Overall, it means that if everyone is onboard and wants to play we do so. Our schedules are very tight and if we are going to carve out time for this then it is a probability that we will play but absolutely not to play with anyone and everyone.
We are with Mayhem on condom use. We understand their limitations, but better than nothing. As we age and the men struggle to maintain an erection with a condom, we find more friends abandoning them. We prefer to finish with a blow job if the condom with intercourse “flops.”
If we meet people online, it runs the gamut. But you have to meet to see if the elusive four way match exists. And even if we like the other couple personally, sexual compatibility is another story.
The hunt can be exciting. We are not discouraged by misfires. Next!
We perform all the due diligence we can before meeting ie clear newer pics provided, brief discussions on interests and non interests etc. By the time we meet we are DTF unless they talk us out of it by - not matching pics and/or profile, acting like an ass or one showing little or non interest. Most of our meets involve 1-2 hrs of driving so we lean heavily on due diligence before hand.
I'm not sure there is a defined "DTF process". We pretty much do what you do. We meet, we talk, and if there's interest, we play. We always hope to meet and play again if everyone enjoyed the experience.
We do know that condom use is not the be all/end all for protection, but their use at the parties we attend is the norm and is expected unless all parties agree otherwise. We also let people know 2 on 2 that condom use for penetration is our norm.
We are very experienced lifestylers. We like to meet another couple for drinks, lunch or dinner. Then we go home and discuss if we would like to play. If yes, we ask the other couple if they would like to meet to play. If so, we ask when they are available.
We understand that at house parties, cruises and LS vacations, we have to be more spontaneous.
My question is what is the process for DTF couples? Have at it with anyone? It’s ok with us, but we like to be friendly/friends with our partners. What is the DTF process?
