MMF ?

It may be unfortunate but it is accurate.
I’m also a top, and also fairly active MM sex life, but I’m not cloistered in a group of friends I’ve known forever (which would be awesome good on ya for having that!), I’m in the trenches lol.

I have been rejected by bottoms when I say I only play safe with condoms, “lf I wanted to get fucked by something rubber I’d just use a dildo!” Literally every other bottom who hits me up on Grindr leads with “Breed me daddy”. My reply of no deal, I only play safe gets me blocked better than half the time. That’s fine because I wouldn’t want them anyway, but it is illustrative of the absolute wreck that safe sex practices find themselves in the gay community. Prep, doxy, and the mpox vax (all of which I’m on) have led men who have sex with men to think they are invincible. No, not all of them, but a percentage large enough to spoil the whole bunch.

Add to that we are the demographic most at risk for STD’s…well gee I don’t really wonder why some see us as plague rats.

Oral bi guys in couples - this is often because they are cuckold. So fluffing the guy to make him wet for her. Then clean him off afterward - taste him and her. Is what they are looking for.
Bottoming - being topped is more submissive or intimate than these couples are looking for.

I am open to topping him if this is what the couple wants. BiM play I have found often makes her extra wet and horny - it seems to reach a special place where she needs to prove she is the more sexually desirable one. Her watching him bottom - get topped even more so.

Topping her and him can be great way for a couple to share a guy - both giving themselves to him.
Topping him can be part of the submissive cuckold dynamic. Or a way to sandwich him between her and I.
I want to be watched - so I am not interested in just MM play.

love to find a MMF...... great time!

Harley - he is lucky to have you supporting and loving him unconditionally.

Lots of Bi/Gay guys prefer to go bare

That's kind of an unfortunate perception - sure, many guys prefer to go bare, but on the other hand, many guys do not. Speaking as a top with a pretty active MM sex life, I always make a point of safe sex. The vast majority of my sex life is with friends I've known for multiple years. I understand the sentiment that the risk is still too high, but I think at that point the risk isn't that someone is bi or guy, but that you're having sex with strangers whose practices you just don't know. Slowing down a bit and getting to know the guy - perhaps even exchanging test results, which I've done - probably does more for your safety than making assumptions based on orientation.

Also, don't take this the wrong way, but, speaking as a single bi guy, the fact that you are part of a married couple doesn't mean squat to me as far as my safety is concerned. I have no idea what you're up to when you're at a swinger club or sex party or your hot wife has a date with another guy.

I love watching hime with other men, there's nothing submissive about hime receiving anal and def doesn't take away his masculinity. It add to him being open enough to enjoy his pleasures with me while he's receiving or giving. We much prefer men who either top or bottom or both over just oral. We eliminate the men who say they are down then get together and just wanna be with me, we explain that I wanna watch and help the guys have an amazing experience and if its hot enough then I may join.

Personally we’ve found it difficult to find a bi male that would be a top for us, I had never bottomed but wanted to at least try it out! But to no avail. I finally had to take matters into my own hands and seek it out by myself with my wife’s urging. So I did and it was good, not something I’d like for a regular thing, but at least I did it. I think that when there’s a hot woman in the mix that the males are more interested in going in the woman. I personally aren’t attracted to men but love oral with them, but that’s just me. We’ve actually now started getting straight men to agree to both of us orally pleasing them! I figure it’s our duty to try and get some hesitant females into the idea of mmf fun!

As per the original statement that in many bi couples, the husband is only orally bi...

This has to do not only with whether or not they may/may not enjoy anal, but also safety.

Anal is the #1 way HIV is transmitted. Lots of Bi/Gay guys prefer to go bare, regardless of the risks, and many coupled don't want to bring that risk to their bedroom. It's risky enough having oral with someone who has a high likelihood of practicing raw anal. Most couples would rather play with other like minded couples in order to minimize risk. In such a situation where two couples may be exclusive to one another, I could see more experimentation going on.

