So TV curious minds.. are we in your 30% LOL
Guess some dont get when we say current and all photos in between now! LOL
We should probably accept CERTS so one can see that we are what we say.. Oh heck NO its no ones business who we play with!
To be honest, it's pretty rare to see someone who looks like their pictures. I've seen it maybe 30% of the time. The problem, is like certs... Who would post up bad pics of themselves? Ignoring the blatant photoshop and old pics, most people are still going to put their best pics first. Even on a platform like Facebook, you have the filters, angles, and best of the best pics.
Now imagine what it's like on a site where physical attraction can lead to group sex. It's to be expected at this point.
Just video verify of you must. Zoom is free.
I don't know how some of these false advertising camera wizards do what they do. I can't take a good photo to save my life, and they somehow reversed the "adds 10 pounds" rule. Burn them at the stake I say!
I have had wives apologize to me for being much heavier than their photos make them appear to be. My position is, I don’t care! This sweet woman sleeps with her husband all the time, and he’s happy with her. Why the hell would I not be happy with her because she’s 30 pounds overweight (maybe more) and doesn’t exactly look like her picture? When I meet with a couple, my full intention is to make the wife feel good. I don’t see anything offensive about a woman who is overweight or “fat“. As far as I’m concerned, she IS 20 years old, and she hopes to be treated that way.....like a young woman. That’s how I try to treat her. As long as the people I visit are clean and bathed and smell good (they all have been so) then they’re desirable to me......they are people The women take care of themselves very well, regardless of their weight. I don’t have anything that keeps me from making them happy. These heavier girls are usually all smiles, and their husbands are very pleased that I treat them so well. It is not an effort to treat sweet girls well; it’s what they deserve.
SLO
We tackle the problem by attending hotel takeovers, clubs, and house parties with lots of couples. With greater numbers of people, the odds of meeting a nice match increase significantly.
We've been burned lots of times setting aside full night, getting a baby sitter, getting all readied, and driving a bit only to meet a couple with an inaccurate profile and then struggling to invent a reason to escape them and salvage a messed up night.
If you wanted to go fishing would you choose a lake with exactly one fish in it you've never before seen or would you go to the ocean? It's like that.
Mr "H": I'm still waiting to hear how you address SPBHD's way being the only way introduced as a resolution, since you tried to tackle me for saying it isn't the "be all" way. Oh, and as much as I'd like to ignore such a small but relevant item, you've yet to introduce your resolution since your contributing to my butchering...……..
~Allen
"And I beg to differ with you Allan, Mrs. Hotluvers looks worthy of some hoops, as do most of the lovely ladies replying to this thread. "
Zonzy: Good for you single guy! Work it! ........that comment should put you right in the door...….Now which of those three are going to contact you for a picture with their name...…...lol
Now, I didn't say they weren't sexy and I do find Mrs. Hotlvrs, SPBHD and GGMM very enticing as well, no matter the stance we take; I just don't find any woman, except Mrs. 888of course! Love you babe!, worthy of the extra annoyance or even nuisance of a specific picture request. You really have to ask yourself just how fun and exciting someone is going to be come adult time if they are making demands and being controlling......…
Zonzy, FWIW, I'm not single nor in shortage of sexy women that don't require those hoops and I'm sure you're in no shortage either; even so if I were, I'd then prefer my hand, a bottle of Jergen's and a nice towel to clean myself up with when I'm done. You can expedite it being no loss to me to the bank.
~Allen
Thanks Zonzy
Allen,
You say that you were not being dismissive, but when you say “Posing with a piece of paper with a person’s name on it may work with those willing to jump through unnecessary hoops or those desperate for a piece of pussy”, I see that as being dismissive and derisive.
I suppose we’ll just have to agree to disagree.
As to the OPs question of how to know if a couples pics are real and current, that’s clearly a common concern on this site. I look forward to hearing other people’s ideas of how they tackle that problem.
