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BRING BACK THE BIRD!!!

Costa Mesa, CA

Thanks, Atip ... I wholeheartedly agree with you as I have lost interest in this site as a single female.

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A couple mentioned about viewing messages without opening it and then responding when both are ready ...
From what I recall, that was a benefit with paid membership - whether Lifetime, etc.
Either way, that was a feature that was paid for.

Archived messaging also provided a safety feature due to the conversation history.

The "Twitter-style IM" system here is not very personal compared to composing a letter/email.

I am all about change, when needed, but it also needs to benefit the majority.
Personally, the quality just keeps going down ... down ... down.

parec60Member
Titusville, PA

The Bird lives !!! evidently SLS knows how effective the bird delivers messages because they use him to tell me that they want money !! But we don't get to use him to tell our fellow members we want to talk ? I suppose that would not be one of the improvements they want us to have because we want it ? they will decide what we like / and when we will have it /if we keep quiet and don't complain too much sls will tell us what we really want and dump it on us when they see fit !!

Softtaild7Regular
East Liverpool, OH, Us

Better watch...... We got put in SLS jail ( for 30 days) for saying something similar...

Windermere, FL, Us

Lesson learned re: complaints about the site:

They. Don't. Care.

AtipMember
Norfolk, VA, Usa

Thanks RonKathy.

To say I'm totally frustrated with SLS at this point is an understatement. A resolution for 2020 is to find an alternative.

AtipMember
Norfolk, VA, Usa

Happy 2020 everyone!

New year's musings from a single lifestyler:

Looking back over the past 6 months since its surprise implementation I have only met one new lifestyle friend with the new message system, whereas before I was meeting about one a month on average.

I've tried to use the phone app but it's impossible to reconcile that application between the web version and the phone version. I don't understand the logic in the macros for who pops-up on my searches. I can't figure out the filters used for the geographic searches. I personally know some people who are within the apps search range, but their profiles don't appear, while others do appear that I have never seen on the web-based app. I rarely use it and am considering removing it from my phone

The hot dates are now useless to me because I'm blocked from seeing the dates if I'm not exactly in the demographic they're looking for. I understand this, but in the past there have been times where I have not met every exact requirement of play partners and we still were able to get together and have fun. No one is perfect. The distance feature continually defaults to 50 miles, which in itself is annoying.

The new weird option to send requests to open pictures from someone whom I've never chatted with is a shock. I tried it once or twice. Not a fan.

I joined SLS in 2012 as a free member. I started to use it a lot in 2015. I became a paid member in 2016, and a lifetime member in 2018. I realized from day one that this was a kludgy system, hacked together from various software packages, but I had thought (hoped?) it would get better over time. Sadly every single change implemented has been for the worse.

I know that the Bird is extinct on SLS, never to return, so my observations here are in vain but I just have to say that if there ever is case study performed on how a business can go about to intentionally wreck a social network platform then SLS should be a prime candidate to study.

Huntington Woods, MI, Usa

Completely agree with the comments above. Please BRING BACK the E-mail system!
I hate that you destroyed the email system by folding it into the IM system.
They are completely different things, IMO, and losing mail history is a real downgrade.

Santa Rosa Beach, FL, Us

The new message system BLOWS!

New Orleans, LA, Us

What makes having a LS app on your phone worse than accessing a LS site through a browser on your phone?

~Scamp

Fairfield, CT, Us

vABeach, I’m with you!

Windermere, FL, Us

It wouldn't matter how good it is. We will never put lifestyle-oriented apps on our phones, ever. End of story. If that ultimately ends our use of SLS, so be it.

Milton, FL, Us

Fuck getting the app installed.
Bad bad idea according to most all techie magazines.

Fairfield, CT, Us

Ditto, Can’t email; lost long time communication they deleted; Hotdate changes make it marginal at best; so it’s down to the forums. Maybe the app is ok, but as I need secure smartphone for work, I don’t do most apps,

Phoenix, AZ, Us

"Otherwise they wouldn’t lick topics..."

Well, that explains so much.

If it wasn't for the forums, I wouldn't bother signing in.

New Orleans, LA, Us

Personally, I’m expecting the forums to go at any time. The site monitors and developers obviously don’t like us speaking out against the changes and the multitude of issues this site has. Otherwise they wouldn’t lick topics and place vocal members on restrictions.

They have made so many bad decisions that I can see them thinking deleting the forums as a good idea without considering that they have made this site so user unfriendly that many of us only stick around because of the forums.

~rabbit~

Softtaild7Regular
East Liverpool, OH, Us

Profile notes will be the next to go! they are missing in the app. so you know......

Windermere, FL, Us

I'd say what's even more outrageous was the site taking it upon themselves to just wipe out years of communication history with friends and anyone who had written to us, or we had written to.

Not sure how many more 'we really don't care if you like it' moves the site can make and people will still tolerate it. If we weren't lifetime and thus no longer paying there's no way in hell we'd still be here.

Fresno, CA, Us

Bird bird bird, bird is the word....

Milton, FL, Us

The email services are ONLY for important shit.
We members are NOT important.

Elkins, WV, Us

Once in awhile we all need the bird. BRING BACK THE BIRD!!!!!

Farmington, NY, Us

Miss the bird! It was always nice to see the bird flapping its wings delivering a message as opposed to just a boring ol' number. It was unique and fun. Please bring it back!

Palmerton, PA, Us

"Archived Mail", which now seems to include new group and SLS announcements, still shows the bird.

Topanga, CA, Us

Couldn’t agree more. IM doesn’t work that well on mobile devices. We absolutely prefer email because we can actually read the bottom part.
NOT interested in downloading a mobile SLS app. Tweak the site to keep mobile web device friendly.

Arlington, TX, Us

The new communication system is an abomination. It's made the site unusable for us.