It’s usually on at clubs or parties. It’s background scenery more than anything else, we don’t typically pay much attention to it. If you want to watch, there is always something better than porn to watch, at least at the clubs we attend. I’ve always been a fan of live theater though.
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We have seen it on at house parties and a club or 2. It's basically white noise for us. Makes sense to us in these settings but it's not necessary for us
owcangrace - I definitely get it. There's a certain formula that works well when it comes to porn that we enjoy. There was a time where seeing a girl get all her holes filled simultaneously and multiple times by multiple guys was hot regardless, but now a lot of that just looks like a girl doing her job, and not necessarily enjoying it.
We've definitely gravitated to more amateur stuff lately, and even then, the hottest ones are the ones that at least make it look like the girl is really enjoying herself. Even better if she's eager and vocal to boot.
Part of that formula also involves things moving along at a certain clip. For example, if the start of the porn is 10 or minutes or more of just her doing BJs, I fast forward past most of that. We watched one last night that had multiple guys, but only one of the 4 guys actually fucked her. Nowhere near as erotic as it could have been.
The Mrs likes seeing the guys focus on pleasing the girl, at least to start. Doesn't need to be a lot of foreplay, but seeing the girl get her pussy and breasts licked and fondled at the beginning is more of a turn on for her, rather than the girl just giving BJs and then getting fucked.
We both kind of like the ones where the hubby does the filming while seeing his wife get well used the way she wants to be, as I put it. Not as good though when the wife comes across like a pro. It's hot seeing a wife playing the "good girl" role of putting on a good show for her hubby, and way better when it's really obvious she enjoys doing it.
Another one we liked was a series that I called "White Tent girls", because they were shot in one of those portable shelter type tents. What was hot about them was that it started with just 1 girl and 1 guy. The guy got the girl hot enough to want another guy to join, then the 2 of them got her to a point where she wanted a 3rd, and soon after that she didn't care how many guys there were. It was usually a group of about 6 guys when all was done.
Lastly, and this is most likely just me, I love seeing a girl enjoy getting well banged in missionary position. That and reverse cowgirl really help display all of a girls "assets", and it still leaves openings for multiple guys at once.
We don't watch it at parties, it is just part of the scenery as you will. We do like watching porn together but its a search to find stuff that stimulates. We are hard critiques. We want the woman physically and obviously horny. We feel a scarlet chest and face, along with enthusiasm and hard nips proves that. Need some dirty talking peeps too! Rebecca Moore the British porn star we love from her Female Taxicab porn. We also enjoy MFM and hookups in our adventures and search out the "real" videos of the same on Pornhub, Hamster etc. So not so much garden variety porn as stuff we can identify with. When we find those, we like it a lot!
I don't mind it at house parties or at clubs. It sometimes help people start conversations as an icebreaker. I've never experienced it being anything more than mostly ignored as people mingle before the real fun begins.
Doesn't bother us either way. Most porn that I see is just sex scenes rather than a movie with some sort of plot. It does tend to help set the mood for a number of people. If at a party with an open room, would much rather watch the live play than porn, or better yet, be a part of the live play.
We like amateur porn, people, watching and making, especially making. Like many people in the lifestyle, we like watching and being watched. I would rather watch real people than actors.
I can't remember seeing porn played at a house party, but I see it at clubs often. It doesn't bother me one way or the other. I see the clubs as a place for experiencing kinks and fantasies. I'm sure there are people out there that rate watching porn in a sex club at the top of their fantasy list. To each their own ??
I loved porn in the 80s and 90s. Now, not so much. It could be that over time I have fulfilled most of the fantasies that I enjoyed watching on screen (reality beats porn lol) but I think the internet has taken the naughtiness of porn and made it mainstream.
We find porn at clubs and parties to be a huge turn-off. It's distracting, cheesy, and as cliched as anything about the lifestyle could possibly be.
At home with just the two of us is a different story. :D
Swing clubs we've been to have porn playing on the TV's. Been to some house parties where it's on. More like background music. Nobody really sits to watch it. Don't mind it as it sets the mood for what everyone is there for ;-)
I hate porn at parties. My brain keeps catching improbable dialogue and actions and it distracts me from the far more interesting real people who are right there, generally being far less stupid than what's on screen.
@linday
What is it like nowadays .... sure without the patch ..... but same shit; blowjobs, fucking pussy and sometimes ass.
There are only a few permutations in hetero or bi
nothing in rl is like it is shown in porn....
Re:…boring….
Porn in 1960s and 70s resembled two Brillo pads fighting for a hotdog.
Porn gets pretty boring after 5 minutes or so .... bee str8, bi, gay, or combinations.
We like it. Gets our brains turned to sex if we’re not already there. We generally lose interest in the video as we get focused on ourselves and each other.
We are generally very anti-porn. The industry is rife with abuse, it fucks up expectations of what sex is (particularly for males) which can cause performance and libido issues, and is generally not healthy to consume in our opinion.
We don’t watch porn at parties, however, we do like having it on for the background noises as long as it’s not loud.
