DBCooperMNVeteran
Prior Lake, MN, Us
Get yourself on Dr. Phil.
Men whats your opinion
humpVeteran
Guntown, MS, Us
We have always tried everything that we both thought we both would enjoy
FlipFlops_and_DroptopVeteran
Summerville, SC, Us
OP. Sounds like you should talk to your wife and be upfront about your fantasies and talk about hers. Don't ask for relationship advice on the interwebs
funlyfriendVeteran
Albany, NY, Us
Only accepting naked clients at this time
tiggrcatVeteran
Rockport, MA, Us
doctor Tigg is accepting clients for consultations
ionsawmillVeteran
Spanish Fort, AL, Us
Swinging won’t fix your broken relationship. Fix the relationship first.
Fun4mature1Member
Aiken, SC, Us
The most obvious answer is "BE HONEST AND TALK TO HER ABOUT IT!"
It sounds like she's drawing a connection between your DP attempt and the decrease in your sex life-if she thinks it was the cause, there is definitely no reason for her to want to try again.
While seeing her with another guy and reclaiming her might "reignite the spark," you don't want to frame it like that with her. You should still want to be with her WITHOUT an additional person being brought into the mix. It should be the cherry on top of you being with her, not a vital ingredient to kickstart your sex life.
Additionally, it might not hurt to look into getting hormone levels checked for both of you-assuming everything else in your life is relatively normal, could be hormone levels that are out of whack putting a damper on your sex life.
RonKathyVeteran
Woodstock, GA, Us
Welcome.. Exactly and wondering you have been on SLS over 10 years cant you figure it out together?
Its all about love , communication, fun and trust for us.
OnehorneywifeVeteran
Seymour, TN, Us
I think you need to get whatever it is between you not having sex straightened out before asking someone else to join you.
It started when she told me her fantasy was a DP. We tried it at a resort once but the other guy couldn't perform. Since then we haven't had sex much and I told her I wanted to see her with another guy and after that I join. She said since we aren't having sex, do I really want to see her with another guy. In my head I think her doing that would reignite the spark between her and I. I fantasize about her telling him to cum in her and then her jumping on me after. What do y'all think?