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BobnCat72

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Who like to be Watched?

in Bi Couples ·

[quote=curiousnjguy]Love to be watched and groped[/quote]Watching and groping… great whether giving or receiving!

Viagra for Women called Dare to Play

in Senior Swingers ·

Pretty good study in a professional journal: CONCLUSION Topical sildenafil cream improved outcomes among women with female sexual arousal disorder, most significantly in those who did not have concomitant orgasmic dysfunction. In particula…

2025 Viagra for women called Dare to Play

in Women Talk ·

Pretty good study on a professional journal: CONCLUSION Topical sildenafil cream improved outcomes among women with female sexual arousal disorder, most significantly in those who did not have concomitant orgasmic dysfunction. In particula…

Double-barrel Blowjob

in 3-Some ·

Cat is excellent at it, both balls to balls and standing up. She’s not full swap, but this kind of fun makes up for it.

Interested in more opportunities to frot

in Bi Males ·

First time frotting, Cat was giving our regular playmate and me a double barrel blow job. She was giving her jaw a rest, but kept on rubbing our cocks together. Felt amazing; was hooked.

Current Best ED Med

in Men Talk ·

@Nolan - “I have been using Sildenafil “Once a day Cialis” for two years, with decent success.“ This may be your problem with Trimix . The combination of traditional ED meds with Trimix is contraindicated, largely because of the risk of Pr…

Code for Bi?

in Bi Males ·

Have been seeing “open minded” and “adventuresome “ as descriptors in profiles lately. Do you think these terms mean “open to bi play”?

Unsolicited photos

in Fantasies ·

By the way, we have had a flurry of new profile views and open pics since we made this post in the Forum. Unintended consequence….very nice, thank you.

Unsolicited photos

in Fantasies ·

Every so often, I’ll check the Profile of someone who has viewed us and find that they have opened some personal, or private pics, or both, but have not sent a message; just opened pics. I think it’s an interesting opener; pics, but no mes…

kinsey scale

in Bi Males ·

Assuming there is some variation of a Bell curve, would be interesting to know where the apex of the curve is

Pic Gallery permission

in 3-Some ·

No right answer…. If you open your private or personal pictures to someone during the course of a conversation, how long do you typically leave the access open, and why that length of time.

Man nipple

in Men Talk ·

Mine just aren’t wired for pleasure. Wish they were. Would love to have another erogenous zone!

Guys aging in to Bi?

in Bi Males ·

@cantbeliev…. A new category I hadn’t thought of; “the accidental bi-guy”. Whatever you call it, I think it’s a thing. Thanks for posting.

How did you get your wife/gF to begin swapping?

in Men Talk ·

@irishrose…. “I post in any thread that I see fit, so others should too. That is the glory of the internet” Careful with kind of heresy . I posted something similar and it got me blocked by RonKat… ??.

Have you tasted your own cum

in Men Talk ·

I frequently think about it during sex; super hot, a little kinky. Cumming on her tits and licking it off, sharing a post-load cum kiss. But then….I lose interest as soon as I cum.

All things Medicare and Social Security

in Senior Swingers ·

A factoid worth considering is that your spouse may inherit your rate after you die. My wife is younger than I am and made less money in her career. So, her monthly payout would be far less than mine based on her employment. If/when I die,…

Ass play

in Men Talk ·

HaHa!! Funny to see how many people have been blocked by Ron/Kathy. I think the Forum is entertaining reading and I post, infrequently. No idea why R/K has blocked us. Nice to know we’re in good company.

Guys aging in to Bi?

in Bi Males ·

I think I have seen more and more guys in their 50’s and beyond who have expressed interest in m/m contact. There may be any number of explanations: I could be seeing something that is not really there; there could be an evolution in socia…

Guys aging in to Bi?

in Senior Swingers ·

I think I have seen more and more guys in their 50’s and beyond who have expressed interest in m/m contact. There may be any number of explanations: I could be seeing something that is not really there; there could be an evolution in socia…

Shareing wife's pictures

in Bi Males ·

Desert…. Wondering, since you enjoy sharing pics of the Mrs., why you choose to have no pics on sls. No judgment implied, just wondering.

More couples with Bi men

in 3-Some ·

@Gomer. You describe a handful of activities here (pun intended) involving m/m contact. Interested in hearing if you, and others, think all those activities are “bi”?

Man nipple

in Men Talk ·

I wish my nipples were wired in like that. But…..no.

Couples embarrassed they like MFM?

in 3-Some ·

MFM… fewer people usually means less chance for drama. Plus, guy’s needs are generally just simpler. Nothing to be embarrassed about; it’s all fun!

Shave or wax?

in Men Talk ·

I tried “No Hair Crew” - Intimate hair removal cream. Unlike most creams that recommend not using it in intimate areas, this is advertised specifically for your junk. It worked pretty well. I suspect it would be better with regular use.

