Whats with the CF FORBIDEN message now
What does the CF Message mean?
leggywife
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BDSM who is looking for it
I/we enjoy it very much have been in the kink community for 30 years.
Alternatives to SLS chat
Once we use the clunky system here to determine if the person is of quality we will accept invites or make offers to go to Facebook Messenger of Gmail chats. Far more robust chat systems. We were here when they had the original chat messag…
Messages again
We are one of the unfortunate ones as it does not work for us either. We have to constantly go back and forth in messages
Bath House Experiences
Had many good times in bath house is DC. The men there are serious players.
Poly Triad With a Single Guy
Through the years we have been fortunate to have experienced several poly relationships with both men and women. At one point we had a single male for 3 years which was fantastic. Single men added to a couple is always a real treat when yo…
Fix the website already
It is kinda sad that when I saw the notice posted about the counter posted a few weeks ago I had two thoughts. First, it's nice that when the site has problems that they finally post an informational posting about it. Second, I thought I h…
Site Is Slow And Giving Error Messages AGAIN
Once again slow and giving error messages BUT...I'm sure it's the subscriber's fault somehow.
Message phantom?
18 for us
New Tab on Profiles
Profile Galleries Cert Hot Dates Profile Feed the line of text as above appear for one of the tabs used on the individual profiles.
New Tab on Profiles
Notice this new tab today, is this another added value/enhancement which was added with no explanation or directions for use?
Messages not working again
I have absolutely zero confidence that anything will be done about the issue of the reliability of the messaging system here. It is a constant problem and one that the owners of the site are more than well aware of for literally years. The…
Distant contacts
We agree with some of the other folks here about the travel aspect. We both traveled a lot for business prior to pandemic and did some browsing prior to arriving to a city. The thought being to meet as friends or play depending. Likewise,…
Message/Chat System
This morning sometimes I would have to re-type and send my message FIVE (5) times in order for it to get through!
Message/Chat System
It's weird that only three of us member types have this problem. Maybe it might be people are so tired of complaining about it and nothing happens?
Message/Chat System
I know it's a sore subject but is anyone else having issues with the message/chat system? I sometimes have to type messages three and four times to get them to go through. The system freezes up and causes the need to constantly reboot, som…
Wife/gf relationship with another dom
We do so all the time. Have been doing so for perhaps greater than ten years. The "rush" and unfamiliarity of meeting and doing a session with someone else is much more than he can provide due to the emotional aspects of our relationship.…
Collared wifes who has one
I am one and have been for over ten years. We are not public about it nor 24/7 due to the constraints of society. I do enjoy it and like many others have both symbolic public and private collars. The symbolic ones always remind me all day…
Friends Tabs
Was their any effort of time or money in trying to fix those things that are still unreliable with the chat program? Also the scroll feature, when we use it to peruse profiles every single profile shows up as logged on, then the chat does…
choking
That was one thing we never really got into. Seems too dangerous to us.
Messaging System Malfunction
We have a red 36 next to our messages and no new messages in the message section.
Submissive or Dominate
He is Dom and I am sub, though there is more depth to us as well
Socal Dom sub couples for comparing
We tried to say hello reacting to your friends portion of your request. we understand we are far away but were looking to perhaps help out somewhat with your request. we sent you a hello, you looked and never said anything back to us.
choking
With all the stuff we are into this is one thing we are not. Too dangerous particularly with others.
Messaging System Malfunction
Would be wonderful if on the home page that the web masters would post a message simply telling us it is down for maintenance avoiding all the running around trying to ascertain if its "me" or "them." Just a few minutes to communicate.
Watching wife spanked
The counting thing helps keep the sub sort of "with it" so as not to spiral out too much into sub space, it also provides a timing mechanism for her allowing her to know how much further she needs to go
Watching wife spanked
We are very experienced in such play. Her being prepared to cross over is an amazing site. It is fantastic foreplay.
Help Finding BDSM
I noticed your profile mentions noting about BDSM or even "kink" as preferences, you might want to edit your profile to be sure it shows your interest. Also as indicated below join fet life (free) and look for munches in your area. They ar…
central PA
We are long time experienced couple.
How NOT to get a message back .
We hate the single guy pic collectors and immediate schedulers. You know like "Hello, can you open the rest of your pics"? and of course they only have a single pic on their entire profile or the scheduler "Hi how are you, want to meet tom…
Riding Crop
Depends on where and how hard
Poly, swinging AND kinky
Very much into this type of life and have been for many years
Gloryhole
Yes, it is exciting due to the anonymity of it, though you can usually tell who got in the both next to yours watching their body language before I go in and watching through the hole if that is possible. Some places have small doors you n…
Wife/gf relationship with another dom
We have had an Aloha Dom in our relationship for many years for her. Some long term almost poly others short term.
Where are the Married Submissive Women?
We have one. Has many years of experience even prior to it becoming mainstream.
Who knew they could screw up the chat program MORE
This seems more screwed up than the current one which was far more screwed up than the original they replaced which was working just fine.
Site is currently having Chat issues
This so funny. Funny because first off we do this on a FRIDAY right before a weekend and as a lifestyle site probably the most busiest time of the week. The other funny thing is we went through this the last time there was a big idea to "u…
Submissive or Dominate
Wife is submissive and has been so her whole adult life