Vanillas in the wild

GnipGnop - Once things get safer, you may want to look into local LS parties. It eliminates a lot of the issues of trying to meet people online. Easily 10x more productive and a lot less aggravation.

Can't see the original post, but appears it went something like converting vanilla people you know/meet to the LS. When I was with my ex and getting started in the LS way back when, every single female we found and a few couples were vanilla to start and ended up playing with us. They were all people we knew as friends and after some drinks and either skinny-dipping while boating or hot-tubbing, ended up playing with us. Not only were the females interested in playing, they were all very into bi play with her. Now, with my gf, we meet people in person at lifestyle clubs/resorts, but I'm always on the look out for vanilla friends we meet elsewhere that might show signs they'd like to swing.

"-Of course the obvious answer is "Don't mess with vanillas"-"

Cant argue with that - it helps to get smacked with the truth. We are still adapting to the LS and so far its been slow going. Only been with a handful of couples and while fun its such a pain in the butt hooking up. Flakes left and right, no shows, no response, going dark etc. it's all so tiresome.

-Of course the obvious answer is "Don't mess with vanillas"-

Sometimes the obvious answer is the best one.