First Contact
Introducing yourself online and your first meeting.
Contact
Is it me, but i am in an ENM relationship with my fiancé. We play as couple but also separately. She has no issues finding playmates on SLS. Single guys, or guys that say they are…
4replies835viewsIntroduction
What do most people put as an opening line to contact, and inquire as to whether a couple may be interested ? I tend to say where we are from, that we are interested in "your" pro…
by MNJFLA2replies811viewsDistant contacts
Sometimes it's just people checking out your profile, and other times people actually reach out like you're going to get together for a drink sometime soon. Though they didn't rea…
by mayhem87replies729viewsBad impression
So last night we got a message that in and of itself made us lose interest quickly. Not being ones to judge so quickly we went to the sender's profile and found that the message w…
by RusticMagic6replies728viewsProfile Review Request
Hello. I’m a single male and very new to the site, I was hoping to get a profile review please. I’ve sent out a good amount of introductory messages to interesting couples but hav…
by XeniaGuy5replies703viewsYes and No partner communication
Hi Everyone, We're still new, and just looking to meet sex positive people for drinks and chat with no expectations. However, at subsequent meets or a positive 1st meet, we may wa…
by Argonaut735replies700viewsDemanding ALL pictures opened before first contact?
So, I have been seeing an uptick in profiles stating 'if you contact us, make sure to have ALL your galleries opened!" and I'm wondering what their deal is. It feels like a red fl…
by Kefkalaugh5replies681viewsAruba Christmas vacation 2022
We are going to Aruba from 12/20/22 to 12/27/22. Is anyone else going to Aruba at the same time. We are planning to stay at Holiday Inn there. We can meet and have a great time.
by Man700replies648views- 6replies612views
Business / information cards
We often carry and hand out information cards. One side has our photo the other side has our contact information. When we cruise we even write our cabin number on the card. This a…
by MNJFLA4replies592viewsProfile evaluation
Hello all. We were wondering if we could get an evaluation of our profile? Also, why do paid members not respond to initial contact of saying “hello”? I just don’t understand!! Th…
6replies560viewsDTF
We are very experienced lifestylers. We like to meet another couple for drinks, lunch or dinner. Then we go home and discuss if we would like to play. If yes, we ask the other cou…
4replies328viewsDid the internet ruin things or help
Rant! Did the internet ruin things or help? I don't take any of these sex sites very seriously. I don't come to any of these sites (SLS, FL, Recon etc..) thinking I'm going to fin…
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