1 Start getting testosterone therapy shots and take an estrogen blocker
2 lose weight.
3 start a daily jelqing regimen. I've gained 3 inches in length and 1.25 in girth. Took 15+ years so don't give up
4 stop masturbating. If you can't, at minimum stop doing it while watching porn.
All of these steps together will increase the size and intensity of erections
1 Start getting testosterone therapy shots and take an estrogen blocker
2 lose weight.
3 start a daily jelqing regimen. I've gained 3 inches in length and 1.25 in girth. Took 15+ years so don't give up
4 stop masturbating. If you can't, at minimum stop doing it while watching porn.
All of these steps together will increase the size and intensity of erections
I know what you mean by enjoying oral sex as we get older I like that alot too
I think we all started reading this forum because we are concerned about penis shrinking. It maybe happening to you now are we may be concerned about when we get older. I was reading the article and just wanted to share it with you guys: The base of the penis actually starts well inside the body. You can check this out with the aid of a ruler pressed firmly against your pubic bone. That’s actually the official way of measuring and involves acronyms such as BPEL (bone pressed erect length) and NBP (Non-Bone-Pressed). And the difference between BPEL and NBP is the fat pad at the base of the penis, and the more fat at the base of the penis, the less of said penis becomes visible to the naked eye.
For every 30-50lbs of excess weight you will lose an inch of visible
RM - We apparently have very different takes on the word "tact". While it can mean sensitivity, it also means cleverness or skill. You made a great counter point with the "30-40 years of periods". It would have been even better if you had put the hammer down.
There is no forum thread where cleverness and skill would not apply. Not even the Men Talk thread ;-)
mayhem8 you expected tact by that point in the conversation? This overall section is men talk and in that I find it best to speak plainly and without tact because generally other men understand that better than sugar coating things or using euphemisms. As a gender we tend to get the point and learn better when hit with a hammer than tickled with a feather.
RM - Simply saying, "I'd rather deal with a shrinking dick than 30-40 years of having a period." would have made your point, similar to what MusicalPair did.
Calling things like you see them and tact don't have to be mutually exlusive ;-)
mayhem8 I don't do tact I call them like I see them. Oh and the response simply exposed what was there which is a reason I don't do tact. Make more popcorn or not your choice because on my end the conversation is over and I cannot even see his side of the original exchange LOL.
Hit a nerve, did I?
The interwebs can be a little tough on the overly sensitive.
Anyone want to pass the popcorn over?
This seems like a classic case of how something was said versus the message, at least initially.
What RM "basically" said was what 8" wrote was insensitive to women. 8" took it as an attack and then unrelated volleys on multiple sides occured.
If 8" could admit that what he said was insensitive to women and RM could admit he could have been more tactful in calling him out on it, I could forego making even more popcorn , but hey, I do like popcorn so your choice ;-)
Blocked 8inch years ago a true racist and anything else that he spews hatred on a swinger site! He could not hold an intelligent conversation with people if he tried..
Those like him on a swinger site your journey will be much better by just blocking them.. and 888 is another one.
Your venom is much better suited for the BS on the politics forum, than unleashing it on those who are only trying to be helpful.
Do you ever read what and how you speak down to everyone? Middle school English teacher? Fuck up a lot of family dinners, swing parties and weddings?
"Hi. I have even less time than usual this morning, so everything, including the disclaimer, is going to be abbreviated. Disclaimer: This can feel like a really unpleasant process, but it's rare for anyone to comment except with the intention of pointing out what might be getting in your way. Basically, the advice is generally blunt and very kindly meant. So, with that said, what I think of your profile is that your photos are generally decent although they wouldn't prompt me to contact you, your cert is great and everything else is not going to be particularly useful to you. There is so little content that it misses the mark of being inviting and that means you're fighting even more of an uphill battle than is strictly necessary. Your tagline, with some amplification - after you've found those couples, is it just a one time thing you're after or something more? - properly belongs in Looking For. Instead, your tagline should be short and, if you can, amusing or intriguing. Looking For is about the who of what you're looking for more than the what, so the three way/orgies thing more properly goes into Fantasies. Also, it's women, not "F." Really, these are people you're looking for, so make it look as if you think enough of them to spell it out. Description - You might be worth my time and interest, but your saying so is unlikely to convince me. Instead, devote some time to saying a little more about yourself, including your vanilla interests. Also, it's "discreet." Fantasies isn't terrible, but please use complete sentences here and everywhere else. Additional comments is your chance to end on a charming and engaging note, which I don't think you have, plus you've used the passive voice, which in this instance is not your friend. And that's all the time I have. Good luck. Please collect opinions, make some changes and then come back for a review."
And this one...
Who the fuck are you?
Drivel, drivel, drivel.
