How important is physical attraction as an element in the lifestyle?
in 3-Some ·
It's not that important to us. We've played with people we weren't attracted to, and it's been one of the best times for all. The lifestyle should be fun.
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Same Room or Separate
in Women Talk ·
We would 100% agree with 25MOre. Happens a lot. We shy away from profiles saying he loves to watch his wife get fucked. Huge red flag to us as to how much he'll be paying attention to my wife.
Wedding Ring Poll
in Women Talk ·
I always wear mine, same with my wife. Unless you're cheating, there's no reason to hide the fact you're married.
MM oral to please your lady??
in Men Talk ·
Won't happen here. We did meet a couple earlier this year, where the male half did that with someone they were with, because it was her bucket list. Told my wife, if that's on your bucket list, be prepared to die with it.
Bullshitters .
in Finding Playmates ·
Sometimes it's fun to just play along with them.
Blocked for no reason
in Swinger Advice ·
Could depend on what your answer was. When we send a message and they say not interested, we normally block them after. We don't want to bother looking at their profile again.
VILLAGES ???
in Finding Playmates ·
That seems to be the norm. We've contacted I don't even know how many, only to get no response. When they don't respond back within a week, they just go on our block list.....that list is pretty long. We always respond back to everyone tha…
Words that turn you off in a profile
in Swinger Advice ·
"we are hot and sexy"
Orgasm
in Men Talk ·
My wife has the same problem when it comes to having an orgasm. She can have them, and they can be extremely intense. So far, I'm the only one that can get her there, but It takes time and a lot of oral. Others have made her cum, but not w…
Smack that ass or just rub it a lil bit?!
in Men Talk ·
It depends on what kind of signals I'm getting from the woman.
How to convince my wife
in 3-Some ·
Simple......you can't.
What do you do if a condom breaks?
in Men Talk ·
I will also counter that guy's know when they break. I've had them break, (not in recent years) and did not know until I pulled out. But, if you know it, you stop and put a new one on.
How many many men have fucked your wife/gf?
in Men Talk ·
Why keep track? Should be fun, not a score card.
The courtesy of a reply
in Open Forum ·
Happens all the time.
March 2020 Cruisers!
in Cruise Talk ·
Oasis of the seas 3/15
Pet peeves
in Women Talk ·
Could have been an easy out. We'd rather hear that they're not interested, then an excuse that's not in their profile.
Pet peeves
in Women Talk ·
People that leave out information in their profiles. We contacted a couple the other day. The reply we got back was she's into younger guys. I went back and looked at their profile, and no where does it say this.
Rough night, lot of questions
in Swinger Advice ·
I would have told him. Touch my wife again, and you'll leave with one hand. I would have made sure everyone heard me. First rule. Protect your wife.
The womanizer vibrator
in Women Talk ·
When my wife first tried one, it was at a party. She really didn't care for it, but we think it was more the operator then the machine. I did buy one, and all I can say is she loves it. She can soak the floor. So it's all in the operation…
why dont people put their weight in profile
in B.B.W. ·
I think some are afraid it will turn people off from their profile. I put our weight in. MY wife isn't fat, but does have the baby belly that ever went away. Maybe that's why we don't get many birds from others. It is what it is. I'd rathe…
Viagra
in 3-Some ·
Yea, I was thinking Cialis.
Viagra
in 3-Some ·
@Wuzzy, 80mg? That seems like to high of a dose.
Girlfriend for 4 months, no sex. I NEED SOME ADVISE!
in Women Talk ·
Advise....yea. Get a new girlfriend.
Doesn't eat pussy?!!!?
in Women Talk ·
You're right, I wouldn't know, nor would I want to find out. I'm not into someone who thinks they are all that and then some. So if telling you I don't eat pussy would get rid of you, yea I'd lie about it.
Blocked for no reason?
in Open Forum ·
Its funny because that happened to us the other day. I only clicked on their profile, never sent any messages, The next time I clicked on it, we were blocked. I have blocked people that I have sent messages to that have either responded ba…
Doesn't eat pussy?!!!?
in Women Talk ·
My other thought is that maybe there was something about you he didn't like, and figured the sure fire way to get you to leave was to tell you that.
Doesn't eat pussy?!!!?
in Women Talk ·
Did you ask why? Maybe he had a bad experience that has made him reluctant to do it. I know a woman who does not give head, because of such an experience.
Long Time on SLS and no certs - red flag?
in Finding Playmates ·
We also don't give or want them. It's no ones business who we've played with.
Accidental Cream Pie
in 3-Some ·
If it was an accident, He would have said something when he pulled out and saw it had broken.
Age of Unpredictability
in Women Talk ·
My wife had that same problem a few years ago. It was to the point that we wouldn't even dare to make plans to meet anyone. Just when it looked like the coast was clear, it would show back up. When we did make plans to meet and aunt Flo sh…
Very New!!!
in Women Talk ·
We had a few rules when we started. Always same room play, never play alone, if one didn't play then neither played, Always ask each other before going with some one. No kissing. We found that rules really limited what either of us could d…
why is it so hard to meet have fun and be real
in Straight Couples ·
We wish we knew the answer ourselves. We sent out emails and have gotten few responses back. Some we've met, but most have either just stopped talking when we set up a meet.
Pet Peeves
in Open Forum ·
Couples that never respond to mail. It's really not that difficult.