The lowly single male jumping through hoops, at least until your established, may expedite your timeline.
And I beg to differ with you Allan, Mrs. Hotluvers looks worthy of some hoops, as do most of the lovely ladies replying to this thread.
Seriously now? It sure seems obvious you didn’t, because saying it was not the “be all” should have been fucking good enough to take that as there are other ways. Dismissive of her way? No, it was clearly typed out it wasn’t.
BTW, if you are so uncertain of us, a flag on your end is raised or your self’s lack of assurance that you need to know there’s actually a female or video of us together, you are more than likely drama.
The jumping through hoops bullshit to get laid is worth as much as your attempt to debate an opinion, simply you are not worth the effort either.
~Allen
Allen,
I would not presume to try to tell you something that you already know. Also, I don’t think it’s obvious at all that I missed something from your post. I read what you posted, but I also understood the tone as being generally dismissive of Sheplay’s methods. The second paragraph of my post was simply to lend support to her methods as a viable option for some couples.
The gist of my post was to disagree with your idea that only a desperate person would respond to a specific, detailed, photo request. I’m curious as to your opinion about people who respond to requests to voice verify, or video chat, before meeting. I am guessing you don’t consider them to be desperate.
MrH
I'm not a hoop jumper either, but there is a way in which it can be both hot and fun. I didn't ask, because I don't, but my newest playmate did so voluntarily. It was kind of adorable and the message insured I'd say yes to subsequent overtures.
I think we all find what works for us and sometimes it's fun to do things differently.
“if you’re into that, there’s nothing wrong with it either., but it isn’t a “be all” solution.”
Hotlvrs: There’s a quote from my earlier post because you obviously missed it when telling me it works for her.
You’re also not telling me anything I don’t already know or haven’t previously posted here or elsewhere related to this hoop jumping, with the exception of condemning my opinion. You’re entitled to your opinion as I am mine. Yeah, you gotta be wanting a piece of ass pretty bad to take special request pictures, but then again, maybe there is enough pussy out there that doesn’t believe it’s lined with gold that I, as the male half of this couple, don’t feel a need to accommodate. Mrs. 888 would also agree; I will just go ahead and go on to say she already has agreed on other occasions about this technique.
When we post pictures as regularly as we do, it is a hassle if/when requested; we are ones who won’t accommodate such nuisances.
~Allen
Allen,
Just because someone poses wih a piece of paper doesn’t make them desperate “for a piece of pussy”. Seriously, it can take less than a minute to find a blank piece of paper, a sharpie, and a mirror. It’s not a hardship.
Sheplays has obviously found a technique that works for her. Maybe it can work for others (it has for us). In fact, when dealing with the small horde of single guys that someone like Sheplays undoubtedly attracts, it can be an elegant solution.
Allen, you "Lucky Fucker"
Posing with a piece of paper with a person’s name on it may work with those willing to jump through unnecessary hoops or those desperate for a piece of pussy; if you’re into that, there’s nothing wrong with it either., but it isn’t a “be all” solution.
It doesn’t make those that don’t appease to those requests fakes nor flakes; we have been through this methodology technique in the forums before and it just narrows your findings down to those mentioned in the prior paragraph.
OP: We date stamp pictures 90% of the time, so there would be no mistaking us when we meet. We have been told that as well and believe it should be that way with everyone, unfortunately it isn’t. If they don’t look like their pictures, nothing is stopping you from calling them out, walking away, staying to chat or any other resolution you may proceed with.
~Allen
I don't have time-of-day for the pics people post … if a guy wants me to take him seriously, he can write my name on a piece of paper and snap a selfie holding the note. It's a great way to screen out the poseurs and pretenders.
We met a couple and they said that we actually look like our pictures...I thought that was crazy that they said that...yes those are our pics and they’re current....the other couple, their pics had to of been from 10 years ago and 30 pounds lighter. Why “false” advertise...people “meet” in person...how to you know if people’s pics are current or not.
