Profile evaluation

You have some repetition that shouldn't be necessary. For example, you don't need to say you're taking it slow 2-3 different times. In the Looking For or in the Fantasies section, you may want to give a better idea of what you'd be willing to do (in a general sense) if you did find a woman to play with. A SF is a rarer commodity here and if she's looking for girl time with someone, I can see her wanting to know what she does and doesn't get for her effort.

There are enough pictures that you really don't need all of the physical description in the Description section. That's what the pictures are for. You'd be better served by putting in some of your hobbies and what you do for fun beside sex. You're here, so it's a given youu're looking for sex ;-) These hobbies/fun things can help with starting online conversations and perhaps show you have common interests with others.

You have some grammer issues that would likely be highlighted if you cut/pasted your profile text into any decent word processing app. Google docs online is free and may help.

The warning you post at the bottom offers you no real protection and kind of makes you look gullible, worst case. It's been discussed elsewhere in the Better Profile Topic, which can also help give you more ideas at making your profile better, as GGMM mentioned.

Also as mentioned, finding single women to play with is going to limit your responses considerably and you'll have way better luck finding what you seek at LS parties/events..

Thank you to those of you who had responded to our questions! We greatly appreciate everyone’s opinions!!

It looks like a well written profile and photos good enough to give a general understanding of what you both look like. As others have pointed out, setting your sights on only unicorns may mean little to no response. My wife is new to the scene and that limits what we can comfortably offer up front. Although she has been quite surprising when opportunities have presented themselves. However, we can't expect couples to want to meet for a "maybe" full swap. So we get it when responses don't come.

I really dont do profile reviews.. but from what I read and see it looks nice with great photos... now as far as people responding all sorts of reasons, for us we travel and on 12-14 day cruises out of the country..and will not have internet or phone while on a cruise.. we want to disconnect from all while doing so, other times people are busy, family matters, and just life.

yes sometimes the site gets quirky... but some are just rude , have no manners, and well really not worth your time!

Make the swinging journey what you 2 want and enjoy.. and get rid of all negative people . For us we have even ended play early when some guys in a couple became rude.. but the great ones still leave a smile on both our face's daily!

Enjoy and welcome once again!

After a quick glance at your profile, I don’t see really any issues. Your pictures are nice.

My question about your messages would be, are you send a full message or just “Hello” as your post implies?

I’ve have found it not uncommon to not receive responses. Sometimes it is because the person/couple have on been on the site in a while. Sometimes because the message system isn’t cooperating. We try to respond, but only after some discussion, that can take some time.

You'll probably get more responses if you start a new topic in Better Profiles, and I'd definitely recommend reading some of the older threads there, but I can give you a quick review.

First of all, don't expect a response to "hello." It seems polite, I know, but you just put the burden on the recipient to continue the conversation and did so without giving them anything interesting to respond to. If you want to up your odds, then actually lead with something worth answering.

Second, I don't think you know what attracts women to other women. Or, really, anyone to you. I get that you're new and want to start slow. That's totally fine. But why, out of all the couples and women that are out there who want to have sex with others, would anyone go to the trouble of meeting with you and...not have sex.

Do you see what I mean? You have specific, totally fine goals, but this is probably not a great way to get your needs met. And it's a particularly poor place to attract single women, most of whom aren't interested in newbies or unicorn hunters.

I'd suggest trying a club or a party, where you're more likely to find people who would be okay with watch and be watched and/or women only.

But if you insist on going the online route, women have their own breasts and while we admire those belonging to others, we aren't men and what we're generally looking for are fun, interesting people that provide good conversation and company, along with the sex.

Hello all. We were wondering if we could get an evaluation of our profile? Also, why do paid members not respond to initial contact of saying “hello”? I just don’t understand!!

Thank you all.