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In Praise of the Unshaven Vulva
...or How cultural trends got it wrong all this time Somewhere in the 1980s it became the norm for women to remove the hair from their pubic area. It became a trend that swept the…
3replies278viewsHotel Takeovers
Help, We are searching for hotel takeovers? Willing to travel to any of these states-- IL, MO, IN, OH, TN, KY, AK, IA Any ideas on how to find them? Thanks
3replies278viewsDJ or live band
We like to go to lifestyle clubs and do a little dancing to get comfortable. We are looking for places for NYE and have found some places we have been previously but the club is h…
by active2sum573replies277viewsProper Pronouncation - Areola
I have looked up online and received two phonetic options- Ah-Reel-Lee or ayr-ree-olah. Which is it? (I've used the second)
by MyRec5replies277viewsSexual Evolution
As we roll into the holiday season, a generally slower time which allows for some reflection, we've managed to find ourselves reflecting back on 2024. It was a big year for us wit…
by ncwv1replies276viewsSwinger Widow Marrying Single Man in LS
Has any single man ever married or become a partner to a swinger widow?
4replies276viewsSexy Silvers
We are looking for info on this group that does takeovers at hedo and other resorts.... we want to vacation with folks in our age bracket and are LS oriented...... Any help will b…
by md2020202replies276views- 2replies275views
Who does most of the legwork?
Hello! I'm just curious for couples who does most of the work in finding new playmates?
5replies275viewsMissed connection at Buffalo Iron Works
Looking for the couple from Rochester that was hanging out with the Mrs before the band played at Iron Works on Saturday March 16. Please reach out
by wlsvcouple1replies274viewsOpen question
As a single guy, is it better to go out with a group of other single guys and if so, what’s the ideal number or to roll solo
9replies273viewsHappy Leap Day
Since it only happens once every 4 years, I figured it is worth a shout out.
by DBCooperMN3replies273views- 2replies273views
Cards anyone?
When meeting a couple, I think the best way to get connected without that awkwardness is to play a game of cards with a glass of wine in cocktail or a beer!
by Dear_diary4replies272viewsHearing crickets
I dont understand why it is so hard to meet people from my area. I have had so many conversations with local couples that never get passed the first few messages. (Polite, and noo…
by Goodfwbfun2replies272viewsSinterklaas Eve / St Nicholas
Being Polish,I grew up with St. Nicholas putting nuts, fruits and treats into our stockings or shoes. However we paid more time fearing Krampus ~rabbit~
1replies272viewsLooking for fun this weekend
Hey guys, me (bi) husband (straight) are looking for another couple or female this weekend for us to host for. We aren’t exactly having much luck on here lately. We are a very res…
by Dipandskip9replies271viewsGangbang
What are some resources available to set this up? Have attempted getting multiple dudes on the same page for a fun night for the wife but they back out with the mention of others…
by Bobtina20161replies270viewsBBC
Question, What is so great about a BBC? So many wonderful women on sls and other social networks raving about BBC. Is it the length or girth that is pleasing to women, how long or…
by butch19430replies269viewsSingle male desperation - really?
Ok keep getting 25-30 year olds hitting us up - that is not a problem. But when you tell them they are too young, and get back an argument of I love mature, I know you want my dic…
by gbinnj1replies268viewsElbonian condoms
If there's any of you who've indulged in the wonderfully hot sex tourism in Elbonia, I hear that they've banned importation of foreign-made condoms, so you have to buy locally. As…
by sorillo10003replies268viewsAnal stretching
Question, Why is anal stretching for some women so interesting? Using large dildos even stretching using hands and arms sometimes both hands both arms completely up to the elbows.…
by butch19430replies268viewsTwo places they live in a profile
How are people 33 miles from me when I search on here and 412 miles away when I read the profile? How and why are they setting two different locations?
by Ymichael143replies267viewsWhere can I/we go?
