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Free members viewing profiles
I thought that free members could no longer see other profiles. Why is it that we are having free members in our list of members that have viewed our profile ? Has something chang…
4replies715viewsWhat Would It Be?
Considering your swinging experiences during the past thirty days, if it were a drink, what would it be?
by Tramp_ATL12replies999viewsDiscretion and face or sexy images online
Hello all, For those of us who require extreme discretion, I had a question for you all. I've found a lot of people like to share face pics on Kik rather than in the private galle…
by voltaire19814replies674viewsSnoody People
How do you approach the "Better than thou" swingers without being an arrogant asshole such as myself? The swingers at clubs you walk up too and introduce yourself "Hey I am so and…
7replies637viewsSwinging Boaters, particularly live aboard
We would love to combine two of our favorite activities, swinging and live aboard boating. We cruise in our small cruiser several times a year, and would love to find a couple(s)…
0replies451viewsDistance Problems
Hey, has anyone noticed the distances between cities being wrong or off? We have looked at profiles that say they’re are 50 Miles away which isn’t bad when we could split the diff…
by KingDMelonE2replies555viewsAsking for pictures
We have a lot of the men who reply asking for nude pics of my wife. She does not want nude pics sent before he meets them and ther is chemistry. One guy actually told her “ you ar…
7replies774viewsSeeking LS friends - Celebrity Equinox (Miami) June 23-30, 2018
We will be cruising on the Celebrity Equinox June 23-30, 2018 … sailing out of Miami. If you are on-board, definitely look us up! We will also be staying on in Miami a couple of n…
by melontstr3replies463viewsThe Lifestyle and STDs - some newb questions
My wife and I are new to the lifestyle, and we're wondering how common of an issue STDs are, and how you go about keeping yourself safe from this kind of thing. Any advice from ve…
20replies1,944viewsNot interested, thank you.
No one is entitled to an answer, specially single men. I get that, I really do. But, telling someone you’re not interested can save a lot of time and shows you as someone polite,…
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Billboard #1 song
Go to en.wikipedia.o rg/wiki/List_of_Billboard_number-one_singles Find the song that was #1 on the day you were born. Just for fun.
3replies480viewsDream Music Concert
If you could create one mega show with 5 living and/or deceased musicians..... Rock, Blues, Rap, Soul, Jazz, Country, etc. One opening comic. One opening act. Two more bands/singe…
by 8inchcable11replies1,006viewsFacebook FWBs
We were checking our FB last night and got to wondering how many people on our friends list we had sex with. rabbit = 4 Scamp = 11 That got us to wondering, if you are on any kind…
14replies1,426viewsSame day play
Anybody had any luck when late in the day the decide they want to play that night but don’t know how to put it out there. Im a single guy but i play with several married females a…
6replies876viewsPic Subscription Phone Sex stay anonymous?
we have a question. We (wife and hubby) have been trying to think of a way to send sexy pictures and/or used underwear or do phone sex (we get many requests!) to fans but do not w…
by JamesnDolly4replies536viewsLocation Setting
Has anyone had issues with the location setting on their profile? I changed our location to a city we will be visiting soon and then tried to change it back to our hometown howeve…
by Shark1611replies1,465views- 6replies550views
Blocked profiles
We sometimes click on a profile and it says "you have blocked this user" but in fact we have not blocked them. I only have two people blocked on this site. Does anyone else have t…
by funlyfriend6replies613viewsHow do I change my entire profile
No longer with partner. Need to change name and all content.. How do I do that?? Angel
1replies554viewsFOSTA taking action.
Several pages have been seized by the FBI in collaboration with other government agencies. Backpage has been seized by government agencies over the new FOSTA law passed last month…
13replies1,545viewsLifestyle podcast suggestions
I spent several hours in the truck today and searched "swinger" on the IPhone podcast app for my phone. I was surprised at the number that came up. I tuned into several with "Spir…
by dreamsofdirt10replies1,048viewscontact info in free profiles
So we have noticed quite the uptick in free members putting an email address, kik, etc into their profile due to the current restrictions on free members which is not allowed, at…
by Choose44574replies3,531viewsOld Pictures
I'm sure the topic has come up but I looked for it in the headings and couldn't find one . I understand for most of us, when we were younger, more fit, weighed less , those are th…
by ZeroDrama5301replies598views- 2replies505views
Archived emails
We have noticed that to look old email correspondence that they have been deleted. Archived email only goes back 12 months. SURPRISE !!!!
