Disability

I lost my left arm jut below shoulder many years ago, have gone to countless parties and swinger clubs with my younger girlfriend, seams everyone wants to play with her but in last 12 years I have not had a sexual experience at club or party, have had couples ask my girlfriend to play and she will say we play as a couple buy as soon as they see me its always some excuse to back out. anyway its been kind of shitty for me.

One night at a swingers party, I went down and ate a lady pussy and sucked her tits while she was in a wheelchair. A very nice lady and if I get the chance I would do it again

I never did answer the "fantasy" part of the question. For us at least, it is not a fantasy, but could well be for some I suppose. It really depends on what the disability is.

For example, we know a guy that was missing his right hand. I can imagine there are girls somewhere that may like the though of being fisted (for lack of a better word, like maybe wristed?) by him.

If you had body image issues, playing with someone that is blind might be a turn on. In other words, it would be very specific and situational because "disabled" is such a broad term.

I find it erotic

Thank you to those who would consider someone with a disability. I am housebound and no opportunities for sex. I have found a few couples that would play and let me listen. Anyone want to do this for me message me.

I find it extremely erotic

I do not think most people in lifestyle would
care either way.

We wouldn’t care. As long as they are cool people, reasonably attractive inside and out, I can’t imagine us saying no because they are in wheel chair. Flip side of the coin is that we wouldn’t say yes because they are in a wheelchair either.

It certainly wouldn't be a fantasy, but it wouldn't be a no either. it would just be one more aspect of that person to consider.

I just realized I answered the question wrong ;-) I thought it was "Would you play with someone disabled, Yes or No". Our answer to this is disabilities alone would not be a reason to not play with someone.

As 888 mentioned, there are people without disabilities we wouldn't play with. Seeing as we normally do a lot of play at parties, you really don't see a lot of people with disabilities in the LS, much less at LS parties. A lot depends on how mobile they are.

I will answer “No”.

No, we would not frown upon someone having a disability. Yes, we would take into consideration if we wanted to play with them, just at as we do any one else.

~Allen

I was thinking that someone that answers "No" might not even answer.

Can some more people respond? Or is it a no?

The short answer for us is Yes. It of course depends on the person and the disability. For example, the Mrs has played witth a guy that was missing a hand. He was a nice guy and, given the opportunity, she would do it again.

We have friends where his wife is now wheel chair bound. I have played with her before that and would play witth her again if she was up for it.

Nice people can wind up in broken bodies and still want sex, and it can still be fun for all involved.

Would people frown upon or not consider somebody with a physical disability? Or would it be a fantasy because it is something new different that you had not experienced? Like for example somebody in a wheelchair. Thoughts?