A SM contacted us and one of his 2 or 3 pix included one that looked like a group prom pic.
Seriously, HIGH SCHOOL?! And there were 6 people in that picture. I told him that's not allowed (not sure how it got approved, either) and I wasn't interested anyway.
It's a huge red flag to see people showing pics of others in their profile, public or private. We can only assume that discretion is not guaranteed with those folks. We stay far away.
As hotlvrs stated, it's a big red flag for us. We had a SM contact us this week on the other website we are on, where profile profile pix and videos are not restricted like they are here. This guy had public videos of multiple different girls giving him a BJ. Now I will readily admit that seeing a pretty girl give a BJ is one of my most favorite visuals, but the fact this guy showed the girls faces and not one single face photo of himself tells me he does not give a shit about discretion for others. Hard pass.
My two cents.
HL wow.. thats just wrong!
Now the ones we do have...are on xxx locked ones shows us playing and they agreed to posting them .. !
Seeing faces of other people in someone else’s profile has been a big red flag for me for a long time. When asked about it, some will say they have permission from the other people, but it it still doesn’t seem right to me.
We connected with a couple here on SLS with tons of pics with other people on their profile. Many of the pics were far from G rated. That should have been a warning sign for us. Turns out the guy of the couple is a complete blabber mouth - kiss n teller. He's the guy I posted about some time ago that outed us to people we don't know at a resort we go to - where we had vanilla friends we keep a low profile with. Fortunately, we didn't hook up with them and he has no pics of us with them. Now, if we see someone with pics of that nature on their profile, we click away fast.
We were just contacted by a good looking guy with lots of G rated pics in his profile. He also has over 20 Certs to his credit. Something that set me back was the fact that a number of his pics have other people in them. Mostly younger ladies and one with a young man. I have to wonder first of all do the people know there pics are now posted on a swinger site and how can this guy even do something like that. I feel a person like that is not a trustworthy individual.
