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We have experienced quite a bit of the opposite. We get messages all the time from single guys who are “going to be in our area this afternoon” or “staying in a hotel nearby tonight” and think that she’s just sitting around in her stocking…
I used to try to keep track. But there were several occasions where she just wandered off at the club and by the time I found her, there were already multiple guys cycling in and out of the room. She loves to be the center of attention. Th…
Here’s a thought: why not try implementing a body “type” descriptor in your profile instead of using weight? Something like curvy, BBW, slim, average, muscular, etc.
Okay… so my husband and I have recently started to delve into more full-swap options. But I am struggling to find the correct LS vernacular for our particular play style. I enjoy being watched by hubby when I play. If I’m being honest, I e…
I had success with Sildenafil, but I recently tried the Ro Sparks. They’re fast-acting, and the effects last for a few days because of the addition of Tadalafil. I have found no issues with the erection not subsiding when I’m not using it.…
We both play solo on occasion. It depends on the situation, and whether or not we know all parties involved well enough to trust that no one will cross any boundaries. That said…our preference is still to play together in the same space.
Well, if single guys encourage that kind of behavior by responding to one-liners, then they can only blame themselves. Our profile clearly states that we probably will not respond to any one-line introductory messages. If people can’t read…
I don’t discriminate. Your color or ethnicity doesn’t matter to me. But I would ask that you don’t pretend that you’re special because of it. I find the whole BBC label to be a bit silly. How about just being attractive, accommodating, app…
I’m seeing a lot of anger and outrage from single guys over this topic. If you’re one of those guys who gets tons of offers, then what are you doing here wasting time on the forums? Quit arguing and go have fun. Just saying.
I always get extra turned on by a picture of a guy holding a giant fish in his hand. Because when I’m looking for sex, nothing advertises better than a man’s ability to put hooks in an unseen aquatic creature. -M (the sarcastic hotwife)
Ours kind of happened spontaneously on my birthday at a swingers club. We just invited everyone upstairs to our room and it all worked out. We left an extra tip for the cleanup crew because there was cum pretty much everywhere. All in all,…
I’ve actually never been a fan of getting “cleaned up” after a creampie. I feel like oral is for foreplay, and once the penetration starts, I like to keep that going. I am fortunate in that my husband has remarkable stamina, and he’s capab…
There’s a new event posted on the hotdate calendar.
Just wondering how many people who are into full swap took the plunge their first time. I think the transition might be easier for some if it happens in separate rooms (at least in the beginning). But I would like to hear your ideas.
We meet primarily at our M&G parties or at our favorite swinger’s club. I (Mrs) occasionally go out on solo dates with guys I have met before at one of those preferred venues.
I don’t think anyone “prefers” condoms. Some people use them, and they have their reasons. But I think everyone would prefer it bare if they had the choice. Being allergic to latex, I have always preferred it bare. We are all adults here.…
We’re part of a group here on SLS that has been organizing regular meet and greet events for a couple of years now, and after some trial and error, it’s gathering momentum. If you haven’t attended one of our meet and greets, and you’re int…
I’m confused. Are we suggesting that we spray the hand sanitizer in our mouth, or on our butthole?
Yeah…we’d do that again. It was different, but fun.
We’ll let you know if we like it after this weekend.
I think that if I was dumb and careless, and I sent a lot of messages to people who I am totally incompatible with because I’m too lazy to read their entire profile first…I suppose I deserve a rude response every now and then.
If you’re referring to Gigi’s Southern Table, it’s a family restaurant that closes at 9pm most nights. I can’t imagine it would be popular with people trying to hookup with other folks in the lifestyle.
There’s always a reason for being blocked. Doesn’t matter if you’ve done anything wrong. The one doing the blocking had a reason, and that’s all that matters. You just move on without them. No great loss.
About 4 hours.
Sex Stories have their own page on SLS. The forum is for discussions. But cool story.
It very much is the picture. You’re taking the position of how unfair it is to be in a relationship where a man is satisfied with having sex with his wife and no one else, but enjoys sharing her with others. It’s obviously beyond your comp…
If you’re swinging solely for yourself and what YOU get out of it, then you’ll never understand what it means to be a stag married to a vixen.