Last year we had the opportunity to listen to several couples and individuals talking about having a bit of privacy. This is for the Burlington, N.C. area that includes Mebane, Gr…
by dragonrapide0replies264viewsLost art of email
Is it just me or is there no more way of writing a good email on this site? I am starting to realize, some of the messages I sent are truncated? Maybe I am doing something wrong,…
0replies264viewsMeeting new people question
After so many fakes and flakes we're thinking about meet and greets versus the frustration of connecting online. Where do you go to find local events to meet people?
by bfwp4u1replies263viewsUse of AI in the LS and in general
While there are multiple ways to do this, I've been finding lots of uses in and out of work for ChatGPT. Just now I had a profile in Spanish. I cut/pasted it into ChatGPT prefixed…
by mayhem80replies263viewsTSA says pack things that buzz in your carry on
They specified toothbrushes but added other things that can activate and buzz in checked luggage.
by gbinnj6replies262viewsExxxotica NJ
Who was able to go? How was it? Do tell ! Anyone attend the after-party or other party?
by Ftp19990replies262viewsMotorcycle Riders
Anyone interested in starting a motorcycle riding group. Excellent networking opportunity plus the fun that could be had. Midwestfuninseattle Steve & Mandy
0replies261viewsBoudoir photographs needed SC
I am looking for a Boudoir photographer near Greenville SC for a friend any suggestions?
by TabuCowboy1replies260viewsA book is banned because of vulgar content
From the BBC news feed: “A school district in the US state of Utah has removed the Bible from elementary and middle schools for containing "vulgarity and violence”
by hotluvrs2replies258viewsBrazil elections
This should probably be in the Politics section, but once again I’m reluctant to wade into that swamp. This past Sunday was Election Day in Brazil. There were two excellent candid…
by hotluvrs2replies257viewsHome Service Industry--Home serviceman/encounters?
I'm was in the the home service industry for many years, and was curious if anybody else (is/was); who may have stories of seduction (offers of) close encounters or actual sexual…
by YourWetWilly0replies256viewsSecrets Hideaway-visting for newbee night
Quick question, I've never to Secrets in Fl. Serious question, what does one wear? It is Fl where most of the locals live in shorts and flip flops... Jeans and a good fitting tee…
by SurferJ2replies255views- 1replies255views
Pin-Up ladies and Hot Rod’s
Looking through several profiles see a lot of ladies very much indeed looking like pinup girls of course see Harley Davidson people but is there ties with Hot Rod community as wel…
0replies255viewsChallenger Disaster 35 years ago today.
Thirty five years ago we lost 7 astronauts on the Challenger disaster . Cause of disaster a failed O- Ring.
0replies255viewsHappy Birthday Texas 185 years
Texans won their Independence 185 years ago this week .
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User Warning
I don't know if the same holds true with the women who are seeking men, but for men seeking women be very careful with users who have free accounts, and where the pics may look to…
2replies250viewsSLS Holiday Season PSA
Drunk driving is nothing to joke about. Going to do school shooting jokes next?
by 8inchcable1replies250viewsFree members
Does anyone know the trick to contacting free members since they don't see messages?
by milftaster2replies249viewsWhat Women Say
The YouTube video (12 minutes) “6 Things Women Say & What It ACTUALLY Means … (Don’t Be Fooled)” is geared toward single guys but I believe the 6 Things can be applicable to most…
by Zeemac0replies249viewsHotwife Bulls and stag hubby
Us: Thick hotwife, happy husband and 18 years of action. Safe place to talk, network and share. Ask us anything or share with everybody your stories, likes/dislikes and practices.…
by HWmami0replies248viewsPink flamingos and upside down pineapple
This might sound like a stupid question, but I have heard that pink flamingos and upside down pineapple in front of your rvs( or anywhere else) means you are a swinger. I just hea…
2replies246viewsUsing video chat on this site
Newbie here. Toying with the idea of using video chat to help satisfy my exhibitionist side. Is this safe to do on this site? Anyone have good or bad things to share? Any advice i…
3replies243viewsLake Placid swingers hang out locations
Any New Yorkers that can give me any places to meet fellow lifestylers in the Lake Placid ares. Heading there this weekend with my partner. Don't really want to run to Albany.
0replies243viewsPoetry about swinging?
We have been in and out of the lifestyle across 26 years of marriage and have lately enjoyed a new round of exploration. We are currently enjoying exhibitionism as we work our way…
5replies242viewsphoto
You should try to upload the original picture if you have it. We are no longer allowing screen shots. If you do not have the original, maybe just take a new picture. If you just h…
by sls_WayneC0replies242views