Simple.. can one dress up, smile and show they are FUN? .. Seems we have no problem finding a single woman or guy and have been doing so for well over 25 years..
Try a reset it works wonders.. would you show up at a job like your photos show.. or place some work into how one looks and presents oneself .. your choice... the nicest one you have is the 'Halloween ones" now add some smiles and dont look so 'gruff".