Our first MFM threesome. I was fucking the Mrs so hard, she buried her fingernails deep enough into the other guy’s thigh that he started bleeding all over the place. We both felt really bad about that. But to his credit, he didn’t make a…
Pretty sure the reason this thread died 400 days ago was because it was posted in the wrong area of the forum.
I’ll be honest. A lot of the time, I’m not concentrating on trying to feel when a guy is ejaculating. I’m usually a little distracted by my own pleasure. Sometimes I feel it, but mostly it only becomes obvious that a guy has cum inside me…
Sounds like a sexy fantasy scenario, but I’m a little confused as to why a bunch of total strangers would be invited to your home to play poker. Seems more likely to be a bunch of (at the very least) social acquaintances who have an idea a…
I guess I’m in the minority in that I actually do spend time online reading messages and viewing profiles. I don’t mind if hubby spends more time on it than I do. I know some ladies don’t like feeling as though they’re being “pimped out” b…
Once upon a time, I allowed myself to be drawn into an intense discussion with someone on the forum. In hindsight, I should have known better. When my posts apparently bruised the ego of the other party involved, they resorted to sending m…
I’m done with this thread. Good luck to the OP with the request.
@New and Naughty… You still haven’t shown me where your wildly baseless accusations of pedophilia are warranted. Nothing in the quote you cited makes any such assertion. I’ve always felt that when my adversary in a debate starts spouting t…
@New and Naughty…I re-read every post on the thread and the only person who said anything about only being turned on by pre-adolescent body types was you. Stop assigning your own preconceived notions on others to reinforce your outrage ove…
Should the site allow my wife to filter overweight guys out of search results? Maybe not, if it’s going to hurt the site’s chances of making money off of overweight males. Instead, we simply add to our profile description that we’re intere…
It’s not the taste that bothers me. It’s the texture. I know it probably sounds weird to a lot of people, but warm gooey liquids in my mouth immediately trigger a gag reflex. I’ve tried every trick in the book. Just can’t do it.
I guess I am just lucky. I started out initially going solo on hotwife dates with select guys. By the 4th date, I met a guy who pretty much rocked my world. So…less than 2 months.
Wife only liked it during foreplay, at first. She initially thought it crossed some kind of intimacy threshold. Now she’s not opposed to being kissed during sex. Things change over time. —Mr.
We’re with MP on this. Never play at anyone’s home, including ours. Always somewhere neutral.
I’m not trying to talk anyone out of trying it. Like I said. It’s not really my thing, but it might be yours.
Masscouple250- it wasn’t as fun as it looks. The position is awkward. The sensation isn’t really any more pleasurable. In fact, if either of the men involved had been thicker than they were, or if one of them was my husband, it might have…
It’s important to mention that not all women have the proclivity to participate in any kind of swinging. Young women are socially conditioned from a very early age that “cheating” or having multiple sex partners is a terrible offense (ackn…
Never take mine off. It doesn’t seem to deter anyone. lol
I will say that this is not the lifestyle for you if you’re a snowflake who can’t handle rejection.
Wife tried it recently. She didn’t find it to be all that exciting.
Just experienced her first DVP recently. Quite an unforgettable visual. But she’s not in a hurry to do it again.
We’ll just say that there aren’t many that have earned a place on the block list. But I don’t hesitate to block forum bullies (so there’s at least one that everyone can guess).
All I ask is that when you send me a message, it doesn’t read like you typed it with your eyes closed, high on cough syrup. It doesn’t need to be your life story, and it probably shouldn’t include a descriptive scenario of how you’re going…
We’ve only been doing it since last year. My wife had a date with one of her bulls last night. As I type this, she’s on her way to another date with a new prospective bull. I don’t claim to have any insight as to why she’s had so much succ…
Not to parrot what 888 said, but sometimes people are replying just for the sake of being polite, but if there’s no interest generated on their part, they aren’t likely to invest a lot of time providing contact information, going into thei…
I’m not sure if it matters how deep each person is willing to delve into the lifestyle. If someone has a hangup about a particular aspect of the LS, then that’s a personal choice. Name-calling or shaming people for their preferences is the…
Just my humble opinion, but if a woman wants to settle down in a relationship, SLS is probably not the place she’s going to be looking for Mr. Right to sweep her off her feet. There are tons of other dating platforms for that stuff. —from…
I used to have a hard cutoff at 30. I’m in my mid 40s and didn’t think there was any way that I could be attracted to someone who was in the same age category as my son (in his low 20s). That all changed when I was at a swinger’s club and…
All I did was ask if she wanted to try it. She took over from there.
