperately seek, you can be as picky as you can, you have every right to do so,…
4replies280viewsFree members
Does anyone know the trick to contacting free members since they don't see messages?
by milftaster2replies249viewsAge amnesia
I would like to introduce a lifestyle phenomena that I call age amnesia. We are 67 years old. Like everyone on this site, we think we look younger than our age. We are asked out b…
18replies859viewsHotwife/ cuckold help
Not sure a swinger site is the right place to ask for help tbh. Sounds like he doesn't really want this but says he does. You're not a mind reader. Sounds like serious relationshi…
4replies443viewsWe found a perfectly compatible couple exactly like us in all ways
When we read their profile, I thought "wow, I could have written this profile using the same words". But wait, I DID !!! Other than a couple of added sentences, it was an exact co…
11replies631viewsLack of response on SLS
Why don’t people respond to emails on SLS? How hard is it to say “no thank you”? We are on here because we have a similar interest. Absolutely mind boggling.
14replies537viewsBull looking for girlfriend
Hello everyone! I am a 46 years old single and healthy bull, never married and have no kids with a remote job that allows me to move for the right couple. I am looking for a coupl…
by kyen07595replies364viewsCalling all cool people or Anyone interested in sharing incite anecdotes advice or just general info about the swing game Stories open questions editorials and anything else relevant is welcome
This forum is for anyone who wants to become more informed about the swingers lifestyle. A place where advice, personal experiences and curiosity are encouraged to share anything…
10replies314viewsWTF
WTF happened to get the previous WTF topic locked? And a place for any other WTF moments.
428replies9,321viewsUser Warning
I don't know if the same holds true with the women who are seeking men, but for men seeking women be very careful with users who have free accounts, and where the pics may look to…
2replies250viewsHappy International Beaver Day
Happy International Beaver Day, everyone. So how are you celebrating? Please tell me that you ladies are celebrating by nibbling on wood Lie to me if you have to
by sorillo10003replies228viewsErotic/kinky/naughty movie recommendations?
What movie or video got you turned on? I'm looking for non-vanilla type movies or videos . All recommendations will be appreciated
by patsfan124replies329viewsIs the lifestyle dying in the US
Anyone feel like the lifestyle is dying in the US? When we got into the lifestyle 13 yrs ago people were more outgoing, had good conversations and the lifestyle seemed to be alive…
4replies317viewsChanging location on the app
Does anyone know why I can’t edit my location on the app? I travel a lot, so it’s fun to see what’s up where I’m going. I used to be able to. Note: I’m computer illiterate
4replies228viewsWhat is your dream car?
If you could have any car in the world and money was no object, what would it be? Alternatively, what car have you realistically been wanted to get but just haven't pulled the tri…
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