We prefer couples closer to our age as they are better in bed, have a better personality, and know how to communicate. The younger coulples we have been wit have been " warm bam thank you Dam " thats all I got. They haven idea how to make couples our age feel good, or last very long. Sure someone will get on here and say we are much younger and can rock your world. Well let's see yo try. LOL
meadris75 careful while it is true there are those out there that will say you are being "ageist" if you mention the truth. That being said a bigger problem is men that do not admit there is a problem and seek help. These guys always want to blame the woman, the condom, the freaking air temperature (yes middle of winter fairly cold and it was too "hot"), or a host of "this has never happened before" things.
BTW for some of us (and I freely admit it) the meds do not work for me and surgery with the diabetes and other issues is not an option. The thing is I am open and honest as well as tried versus lying to not only others but frequently themselves like so many do.
Our minimum age is 30 and we really do not have a maximum. I love older women, but the wife has made mention that older men too often have difficulty staying hard.
A 29 yo gal approached us at a party and always wanted to fuck her father. Hubby reminded her of him and wanted to hook up with him. He was 56 and her husband went along and watched! Crazy!
Rustic - I guess I'm an anomoly then, as are a number of our friends. I have seen guys older than me plow the Mrs for 45 mins straight (or longer). I'm talking significant full on jack-hammer mode for much/all of it.
Another common thing with younger guys is that they can be intense, but usually cum quickly. That's why the Mrs sometimes needs 3 or 4 of them to equal what one of our more mature friends is capable of alone. Sure, some younger guys can recover quickly, but I see a number of guys my age or older that better understand that women enjoy something other than jack-hammer mode.
For some, age really is more of being "just a number" than for others. No doubt it catches up to all of us at some point, but it can take longer for some than others. While rare, one of the Mrs more fun partners is past his mid-70s and still going strong as far as I know.
So just recently we had an encounter with a couple half our age. The wife found it hard to keep up but thoroughly enjoyed it. Me well let's just say I'm glad the woman liked power tools as it were LOL. In all honestly we think matching the "physical stamina" level is much more important than age. Of course that means couples around our age with similar aches, pains, joint issues, etc. This does not mean we would turn down another encounter with the same (plan on it really) or another younger couple but we would need to let our bodies recuperate for a few days after.
I guess we are an anomaly. Wife loves to watch me with younger girls, but I prefer more mature ladies. The youngest woman we play with was 19 years old at a GB in LA. We had a FMF with her. The youngest man she has played with was an early 20s BBC at a swingers club. The oldest I have played with was a 70 year old lady on a lifestyle cruise. There have been some 60s year olds we have played with too. But generally speaking they are around our age group.
If being in your 30s makes you a "senior swinger" I guess y'all can call me the crypt keeper. Jeez.
We played with a couple in their late 20's a few years ago. Everyone had a good time. Our kids are now in their late 20's , so now it freaks us out a bit whenever we're contacted by a couple in that age range, Lol! Generally there's more common life experiences & vanilla things to talk about with couples around our age which we prefer.
We played with a couple where he was 48 and she was 31. It really didn't matter to me or her that I was literlly twice her age. We both had an absolute blast in the bedroom and there was zero difficulties finding common interest things to talk about (besides sex) out of the bedroom.
We set our bottom limit at 18, which is half our age, I don't know that we'd ever get with a couple that young for a host of reasons, but wouldn't rule it out. The youngest we have played with was mid-20s (which is the male half's preferred age range for women)
Coming from the other side of it, I find that an older man is usually game to play younger (or see his wife with younger), but the women tend to be against the idea. I think it is typically a matter of maturity, although I can see people having difficulty finding a connection with someone who is decades apart from them in age.
We as a couple just love to see if there is a connection or not with people. There are erotic situations with both young and old and if you want to go further it will happen. If they are in the LIfeStyle from 18 to 80 that's cool. At parties, single encounters, gang bangs we have met and been with all ages and enjoyed those special moments.
We started out with a minimum age of 40- Younger but reasonably age appropriate. But then we changed it to 38 because a guy i really wanted at a party was 38, lol
"I believe it is more a guy thing to desire a younger woman."
More specifically, I think it's more of an "older" guy thing. I see a lot of younger guys that claim to prefer older women. I do see more women than men that tend to voice a cut-off age, with the Mrs being one of them.
I personally would not rule someone out due to age, either higher or lower. There are no age boundaries for "sexy", but I can see where experience can definitely come into play. Like EA, there is a, now, late-20s girl I have had an absolute blast with for the last few years, but this young lady probably has more experience than most women more than double her age.
To EA's point, I can see where a late teen/early 20's girl could not be as fun as someone closer to my age, regardless of how hot she looks.
We have min Of 20 on a younger couple
Erotica, I knew you are a "MOTHER FUCKER".
I have been with a few women younger than our kid in the last year or so. She was 19. The next night I had sex with a 70-year-old woman.
One was a woman, one was a girl.
The sex with the 19-year-old was horrendous. While it sounds awesome, the reality is that 19-year-olds rarely know much about sex other than what they see on pornos. I do not have a humongous dick that will leave a woman walking weird for a few days. The fake gagging noises while sucking my dick, that was a turnoff. The forced drenched spit . . . also . . . a turnoff. Sure, she was good looking, but I could have had as much fun with a blowup doll than I did with that girl.
I realize that one does not make all. Sure, there may be some better 19-year-olds. But for me, nope, not again.
I have also been with a 24-year-old. She was much better than the 19-year-old. She knew her way around the bed! She became a somewhat regular for bit.
The reason for mentioning the 70-year-old? WOW! Seriously . . . WOW! That was a helluva a woman. Yes, she was old enough to be my mom. It was a shame that she lives about 1500 miles away because I'd like to spend a LOT more time with her.
After being in the lifestyle since I have been in my 20s, I'd say that the floor for women's age that I prefer tends to be early to mid-30s. Much younger and I don't think they know what they want in life yet and are still wet behind the ears. If I were to give a preference range, it would probably be ~ +/- 10 years of my age.
I believe it is more a guy thing to desire a younger woman. With that said we have played with a couple where the female was the same age as our oldest, and the male was several years older which was great. Hubby would love to play with one just turning legal age, our only concern however is the level of immaturity that goes along with that age.
We have played with a younger couple that was close to our oldest age. Had some really hot play with them .Have played with a couple of guys younger. Seems to us some younger guys are just immature. A small amount of conversation with them and it surfaces pretty quickly.
My desire is a young lady eighteen, a virgin, uncut pubic hair with a delicious pussy. As I did. Then I die and go to heaven.
How much younger than yourselves would you play with or have played with. Do you have a limit as far as age or other limits. Our fantasy is to play with a couple as young as our kids, is that weird or crazy?