THIS being said, most guys like to have a masculine persona, and don't want their wives to see them in a submissive position, bent over and moaning while getting railed. Many women cannot process that, and will see their man in a completely different light after witnessing it. Fair or not, she will see him more as a submissive or cuck... and will be seen as less masculine/authoritative.

Both parties in a couple need to have extended talks about what they are, and are not comfortable with. Also need to read between the lines, as not everyone will admit, or can even foresee how they will react. Baby steps. A little at a time, and process as you go. Don't make big leaps that you're not ready for, or are ready to process in a healthy manner. This goes for any play, not just bi.

I'm with you 100% 6_4you2 ! That is a life changing experience .

If you can plan a meet up with just the male half, I believe he would most likely test the anal waters. Lots of men are a bit shy about anal in front of their partner. Afraid of the "stigma"

We love a good mmf as well just hard yo find

I love a good MMF!!!

I don't get the cancer meds thing either, must be missing something.

Don't tell them you are taking meds.

THERE ARE NOT ANY COUPLES INTO SEX WITH BI MEN WHO TAKE CANCER MEDS

To me, having sex with a bi couple is the ultimate sexual experience

I’m bisexual and love plying infront of her. I like oral and I too and bottom. She is bi as well and loves the taste of another woman

LOVE GIVING ANAL AND ORAL,LOVE SWALLING CUM,WANT MY AS SPREAD AS I GET FUCKED DEEP,I LOVE EVERY THING,JOE

Is it really necessary to label what level of bi someone is? If I'm with a couple and while the husband and I are enthusiastically pleasuring every inch and hole on his wifes body at some point I suck his cock and he mine.....his wife watches/joins....we all eat cum and eat creampies......does that make me less bi because there was no anal involved between the husband and me?....

Neither me nor the Mrs ever liked anal. We both feel that sticking something up our asses is not a sexual act. Yes, we both have tried it with previous partners. We both greatly enjoy touching and giving oral to both men and women, and the Mrs enjoys kissing both men and women. I'm a bit more reserved in kissing. I don't understand the mindset that says, "if you're a guy, and you like giving pleasure in a gender neutral manner, you MUST like having a dick shoved up your ass". It's simply not true. We're all individuals, and we all have our own likes and dislikes, and it's really bigoted to make stereotypical assumptions.

SWFL BI Party Saturday February 1st.

Spa, Sauna, Massage table, saline pool

1 Bifemale, 2 Bimales….possible a bi couple …..not confirmed. …we seek another M or F or A Bi Couple. Single male must be shaved, cut hung BWC.

I am fully Bi Vers. My Wife taught be the joys of anal. I never had any idea but love to be filled. I can actually take thicker than her now. I love making people cum, so that gives me more...

I think most bi married men would like to give anal a try. Just not in front of their wives

It would be nice if SLS allowed for further clarification in terms of sexual preferences. I'm still not sure I'm bi-sexual, as I'm not really interested in meeting a single man. My wife has no interest in meeting single males or adding a couple into the mix. For me to be with a single male, he'd have to be very attractive to me and have a great cock. I just don't think it would be appealing to me. For me, it's all about the ladies, as I just crave them. However, over the years, I've evolved as my experiences have introduced me to new pleasures...first, creampies, then helping to clean up a husband, then helping to suck off a husband. So, I would consider myself orally-bi but with couple play being a requirement. There's just something so wonderful about helping a husband see his wife pleased, and her wanting two men at once. I feel I would be more likely to enjoy meeting up with the husband for bi play once a relationship was established with the couple, if that is something they wanted.

I actually had to look up the difference between MMF and MFM, lol.

It generally surprises people to learn that many gay men do not routinely engage in anal, but it's true. Years ago, a very large study found that fewer than 40% of sexually active gay and bi men had had anal in their most recent sexual encounter.

I'd think the percentage would be even less among bi men in the lifestyle, where PrEP isn't all that common.