0replies420viewsIn Sand Springs, Okla
In May me and the better half are going to be in Sand Springs Oklahoma May 6th through the 9th, we were wondering if there was any parties going on or get-togethers in that area o…
2replies445viewsHas anyone else had their profiles EDITED ??
Has anyone else had their profiles EDITED ?? More knee jerk reactions or money grab?
by yolocouple4u6replies807viewsTatt's
Fellow NY members... Looking for a Tatt shop that has an artist that specializes in B&W fine line work. Not into color just want tone on tone of black greys and whites.... any sug…
by fun4all7910replies1,277viewsCasual avoided topics
Is there anything about yourself you don't mention when getting to know potential playmates or random people in swing environments ? I ask my husband not to talk any politics for…
by ZeroDrama5304replies647viewsYO—SITE ADMIN—LOOK HERE AND REPLY PLEASE
I've gotten some private communication from Wayne on the topic. In short, and this is my own paraphrasing - the site has gone bonkers in an effort to protect itself from perceived…
3replies744viewsFree Profiles
What's going on with the free profiles.... I know the book answer of sls protecting themselves.. blah blah... I have met and or talked to some very nice and down to earth people t…
by wildohiocpl4replies650viewsAre threads disappearing for a reason, or just a house cleaning?
We're relatively new to the forums and have enjoyed reading through some of the older posts. Today, many are gone. Is this normal?
by dreamsofdirt56replies2,636viewsThe Dawn of a New Dark Age is Upon Us (FOSTA Changes Our World)
So we have a new set of so-called rules that say they are intent is to stop sexual trafficking. HR 1865, "FOSTA" is, in reality, a means by which ultra conservatives can once agai…
by GayleMichael85replies4,605views911 call Need of advice and assistance
New with the "lifestyle'. Single straight male looking for fun, honest, down to earth people to share like wants and needs. Not asking alot, right? Here is what I am experiencing,…
by Singlemanluv4replies640viewsRoommate.
I have been ask to move n with a couple. He is straight she is bi hot wife. I don’t have to work. They will take care of all my needs. Believe me, they have the means. The house,…
by Ironman19751replies548viewsSome profiles.
I’m met here and I can’t believe some of the profiles. If you and your spouse are 300 pounds each, why would you expect a 175 muscular billionaire join you for fun? I understand y…
14replies1,213viewsWho has the hottest profile pic?
Some good ones on here. Who’s got the hottest profile pic?
by clubhoppers4replies767viewsSafe website for erotic photo prints and books
We've gotten back from Desire Pearl and had the Erotic photo shoot, bought the flash drive. Now searching for a safe website that makes nude prints and books and maybe a canvas. A…
4replies594viewsPicking swingers out of a crowd
I'm kind of proud of my swingdar, I pick out a SLS couple out of a crowd the other night!
13replies1,856viewsWe're slingers!
My wife and I laughed our asses off at this commercial today... https://youtu.be/FC8IWkV3u5w
by BigCh33z1replies618viewsWA Biker Meet and Greet
Come join us for a Biker meet and greet with lifestyle, swinger friendly riders to discuss summer events. On April 14th 2018 at 7:00 pm at Pub 44 in Lynnwood Washington. 19720 44t…
by Darrnkare2replies508viewsWhat's the small number in the profile picture?
We've been on here for nearly a year and still can't figure out what the hell the little numbers are for in the bottom right corner of the profile pictures... Hell we even have a…
1replies495viewsWTF? IM of the day
To call out SLS members who are not here to defend themselves is considered bad form. Consider genericizing your post.
4replies565viewsURGENT: SLS web access security from unauthorized others
You may have noticed that the architecture of this site is circa early 1990s so one would imagine their security protocols are similarly outdated. ~S~
20replies1,825viewsCounseling - south Carolina
Seeking a marriage counselor that is lifestyle familiar and friendly in the South Carolina area (or N carolina/ga if close to sc border) Issues dont stem from lifestyle -but as pa…
1replies593viewsCounseling - south Carolina
Seeking a marriage counselor that is lifestyle familiar and friendly in the South Carolina area (or N carolina/ga if close to sc border) Issues dont stem from lifestyle -but as pa…
0replies510viewsHeroes
Who are you heroes? More specifically, who do you look up to and admire for what they do for the world? I have a few, although only one is likely to be known to anyone here... and…
39replies2,273viewsBut, what really matters is .
One of the simplest lessons in life is to learn that the part of a statement that follows the *but* is the only part that really matters...to the one talking. Take no heed to the…
5replies822viewsIndian Hills nudists Park
Has anyone ever been here, Or parked their Rv their ? We are looking to spend a few weekends there this summer ??
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