Vasectomies
in Men Talk ·
I had one and it worked great. The only bad thing was that for a year or two I had a sharp itchey feeling when I came. It was where they tied the tubes.
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Short Jokes
in Jokes and Funnies ·
Some men claim to be able to give a woman 12 inches of cock, in other words 2 inches in 6 thrusts.
Meet Greet, Fuck or pass the poster above you
in Games ·
From what I can see, in a heartbeat!
Mom/Dad issue
in Fantasies ·
I am the same way. They do not need to be moms though. Even in college I liked women into their 50’s and now I am 50, I find women attractive as old as 70. While I love all women, I just can not be with any woman who is close to my kids ag…
Most exciting lifestyle experience
in 3-Some ·
We were at a house party and as it turned out we were the youngest couple. I had 5 older women take advantage of me:)
Strap On / Dildo Ass Play
in Men Talk ·
I was resistant to this for years as well. Then I did, and it is awesome. My advice with your spouse is to both take a survey about sex, kink etc, and share your answers.
Do you cum many or just one time at a swing party?
in Men Talk ·
I can only cum once or twice, but control when it happens. This is great as I can go for as long as I want.
Best Sex Age
in Open Forum ·
Thus far, we have not reached our peak .
Review of The Loft in Brooklyn NY
in Clubs ·
My wife and I decided to visit a club while in NYC. Someone in SLS stated that all NYC swing clubs were below par. All that means is that they have much better clubs where ever they were from. So we went to the Loft in Brooklyn NY. Once yo…
What do women consider hung?
in Women Talk ·
Most men claiming to be able to give women 13 inches usually mean 13 thrusts of 1 inch.
New York City Clubs
in Open Forum ·
Hello, we just went to the LOFT in NYC. Like many of the others who have written about New York swing clubs, we were disappointed. We thought that the clubs would be bigger and better than what we are used to in Cleveland. However it was m…
What is the best Club in NYC?
in Open Forum ·
We are traveling there next week and wanted to check out a club.
AITA aka Am I The Asshole
in Open Forum ·
Jolly Rancher, I think you should be glad you missed. Even though the guy is a complete asshole, if you killed him, you would be in prison.
Sound proofing bedroom and bathroom
in Open Forum ·
We want to get a Sybian. However they are super loud and we have kids and her mom recently moved in. I am going to be remodeling our bedroom and master bath. I am thinking of filling the walls with insulation under the drywall between room…
Who likes to be Watched?
in 3-Some ·
With my wife being by she likes to be watched by couples . I love being watched, but only by women but can tolerate if a couple is watching. The demographic we do not like is single males because we had 2 instances where they just started…
What’s more enjoyable Fresh or Sloppy Pussy
in Men Talk ·
If it is all her cum, I love a sloppy wet pussy. Since I wait to cum until after she tells me she is done, we are done for the night when I do.
Sex Swings
in Fantasies ·
We have one and love it. A few words of caution though as I have experienced 2 accidents with the swing. First was with a girlfriend years ago and we were using the type that fits over a door. These are not safe and it gave way. Luckily I…
Urethra sounding
in Fantasies ·
I have questions… I am a sounding virgin, but it sounds interesting. What does it feel like? What was the size? What was it made of? Do you just leave it in or go in and out? Do you put it in when hard? Any brand recommendations? We had on…
Keeping you cock and balls hairless
in Men Talk ·
I just need a Gillette and some moisturizing soap in the shower with good lighting. Trick is to get hard before shaving your cock to stretch the skin out. I do get ingrown hairs if I shave too close to the waist, so I leave a patch above.
The January 6th Haring Is A Farce
in Politics ·
It is not a farce judging by the fact that all of the testimony was from Republicans, and Trump appointees.
The January 6th Haring Is A Farce
in Politics ·
It is not a farce judging by the fact that all of the testimony was from Republicans, and Trump appointees.
Urethra sounding
in Sex Toys ·
Is it the in and out that feels good? Or do you put a vibe on it? They sell some that are used with a tens machine. Do you reccomend?
Age Fantasy
in Fantasies ·
I ( as the male) have always found women attractive at any age, and wrinkles just show character. Even when I was a teenager I was checking out women all the way up through age 60. As someone in my 50’s, I just view women in their 20’s as…
Our Dog is against us showing affection
in Open Forum ·
Hoping there is a dog whisperer or vet in here. Anytime we kiss or hug, our dog barks at us. When we lock him out of the bedroom to have sex, he craps in the house. I think he actually gets angry….. Other than that, he is overall a great d…
Younger couples
in Senior Swingers ·
Our minimum age is 30 and we really do not have a maximum. I love older women, but the wife has made mention that older men too often have difficulty staying hard.
Are single women wasting OUR time?
in Men Talk ·
We have had a number of single ladies with no issues. I think they place many of those requirements because there are too many men who act like they are Will Ferrell at the Roxbury. However, we could be having an easier time because my wif…
All Things Economic
in Open Forum ·
I forgot the exact name of the phenomina I am describing, but, there is a point in the economy where inputs such as labor and raw materials get so high, that the economy begins to contract. We are headed for a global recession within the n…
Cum too quickly
in Men Talk ·
When you cum, you feel the contractions. Similar to when you urinate and want to get that little last bit out. During sex flex that for as long as you can early and it will enable you to last longer . Maybe you are built different , so may…
Etiquette for turning down someone's advances at a house party.
in Women Talk ·
I would just tell them that they remind you of your brother….
