House parties

For the days before the internet when swinging was all about sex. Not about making money off of single men. It was so much fun.

Glory days. They'll pass you by. Swinging is such a chore for Ncal these days. Just no fun anymore.

IN ACCORDANCE WITH THE PROPHECY

Your post is so sad. To see what swinging is now reduced to. What you have said about your parties is sad. But true for all parties now.
Parties used to be all about sex, everyone was expected to get naked and fuck and have a ball. No one who did not get naked and fuck and have a ball would be invited back.

There was never a need for an icebreaker. the women would grab their favorite man and take him off to the bedroom before another woman got him. The women who liked to put on a show would grab a man right off the bat and fuck him on an air mattress in the living room in front of everyone as they walked in the door.

Every house party has its own vibe. I tend to invite experienced LS guests and many of them are regulars. While play is never expected I work hard to create a comfortable environment where everyone feels safe and secure while having a hot and sexy time.

As the host I try to get everyone going with a sexy Icebreaker. Most people are not willing to get the play started so it's up to me to set the stage. This far it's worked very well.

A few quality single men can be a great addition to the party. Ultimately, the success of any party depends on the mix of people you invite.

Robert

Parties used to be fuckfest, so much fun. My wife would go one way and have her fun and I would go another. Everyone was naked within a half hour after showing up.

Unfortunately, you are closer to being correct than we care to admit, ncal , maybe my wife and I are getting a little advanced in years for the parties we have attended, but there does seem to be less fucking going on, not that I was being negative toward the folks that like watching, we have certainly watched on many occasions, just wanted to see if that was looked upon negatively.

Very few people get naked and play anymore at any party. so enjoy putting on a show, you might be the only one that fucks that night.

We have hosted several parties and people participate at their own level of comfort. Some people come to just be social, some hook up, some like to be watched. Some dont want to be watched and just play with their own partner. Its whatever the comfort level is.
We also actively avoid parties with set agendas of be naked by x:xx time or expectations everyone will play.

if what is an issue, that some people attend just to watch and not to play? No issue for us, everyone is allowed participation to their individual comfort level. Sure we've met people at parties that we wanted to play with but they were only there to watch others so it was a mild disappointment. But we won't attend any event where folks are told you MUST play.

Have been to a number of house parties that had a few couples whose interest was watching others have sex, wee think its interesting and love putting on a show, and if there are single guys in attendance wife loves 2 or three guys at once to really give them something to watch, just wondering if this was an issue for anyone?