I prefer it when he’s in the room with me. Whether it’s just watching, or joining in on the fun.
Makes sense. Do they ever go through and clean up the inactive groups after they’ve been dead for a couple of years?
I understand the concept of things slowing down at certain times of the year. What I was originally referring to was that there are a lot of groups that appear to have died long before Covid. I guess I should have been more specific. But t…
lol...No, we did read a newspaper back in July, I think. But seriously, we would have thought that the groups would be a way for people to still connect with people even if the pandemic makes it difficult to physically meet in person. We w…
Has everyone just stopped using the “Groups” feature on the site? It seems like all the groups have been inactive for a really long time.
TJ’s just added new events to their calendar for April and May. You should go check it out.
Last weekend, I got to watch my wife entertain two men in an impromptu encounter at TJ’s.
Is anyone else going to be at TJs for their “ultimate meet snd greet” on February 5th?
Submitted a support ticket. Site mentioned known problems with the picture system. They said they’re working on it. But in the meantime, our galleries have been completely erased, which makes me wonder why I paid for a membership, since no…
We had pictures on our profile that were already approved, and they just completely vanished. Poof! Gone.
Wow! Tough crowd. lol
I’m relatively new to the site, and still trying to get a feel for things. But it’s hard to mistake an internet troll when you see one. I finally found a use for the block list. Apologies to the OP, but I don’t want to risk being the next…
Sorry if I’m not as goal-oriented as you. Good luck with your badgering and disgruntled rants. I’m sure some lucky couple will find that sort of thing appealing. Happy New Year!
I’m sure you’re not the only single male who isn’t getting an immediate response. I get about 10-12 messages a day and I don’t have time to reply to all of them. I would add that some people like being badgered. I’m not one of those people…
Played last weekend. Making plans to go to TJ’s for newcomers night in February. But if an opportunity comes up to play with one of the guys I’ve already met before anytime between now and then, I’ll probably go. The shutdowns make it hard…
Thanks, everyone!
@ BCandC: Only a doofus would post pictures of the male half wearing dirty sweatpants and bbq sauce all over his face. So if a SM is using the carefully selected, edited, and optimized pictures of a hotwife’s husband on the profile to gaug…
Finally did it for the first time this past weekend. It was extremely exciting for both of us. Hubby had I are looking forward to doing it again, and as often as possible.
Tried the inverted pineapple trick at the grocery store today. No one seemed to notice.
I’m a terrible organizer. I leave that to the folks with the attention span to make sure an event doesn’t feel like a Sadie Hawkins dance at a boys’ military school.
We only ever do what both of us are comfortable with. But I’m not going to lie and say that she’s not the primary focus. I’m her loyal partner in crime. I do this for her pleasure, because her pleasure is what pleases me. I realize that th…
“Swinging is about her not you. You only get to tag along“ ^ Truth
Does anyone know of any groups that run events in the State College area?
I was going to offer my two cents, but Scamp basically summed it up for me. Supply and demand
Yes. Me!
You can actually get ED meds online through various legitimate websites now that will ask you to answer questions about your physical condition. If you’re embarrassed about asking your family doctor for it, and you don’t mind paying for th…
The wife often does introductions on site, then moves conversations to kik or text (using an app that gives her a fake number to text with, since we’re not totally naive). We are aware of the risk of fakes, and they’re pretty easy to spot.…
As one who was a cop in the military, I can tell you that swinging is very prevalent among service members. It is also very much a violation of certain parts of the UCMJ, punishable by reprimand up to and including Article 15 if your CO wa…
I guess I was just lucky, in that I married a woman who always had MFM fantasies. I didn’t have to convince her. It was her idea.
Haven’t had the chance to see it happen yet, but I do look forward to it.
I guess I’m boring. I insist on condoms. If a guy has enough control to pull out and get the condom off in time, he’s welcome to cum on my stomach or my back. I haven’t met that guy yet, though.
Because we’re a hotwife couple that is only seeking single straight males. None of our prospective playmates should care about my husband’s appearance.
Yes. We definitely fit that description.