Orgasm
in Men Talk ·
I as a man would appreciate knowing that and it would not deter me.
Golden Years
in Open Forum ·
Golden Years depends on the person. I am currently in the best years of my life and I am 50. My wife is wonderful and we have a lot of fun just living.
Swinger in the vanilla world
in Open Forum ·
In all seriousness, any symbol that would be known within the community would also be known outside of the community….
Swinger in the vanilla world
in Open Forum ·
If they are wearing a tee shirt that says “Swinger”.
Who else likes Edging
in Fantasies ·
I think it is an important part of lawn care that is often overlooked.
Window sign, flash cards
in Fantasies ·
Probably not the best idea.. There might be kids in a car, might cause accident.
Husband's, how did you do it?
in Swinging Single ·
Actually, I was dating my wife at the time and she brought up bringing in another woman. After we did that for about a year we started with other couples.
Restrictions on singles play at parties
in Swinging Single ·
Whomever made up that rule at that venue must not understand the lifestyle at all.
Etiquette for turning down someone's advances at a house party.
in Women Talk ·
As the guy, I never want to hurt feelings. So I just tell them that they look identical to a cousin/sister etc and that I can not get passed it....
Best firm nonsqueeking mattress bed setup
in Women Talk ·
We have a sleep number adjustable bed. No squeeks and it elevates legs, head or both so it adds a lot of different possibilities.
Refined Search Options
in New Forums ·
Would be great also if they allowed separate age ranges in the search for each gender. I often like older women while my wife prefers men closer to our age.
Hand jobs
in New Forums ·
Speed- Varies but I like slow to cum, but fast delays my orgasm because a reflex is to clench the muscle used in kegle exercises and delays orgasm. Spots- Most sensitive areas are the very tip of rhe head and underneath the head. However e…
WHAT no ones talking????
in New Forums ·
The Corona Virus has really "Cousin Olivered" our sex life outside:)
Why is G/G so difficult between couples?
in Soft Swinger ·
Happy Wife Happy Life... It excites me that she loves women!
Super picky .is this always going to be a problem?
in Women Talk ·
Picky is not a problem, it just means a little more effort is needed in the search.
Etiquette for turning down someone's advances at a house party.
in Women Talk ·
We feel bad telling anyone that we are not attracted. I have told women that they look too much like a relative, which eases the blow a lot. A lie, yes, but one designed to not hirt a strangers feelings.
Husband's, how did you do it?
in Swinging Single ·
We met iin a vanilla setting. We both kind of gravitated towards the lifestyle. The odds are that the "hey lets go to a sex club" discussion will go well depends on if you are completely open in other areas.
Do you ever get jealous?
in Men Talk ·
I am used to people liking my wife more than I as she is hot and interesting. As far as being jealous, yes, but it is not a valid emotion when swinging. Meaning that if you can not control it/eliminate it you should not be in lifestyle.
Dark room Sex
in Fantasies ·
We were new to the lifestyle and we went to a club with a dark room. I felt this hand rubbing my chest, and I discovered it was a dude. I said " Your a dude- Honey we have to get out of here!" and the whole room bursted into laughter! Not…
Disability
in Fantasies ·
I do not think most people in lifestyle would care either way.
Being discreet in your home (kids here)
in BDSM ·
We have sucessfully taken some privacy measures. First, I acted as though our bedroom door handle was breaking and then bought a lock with a key and acted as though it was an accident and did not know until already installed. We hollowed o…
Mature woman
in Fantasies ·
As the male I have always enjoyed older women however my wife likes younger men or same age.
Has anyone played with a Pornstar before?
in Fantasies ·
A girlfriend from college ended up in a few porns 20 years later.
sound proofing bedroom
in Open Forum ·
Hi, We have been looking for cheap and easy ways to sound proof our bed room. We have kids, so we like to keep it down. Had anyone tried those fabric panels you place on the wall?
CBT-Sounds
in BDSM ·
One of the sounds could be a groan...:)
Embarrassed about scars
in Women Talk ·
Nothing to worry about.
Mattress Suggestions?
in Open Forum ·
Is it the fully adjustable kind? Our bed can raise the feet and can also raise each side's head/back independently. Basically acts like adjustable sex furniture:)
Fem has a question for you guys about big lips
in Men Talk ·
All types are wonderful!
Dick damage
in Men Talk ·
Most likely you have an allergy to latex. The way around it is to wash it as soon as you take off the condom.
Mattress Suggestions?
in Open Forum ·
We bought an adjustable Sleep number bed. We can adjust the height on both sides of the bed... Wonderful for sex!
Personal Coronavirus Stories
in Open Forum ·
I have a sibling who is still on oxygen 4 months after being hospitalized...
Squirting
in Open Forum ·
Squirting is not urinating. When women squirt, it smells nothing like urine, it has a much sweeter smell and does not smell like amonnia.
Public sex!
in Fantasies ·
We were at a club where they had a sex swing. We decided to leave the door open and a crowd gathered. Ahh those were the pre-Corona days...
Quote of the Day - Meaningful, provocative and amusing quotes
in Open Forum ·
Your body is not a temple but a playground, enjoy the Ride... Anthony Bourdaine
question for all
in 3-Some ·
have you tried Clubs?
Watching your wife get fucked
in Fantasies ·
Based on your concerns, I would advise you do a full swap first... This way you will not have any rational reason to be jealous as you will be occupied... After doing this a few times, then you can venture into MMF.