[LOCKED]Blocking someone

Phoenix, AZ, Us

No, my thought was complete, but if it had needed a coda, that wouldn't have been it.

I don't think you're going to get a ton of agreement here, although some people might have similarly strong feelings about lying about your age. I'm not one of them - there is no actual risk when someone does that, even if it's by a decade or more - as it's not information I'd get if we were meeting in person. However, even in that group of people who strongly object, you're probably in a small minority of people who take personal umbrage at the deception.

Sandwich, MA, Us

@rabbit visits our profile then leaves snarky comment on the thread to harass us. The definition of cyber stalking. You make it too easy.

Still waiting for you to employ the block though. C’mon, you can do it.

tbrmskssVeteran
San Diego, CA, Us

You seem to be inordinately bothered by something that is a relatively common occurrence.

New Orleans, LA, Us

Note made in bottoms profile.

“If contact is made, they will cyber stalk us”

That right there is a really good reason to employ a block.

~Scamp

San Luis Obispo, CA, Us

"So tempted to out them but taking the high road. Still aggravated though."

Seems like you told us more about yourself than about the other couple.

Charles Town, WV, Us

To even try to justify fudging your age speaks about someone’s character, yet the person justifying is already a bigot, hipocrite and liar from past forum posts I called them out on; not like I’m worried about that, yet is worth mentioning they blocked me for it. Haha!

IMHO: Doing background checks on others is a form of intrusion and choose not to do so. A phone number of a adorn forum member was given to me thru an accidental copy and paste email; I have done absolutely nothing with it and have the least amount of desire to and have only thoughts of concern for lack of privacy thru sloppiness or lack of attention to caution.

We once met a couple that googled us through various companies, even FB searched and “laughingly” brought it up at the beginning of a M&G with them; they said they couldn’t even find us. It’s a good thing Mrs. 888 and I am on the same page, I looked at her with that couple’s attention held and said, “Baby, we don’t exist”. She said, “Well, if we don’t exist, we certainly aren’t here.” We both walked out.

~Allen

Sandwich, MA, Us

@goodgolly let me finish your thought:
“ Reason #147 to never give your phone number to anyone you haven't met.....” especially when the information culled from said phone number proves you to be a liar, fraud, convict, or general scumbag. Yeah, that’s better.
To be clear. We never ask for people’s personal information. Ever. We go by what’s on their profiles and messaging on this site. If they decide to offer up personal information that’s on them and we’ll use it to keep ourselves safe from above mentioned liars, frauds, convicts or general scumbags. No apologies given.

tbrmskssVeteran
San Diego, CA, Us

Relationships are all about what you are willing to put up with...

Phoenix, AZ, Us

Reason #147 to never give your phone number to anyone you haven't met.

Sandwich, MA, Us

@hot c’mon man. Want to fudge your age a year or two fine. 10 years, gtfoh. They are lucky we didn’t meet. I’d have sent their lying asses packing. Knowledge is power. You bet I’ll run your number if you give it. Saved us a wasted evening on lying Dbags.

hotluvrsVeteran
Jeffersonville, IN, Us

The fact that that couple lied about their age is unfortunate; hope you have better luck next time. I think we would have met, and if we clicked, we’d fuck ‘em regardless of what age they wanted us to believe.

I’ve gotta ask, do you always do a reverse phone look up for a simple meetNgreet? It seems a bit much.

Sandwich, MA, Us

We were blocked by a profile today after finding out they were lying about their ages by 10 years and calling them on it. Pictures gave a hint but they doubled down by claiming we were wrong. We had been messaging back and forth and had set up a date for drinks. Problem for them is they provided a phone number and for $5.00 a quick reverse phone lookup report confirmed the real age. They were actually going to show up and meet us lying through their teeth like we wouldn’t know. Complete ass hats. So tempted to out them but taking the high road. Still aggravated though.

tbrmskssVeteran
San Diego, CA, Us

They don't show up on our blocked list...

Pleasanton, CA, Us

As a couple is it possible to block a particular profile if that profile already has couples blocked? Besides clicking the Block button on a profile is there another way to enter the handle of a profile you'd like to block?

New Orleans, LA, Us

I just noticed the same profile had also blocked us VA.

I would be curious who they haven’t blocked. Lol

~Scamp

Phoenix, AZ, Us

"...just tell me this"

Nope, Pennsylvania, but apparently they block all the "negative political trolls." Which, hey, I wouldn't characterize you as any of those, va, but whatever.

Windermere, FL, Us

We have someone posting in the fora that has blocked us - tittsfortatts - that i have no recollection of ever seeing their profile before, let alone interacting with them.

Maybe they just think we're fully.

Other peeps - just tell me this- are they local to us, or to Virginia? Ie might they be someone who might actually have met us and doesn't like us - or otherwise and probably just doesn't like my demeanor in the fora?

Leesburg, VA, Us

The blocking system here on SLS sucks. Ideally profiles shouldn't see anything of our profile yet they can still see our hot date posts and still try to message us through the f'ing app.

Windermere, FL, Us

One couple we knew got an email from another couple that seemed hot, on another site that allows explicit public pics. No face pics but what they could see? Mmm mmm mmm....

So they opened their face pics.

It was her brother and his wife.

She blocked them immediately.

She is now stuck with the memory of finding a pic of her brother jizzing on her sister in law hot before she knew who it was. Yikes.

CopNkittenVeteran
Phila, PA, Us

"We use to never block anyone, but in the last year, we have started blocking when we see people become arrogant, overly opinionated, or plain nasty to people we don't care to see any more of their comments so we have started blocking them. "

same

Nokomis, FL, Us

please , those of you that dont like us or what i say block away . it sorts out the trash .

cacpl_26Regular
Santa Clarita, CA, Us

We ran into an ex coworker years ago. We had no intention of getting involved with them but they emailed us. We told them we were flattered but we thought it might be weird since we knew them IRL. Fast forward about 9 months and the wives were naked. This situation worked out really well for us :)

But we have blocked others we know IRL because there is no way we're going there.

TallMark45Veteran
Tempe, AZ, Us

You all know who you all are, you write long responses and what you say or who are responding to is like a mind numbing, chalkboard scratching, dental drill in my mouth...Mary Jo

TallMark45Veteran
Tempe, AZ, Us

Being blocked and not having to read their stupid 5 to 10 lines of nonsense garbage is a wonderful thing.....Mary Jo

bobbyUSARegular
Chesapeake, VA, Us

If u have fair don't show your face... just suggest..... bdw a lot people here act like ass hols and deserve to be blocked