"Hi. This process can get really uncomfortable, because it's like being put under a microscope. Please try to keep rolling with it, understanding that the aim is benevolent. So, there are two problems with being vague in order to not be off-putting. The first is that you're unlikely to get what you want. The second is that you're unlikely to even attract the people with whom you could theoretically find what you're looking for. Your profile is a great deal like a resume and it's helpful to keep that in mind. If you were looking for a job, would you have any confidence that submitting something that could apply to any position would get you the job as CEO? No, of course not. It's like that here too. And by keeping your options open, you're pretty much insuring that nobody will see themselves in what you write distinctly enough to feel a connection. So, in Looking For, instead of what you have (although the first section, shortened a bit, can go down in Additional comments for the next three months before being deleted altogether), talk about who you're looking for and what you're looking for. If you're looking for solo women, as your toggles indicate, then mention them as well as couples. If you're looking for scorching hot action with people you'll never see again, mention that. If it's friends with benefits or some sort of ongoing interaction, say so. If you're not sure, then the two of you need to do some talking. In any case, center this section on the people you're looking for. One way to do that is to use personal pronouns very sparsely. Description is a place where you can show enough of yourselves to charm and interest others. What you have does not do that. Everyone has a story, an interesting and intriguing one that is as individual as a snowflake. I'm not saying spill your guts, but put on your party manners, show up and be charming. Who are you? What are some of your vanilla pursuits? Why would I want to get to know you well enough to fuck you? That last? That's why what you have won't do. What is there about you being hard working and college educated that makes me want to throw off my clothes and jump you? What you currently have in Fantasies is a valuable part of the conversation the two of you have had about swinging. Very little of it will entice strangers and doesn't really have a place in your profile. What are your actual fantasies? No need to be graphic, but this is yet another place where others can see themselves and be charmed. You already have something that can go in Additional comments, which is good, because what you have isn't useful. First, you don't actually need nudes, but if you do have them it's fine. It's actually more intriguing to have smiles, particularly if you want to attract women, either single or as half of a couple. Your childcare requirements, while definitely germane when deciding who and when to meet, don't go in your profile. We all have things that make us less available than hot and cold running water. Instead, end on a high note, because this is the last place where you can charm. Good luck. Make some changes and then please come back for a review."
You really think too much of yourself and your opinions. This one below you wrote screams Psychiatric Ward escapee.
"Hi. I'm not worried about offending you or anyone, but this process can be uncomfortably intrusive, especially when criticism is involved. If it feels that way, I hope you roll with it anyway, because it's not about you, it's about how you're marketing yourself. You have a decent start because that thing with the keys is funny, but it's not enough if your intent is to attract others. Plus it's kinda memorable, so if you've haven't changed it, your photo or your tagline any time in the last six to 12 months, you should. Also, since you've been on here for four years, are you actually 40? If you aren't, fix that and consider changing your age range preference accordingly. Anyway, if you can come up with something equally clever or even just mix your current terms up in Looking For, that would be a good start. But then you need to talk about what you're actually looking for, which is other people. Your toggles suggest you're open to all permutations and you should mention that. And then what you're looking for, although there I think your particular sort of humorous vagueness might work if you're not sure if you want a one time thing or FWBs. Description is meant to attract others. I'm not sure you've done that, although your start isn't bad. Who are you? What do you like to do? Is that guitar a prop or are you a musician? This is a chance to interest others in you, so put some time and thought into it. Everyone, every single person, is unique and special, so show some of that part of you here. Fantasies - You don't need to talk about that 9th grade teacher and what you wanted to do with him or her, but do lightly sketch out your experience and something about your fantasies. This is another place for you to connect with others, a place for them to see themselves in your imagination or you in theirs. Additional comments is a place for you to end on a high note. What that might be is an individual choice. Can you host? That can go here. So can a ton of other things. You might want to look at some of the profiles of forum posters if you're stuck. Just start with something, so you don't continue giving the impression that you can't be arsed to make an effort or to finish things. Anyway, make some changes, add some content and then come back for a review. Good luck."
"You got pussy whipped at a young age and got married. I chose to be single in Europe and Asia.
I've gotten more pussy by accident than you've gotten with your wife as bait."
And women everywhere just put a check mark in the 'Doesn't really like women' box.
Not everyone is that adept at comprehensively stepping on their own dick. Congratulations, dude.
8inchcable the poster child for why single males are disrespected. Anyway just one more for the blocked list after showing his true self.
Your dick has been on milk cartons since they stopped using glass bottles.
You got pussy whipped at a young age and got married. I chose to be single in Europe and Asia.
I've gotten more pussy by accident than you've gotten with your wife as bait.
She is the ONLY one that will fuck you.... Obligatory sex.
Think of all the couples that said no or no replies to your msgs once they saw pics of a 350+ lb fat fuck.
So please stop fucking with me and get back to the topic.
8inchcable oh and if it was just bleeding your dismissal might be something I would not respond to but my wife would go pale and weak at the start of things before she had kids (which causes changes). Oh that's right men don't push a watermelon out their dicks either. Get a grip because comments like yours give single men a bad rap.
8inchcable no I'm a man with a wife who I have been with for over 30 years. I respect what women deal with and go through enough to where as a man I am smart enough to realize there is no comparison unlike some.
Hey!
It happens. If you have confidence and skill, it’s not a big deal, so . . . .
So, you're a man, telling another man, what it's like being a woman.
Next you'll be telling me that your cycles synched and you bled from your dick 4 days a month.
8inchcable talk about shooting yourself in the foot. Dude you did not go there. I mean really say you did not do it. "Women have it good." is what you said. Discounting the whole once a month for 30-40 years you obviously have no clue what they go through (and put their men through) when their body decides it is time to stop that nonsense. Honestly I will take a shrinking malfunctioning member anytime than be a woman dealing with what they go through. Truthfully a single guy has it the easiest in regards to the affects of aging and most have no clue and are oblivious to what the women around them are going through.
BTW I'm not complaining because I love my wife and will do whatever is necessary right beside her through anything. I'm just pointing out this guy really has no clue so ladies go easy on me I'm on your side.
@8inch: But, women do get dryness, and a thinning of vaginal walls that can cause pain with intercourse. Getting old is not rosy for anyone.
Women have it good.
Their pussy will never get shorter, lose girth, or stop getting erections.
Men have surgeries to gain length, girth, or pump implants.
When most women peak sexually, many men have sex drives going the other way.
But being a single man stationed in Europe....... it's heaven on earth.
Was well worth joining the Air Force.