Who's idea was it?

in Bi Males ·

Cat and I had a guy over playing; erotic massages. He asked Cat if she would suck his cock. She looked at me and said. “I will if you will.” I looked at him and said. “I will if you will.” So, I guess it was a three way dare.

Pubic Hair

in Senior Swingers ·

@tallMark I have to say the same thing about sliding your hand into panties and feeling nothing but pussy and wetness.

When is it the time to quit swinging

in Senior Swingers ·

@jww…. With all due respect, we traveled through Bedford a few months ago, hiking the Midstate trail and saw your profile. It looked to us like your parameters for couples you were willing to meet were so narrow and restricted that you wer…

Photos of Couples

in Bi Couples ·

I have to say, @Hiway, your photos are great, not just for the artistic quality, but the subject matter is off the chart. Wish I could see them all.

M/M Massages

in Bi Males ·

Cat and I love an mfm where everyone gets a 4-hand turn on the massage table with a happy ending.

bi guys

in Men Talk ·

@A&J…. Of course boundaries, expectations and “no-go”s are made clear in advance of meeting anybody. Couldn’t imagine going into a “date” without everyone being on the same page. I guess maybe people meet based on profile alone, we wouldn’…

bi guys

in Men Talk ·

I don’t consider myself bi. But, in the context of MFM and MFMF play, I have had my cock played with by the other guy and have returned the favor. I don’t seek out guy/guy action and would withdraw from most guy/guy activity. I think a lot…

Cockring??? Yes or No?

in Bi Males ·

Definitely a fan of Primal. Was worried about getting it stuck on at first. But, it hasn’t been a problem.

Reversal of Adult Onset Low T

in Men Talk ·

200 mg./week…sounds like a lot. Usual does is 100mg./week. Also, most of the testosterone is out of your system in about 10 days. So, twice a month isn’t a good regimen.

Cum Ettiquite

in Senior Swingers ·

Separate Cum Ettiquite question: in an MFM; after the female cums, who should cum next. Who decides?

Where profile say straight and there bi

in Bi Males ·

I think a fair number of guys don’t seek out bi contact, but are ok with, or even enjoy, some guy to guy contact in the context of their hetero play. Is that bi? Bi-curious? Straight? Or, something else.

Cock rings anyone?

in Men Talk ·

@onehourcouple, I was a little concerned about the possibility of getting my junk stuck in a metal ring and the resulting pain and embarrassment. Turned out, with a little practice, it is a non-issue.

Frotting

in Bi Males ·

I posted on this topic before. I can’t see it pop up again (pun intended), without thinking how much fun it is.

Cock rings anyone?

in Men Talk ·

Ended up buying a Primal. After a little getting used to, it’s great! I had to try a few different sizes; too big, too small, then just right.

Creampie Eating

in Fantasies ·

I always have big plans to eat my own cream pie in the thick of the action. Somehow, the urge disappears as soon as I blow my load. Weird. Am I the only one?

Coming out Bi

in Senior Swingers ·

The chemistry, or vibe, or whatever you want to call it, in MFM especially, but MFMF too, has lead to some cock play hands on and oral. Not sought out, but thoroughly enjoyed.

Viewing porn

in Open Forum ·

We like it. Gets our brains turned to sex if we’re not already there. We generally lose interest in the video as we get focused on ourselves and each other.

RV CLUB FOR LIFESTYLERS

in Travel ·

Anybody know what happened to “Pineapple Express RV” on Facebook? Looks like they got “disappeared”.

Bi playful

in Bi Couples ·

It is “a thing”. Among the hundred fifty something choices for gender identification nowadays, somebody came up with a name for what you’re describing...wish I could remember it. “Hetero situational” or something close to that. I think it…

How many are on your block list?

in Straight Couples ·

Just a small handful of blocked profiles, mostly single males who persisted after polite “No thank you’s”. Funny to see we’re not alone in being blocked by R&K for making an innocent comment that apparently disagreed with their opinions.

straight male

in Bi Couples ·

We list the male as straight, but are open to bi contact with other guys - hands on and oral. It just seems easier to get into those details while we’re chatting on IM rather than go into details about our boundaries in the profile.

Cock rings anyone?

in Men Talk ·

Cock rings are pretty intriguing. Looked at the Primal ring @sfnative, The advice is all over the place with regard to the metal rings. Any opinions regarding metal vs. more stretchy options?

Obituaries

in Open Forum ·

Most of the haters never listened to Rush. They only heard the commentary by the intellectually dishonest media.

Frotting

in Bi Males ·

I posted this experience in the 3-some forum. Figured, since it ended in frotting, I’d post it here too. We are soft swappers. Cat likes the energy of another guy in the room while we have sex. Likes to see him watch us and stroke like he’…

You're last threesome

in 3-Some ·

We are soft swappers. Cat likes the energy of another guy in the room while we have sex. Likes to see him watch us and stroke like he’s watching live porn. I enjoy her cock lust and like to see a guy take pleasure in watching us fuck. Guy/…