Talkin Dirty

Fuckin love my baby talkin dirty! And she loves to hear the naughty stories I tell her! Gets soaking wet! So hot!

IMHO - Dirty talk gets bumped up a level from being in the LS. It's one thing to talk about things that you want to happen, but having the ability to actually make them happen (or repeat a hot event) can certainly make things extra steamy.

We love dirty talk. My wife craves it during sex. If we play with a guy that can talk and fuck at the same time, she will want him again. Many guys can't seem to do that. Only one head at a time will work for them. LOL

My pillow talk when we play together is usually talking about how naughty the Mrs was in one our many prior LS adventures, and/or potential future ones. The Mrs tends to be more generic, like "Fuck me. Fuck me harder, faster" and lots of gutteral moans. Works for us.

When I'm playing with a woman that I know loves more than one guy at a time, I'll sometimes ask if she wants another cock to suck on or play with. Usually that results in a tag team and/or a spit roast.

There are women that we know that come to a party to fuck as many guys as possible. I find that hot and am more than willing to help them acheive their goal, and sometimes the dirty talk is around just me letting her know how hot it is when a woman lets her inner slut out to play.

We’re finding that dirty talk is very arousing and freeing. We both enjoy it and it adds to role play fun.

Definitely! When people share the same interests why not all one has to do is ask.

Definitely! When people share the same interests why not all one has to do is ask.

We love dirty talk....a big turn on for us both.

I like it, but I’m really bad at it. I also don’t like anything pejorative. So, no name calling, especially slurs.

I enjoy talking dirty during sex. I tell the lady don't be embarrassed or ashame by talking dirty to me and tell me anything she wants to.

I enjoy talking dirty during sex. I tell the lady don't be embarrassed or ashame by talking dirty to me and tell me anything she wants.

Dirty talking is a must for both of us. It’s a way to communicate for us. The only word is not used ever is the W word ( whore)

Love when she talks dirty during sex. Love her telling me what to do or things she'd like, telling me she wants another man to fuck her while I eat her pussy and ass.

I love dirty talk she tells me about her fantasies while I’m fucking her and things she has done without me place’s she’s had sex or played with herself

I absolutely love it. Tickles a sense for me !

I lose my mind when women talk about how many men they've been with (esp while I'm in her).

Since my college years, I'd ask girlfriends about their experience. That backfired a couple times! lol. I got called names, but no harm.

I love dirty talk, but not just the talk, it's the sound of her voice, it's the moans that come along with it, it's better when it,, comes,, out,,, with,, each,,, thrust,, Oh,, yeah!!!

I'm not a musician, but I can imagine it feeling similar

I like it when the women says what she wants, tells me how to fuck her, but I also like to tell her what I like. Both of us in the same kind of slutty way.

I think you and I covered this topic before, but rest assured that "ignorant slut" and "two bit whore" are not on the "approved" list of things I would ever call you.

I have no intention of smiling and assuming the position for anyone.

I'm more of a doer and tend to confine my comments to things like "yes, that," but I love a good dirty talking partner. No name calling though. One of my playmates can get away with calling me a slut, because he always frames it positively and uses the same descriptor for himself. Anyone else doing it would be guilty of seriously misreading the situation and might discover how fun it is to be a submissive for the night.

I discuss general do’s and don’ts prior to play with a new partner. But I’m also cognizant of it not being too formulaic. I want it to organically flow, so if he tends to use certain words that are natural for him, I let it go for a bit if he’s into it. And see how it affects me. If I don’t care for it, I’ll speak up in the moment. It’s never been an issue. And he adjusts accordingly. But I don’t like it to be too forced or follow a script.

I’ve learned, over the course of my kink evolution, that I like certain things because someone, at some point, introduced them to me. Oftentimes things I never would have thought I enjoyed. So I allow a bit of leniency with new things, and that includes language and dirty talk.

Now, all that said, I have to agree with Mayhem. So far, “whore” hasn’t done anything for me yet. Although “slut” has made its way through, depending on the partner.

I prefer to keep an open mind, especially with new partners. I absolutely love learning new things about myself and the only way to do that is to keep my limits to a minimum.

~LMK~

mayhem8 - best covered in pre play conversations where it can de delicately and gradually brought up. No different than any other conversations where limits and boundaries are communicated, For example those conversations yield, don't like it, like a word or two or like it all! Then when its playtime, nothing untoward to that specific person is utilized. It is more than words. Some like being talked to from a Dom perspective ie they are sub. It can get deeper there and is exactly what they like. All part of feeling potential partners out.

I know some people enjoy using and hearing the word "whore", but some see it as very demeaning. I can see the thought of getting paid for sex and the subsequent use of "whore" as part of role play being sexy for someone that isn't a prostitute. Also, there are people that are fine with "slut" but not "whore", so I tend to avoid it unless I know for sure someone likes it.

Fun4mature - We once had a vanilla friend grab her husband's crotch through his pants and declare "Mine!". I'm fairly certain it was meant to be sexy, but it was not. Hard to put into words why it just came across as trashy. I normally like "trashy" to a certain degree, but not in this case and I really can't put my finger on the reason for it.

Other times where it is not good is when someone (like a girl's husband) keeps trying to repeatedly get their SO to say how much they're enjoying something, The first time is fine, the 2nd is pushing it, and the 3rd time and beyond is just an annoying buzz kill.

If you get with someone multiple times over time and know what they like, it can really add to things, but seems risky for a first time encounter. I do like hearing when people tell someone to do something they want done. I was playing with someone next to the Mrs and the guy she was playing with told her to lick his balls, which she did. I thought that was sexy as hell.

Talking dirty, when done well, is incredibly hot and sexy. Other times, it can just be awkward and cringeworthy, and really take me out of the mood. I love dirty talk, and I also enjoy hearing a husband or wife talk dirty to one another in the middle of play.

slut, whore, dirty, nasty etc are terms of endearment for us! :)